What should be the perfect girl? Is it possible to be perfect in everything? Someone will say that it is impossible, because there is no limit to perfection, someone will say - of course, but you need a lot of work on yourself. What is the ideal, and how to become an ideal girl?
First, it is necessary to find out what exactly prompted thoughts of one’s own imperfection. What makes you think that something is wrong? Making a plan to turn yourself into an ideal girl should begin with a clear understanding that you can not like everyone. If the source of the problem was a relationship with a man, then it is enough to remember that someone likes blondes, someone is red, someone is tall, slim and mannered, and someone is small and well-fed laughter. Everything is simple - the opinion of a stranger, which has no basis, should not be a reason for the development of self-dislike.
What to do to be perfect
Returning to relationships (since it is difficulties in communicating with the opposite sex most often become the cause of “self-digging”), think not about how to attract a man with whom you don’t have relationships, but for what reason they don’t add up. If you are internally completely different people, then no changes in appearance, attempts to adapt to it will not lead to harmonious relations.
It is necessary to understand what is good together for people who are close to each other in upbringing, moral principles, and life goals. Such people are attracted to each other. Therefore, this article, like any other, can only set the direction in which you should act, and you can only write all the points on your own, focusing on how you see yourself in a few (5-10) years.
Appearance
It is not necessary to have an ultra-fashionable wardrobe and look through the pages of women's magazines with a frenzy, trying to find a new way to improve yourself. Pick up what suits you and what you feel confident in. Wearing shoes with a 15 cm stiletto, if you can't walk on it, stupid, agree. Accuracy, tidiness, compatibility in colors and garments - that is, perhaps, all that is needed.
As for the body - the most frequent female problem is the one called “I'm fat”. Here it is necessary to adequately assess the situation: if excess weight is really present and prevents you from living, take dumbbells and go on a diet. If this is just another reason to find flaws in yourself - learn to love yourself.
Paying attention to the appearance, we should not forget about such elementary things as: manicure, good haircut, properly selected cosmetics. A few evenings spent with cosmetics and videos on the Internet, will allow you to learn how to quickly put yourself in order in the morning.
No matter how you look, a stooped back, an extinct look and a dull face will always spoil the impression. Therefore, always watch your pace, smile and give others a good mood.
Demeanor
Unfortunately, the modern pace of life can make a real race horse out of a woman. It would be desirable to be in time everywhere, especially it concerns work - many dream of taking a leading position, and this often requires more effort from a woman than from a man. As a result, girls become tougher, sarcastic. This is projected onto privacy.
In no case should we forget that a man always leads a relationship (at least he must be sure of this). Therefore, to raise his voice, shout, insult him, trying to prove that he is wrong, is strictly prohibited. This also applies to relationships at work: it is simply inadmissible to sort things out with colleagues. In any conflict situation, learn to control your emotions and look at yourself from the side - will you feel perfect half an hour after the hysteria? To be able to control oneself and to be above any difficult situation is an indicator of one’s own self-esteem.
Learn to respect the people around them and their point of view. Everyone has the right to their opinion, just calmly and confidently express their own.
Broaden your horizons
Erudite, understanding thin humor woman will always be more attractive. If you want to shine in society, to be able to keep up the conversation, then continuous development is an obligatory step of your ladder to the ideal. This can take a lot of time: after all, this includes the study of classical works of literature, and professional development, the study of works of artists and composers, foreign languages - everything you want to succeed.
Finally
Whatever you think about how to become an ideal girl, never break yourself and do not adjust to someone else's point of view. By doing this, you will live someone else's life, you will longed to remember things you once loved, to communicate with people whose worldview is at odds with yours. Be perfect for yourself - develop in your chosen direction and praise yourself for your own achievements.
