Category Psychology

The modern world is often unfair and cruel. Uncertain and closed people often remain outsiders. Especially the problem of communication is in his youth. Boys and girls can not find friends, defend their opinion, they are not interesting to their peers. How to become more sociable? It is necessary to develop communication skills, to fight with their own complexes, uncertainty.

Why do people lie? Since childhood all have instilled the conviction that it is impossible to lie and you must always tell the truth and be sincere. But why do people lie to each other, and what are the reasons? Absolutely everyone in his life at least once, but he lied. And according to statistics, people all day lie about fifteen times.

In this article I would like to share my thoughts on one of the most common problems in Russia - alcohol consumption. Moreover, it concerns everyone: beginners, moderate drinkers and alcoholics. By the way, people invented all these divisions themselves; in fact, I believe that there is no clear line here.

The characteristics of a person’s character are the basis on which others form an opinion about him. Personality traits determine its behavior, attitude towards oneself and others, motivation, achievements. Knowing what moves a person, on the basis of which he makes decisions, one can objectively evaluate him, find out whether he is suitable for relationships, friendship, work.

The meaning of the word bargain in the modern sense means to negotiate and receive a concession in price. Bargaining is similar to the negotiations of two parties, each of which wants to get the maximum benefit. The seller wants to sell the product extremely expensive and use the proceeds for the intended purpose - to re-invest in the business or spend on their own needs.

Probably every person at least once in his life tried to find out what happiness is and how it can be achieved. This ephemeral concept has a hundred definitions, a bunch of interpretations, but sometimes even the most common ones are difficult to relate to real life. What is it, and is it possible to come up with a specific definition for happiness? Possible variations of definitions? The concept itself even has too many definitions.

Now there are hundreds of different theories about how to succeed, be more effective, happy. Different authors deduce peculiar laws, rules, axioms of what is necessary or unnecessary to do. To understand all this diversity is quite difficult, especially because there is no evidence that one or another theory will work specifically for me.

Today we will talk about the person closest to us - about ourselves. It is often possible to find a situation where we are kind of pulling in different directions, and we cannot decide what we want. Rather, we want different things that mutually exclude each other - and these our desires are pulling us in different directions, not letting us focus on something concrete.

Friends for any person are a kind of shield from the problems occurring around. They can always be trusted, their help is invaluable, and support is invaluable. But what about those people who are alone in life and do not have friends? First you need to understand the psychological characteristics of this problem Lack of friends: the opinion of psychologists Psychologists have long concluded that a person needs to communicate for a normal life in society.

"I constantly wonder why I am ugly? I look at some girls and envy! If they just waved with their fingers, the whole world lies down at their feet! Guys, grades, friends, everything comes easy for them. on the stomach, thin lips, small eyes, crooked legs, small breasts.

Why our desires are not fulfilled? We appeal to God, the universe or our own subconscious with ambitious requests to give us the small (or many) things we need. But in response, we hear only silence. How to make "orders" for which the universe will respond, and will respond positively? 1. Desires should not be much.

Money matters are often too acute in a person’s life. Having a certain stock of material resources, a person can afford everything he had ever dreamed of. How can you attract money into your life, and how can you tune in for future financial success? 5 qualities of a successful and prosperous person. Not every person understands that his material condition directly depends on his own character.

How many articles have been written about positive thinking. How many trainings, online seminars and books on this topic can be found in the global network! Do you really need to read and understand a mountain of information in order to understand how to become an optimist? Not at all! We have identified the most important and offer you the basic recommendations and advice of psychologists.

Many of us very often understand that we need to change something in our lives for the better, come up with some kind of strategy for spending our time that would bring us more interest in life and money. We are tormented by the monotony of our everyday life and the monotony of the weekend, we are not satisfied with our level of income, and, in general, everything has long been tired.

A complex is a psychological state that distorts the perception of oneself, surrounding reality. Looking at the world through its prism, it is difficult to adequately assess reality and attitude to yourself. They have been formed since childhood, and therefore it often seems that it is impossible to get rid of them. But psychologists have rightly noticed that the recognition of the problem is half the way to its solution.

In addition to the well-known types of people, allocated depending on the way they perceive the surrounding reality - audial, visual and kinesthetic, they also distinguish people who perceive the world around them with the help of logic. This type of people is called discrete or digital. There are no discretes among children.

In the modern world, stressful situations are not uncommon. People often spend most of their time on unloved work, because of which they break down on loved ones, lose control of their own emotions. That is why stress relief techniques are now worth their weight in gold, especially if they prove to be effective and do not damage the moral qualities of a person or his health.

Nothing lasts forever, including relationships, even if they are for love. But how to survive the separation from your loved one, if everything happened so unexpectedly. "Suddenly" is nothing. The very first thing that is necessary to realize and understand is necessary. If he decided to leave, it means that the relationship in some ways did not suit both.

"I am not happy about anything, everything seems gray and dull. I already forgot when I last dreamed about something. It seems that I have become an old woman - decrepit, frail, eternally unhappy. Tired of everything. What should I do?" Similar thoughts arise for everyone. At a certain point, a person gets tired of his work, daily duties, and those around him.

Good day! I have already appealed to you for a month, the topic was called The guy stopped paying attention to me after the death of my brother. I really need your help again. My young man left me ... He left to live with his parents ... And I moved out to another apartment. I am very worried about this, waiting for his call every day, waiting for him ... He sometimes comes ... and we just have sex, talk, then he leaves, disappears ... I am very sick from such a relationship.