How to make the guy you like to run after you

If you want the guy to "demolish the roof" and he could neither eat nor sleep, dreamed of meeting, counted good-bye minutes and was your eternal "tail," you need, first, to please him. Therefore, immediately throw out of your head the idea that any male is easy to conquer just by clicking fingers with a fashionable manicure.

When you see sympathy in the eyes of a young man and realize that he is interested in you, you should carefully bring him to the fact that you are special and you cannot lose such a girl, you need to urgently hold and “tie” to yourself until you have increased.

Become an ideal

Since childhood, a man has formed an image of a woman he wants to see alongside. Your task is to conform to this ideal. Try to find out a young man: preferences, idols (especially women), tastes in food and clothing, hobbies ...

Unobtrusively ask him to tell about his parents. Pay attention to how he talks about his mom and notice what he praises: often young people subconsciously look for a girl who looks like a mother by her appearance and character.

Be independent

You are a person, you have your own life: rich and interesting. Allow the young man to “infiltrate” into your space, but emphasize your independence. Let the guy feel a certain detachment: it will attract him even more.

This man is interested in a strong and confident woman, intellectually developed, with a broad outlook. They are respected, valued and run after them, fearing to lose.

Behave naturally and naturally, gradually adding to the relationship notes of self-will and volatility

Emphasize individuality

Do not forget - men love with their eyes. The first thing that a guy will notice when meeting is the expression of his eyes, smile and hair condition. Of course, for a young man, your figure, posture and gait are important, but if he has already invited you for a date, you can relax, this qualification has already been passed.

Of course, you follow the condition of the skin, the beauty of the hair and the slim figure. But it is also important to learn to dress with taste and emphasize their external data, emphasizing the most attractive features. If, for example, you have a dimple on your cheek, then, be kind, smiling, show the guy your zest.

Don't say i'm free

Do not focus on the young man. Live a full life: flirt, meet, make friends and communicate with people of the opposite sex. Sad as it may be, but among men there is a strong opinion "if it is not interesting to anyone, then it is not interesting to me either."

Hint the guy that you use the attention of men, and you are surrounded by fans. Use this technique, even if you have no one else but him: the young man will be worried and jealous, his desire to be with you will become stronger.

Remember: that which is easy to get is low valued ...

Be mysterious

Simple as five fingers, the girl is interesting only to the same, "close" lad. If you want to make a smart guy have a strong desire to be around, cultivate an element of understatement in relationships.

Do not reveal all the cards at once - make him guess what your words or behavior meant. A man likes to gradually "solve" a woman, and her task is to make sure that this occupation does not lose its relevance as long as possible, preferably a lifetime.

Surprise and admire

Be yourself, but try to compare favorably with other girls. Agreeing to have dinner at a cafe, report that you will pay your bill yourself. You immediately make it clear to the guy that you want to build relationships at the level of partnership, and this behavior causes respect and interest.

As if by chance, show your achievements to the young man, share your ambitious plans for the future, show your determination on the way to the goal.

Be gentle

Do not forget about the qualities that attract men - femininity, vulnerability, and sometimes helplessness (it is important to give a partner the opportunity to prove himself a real man), pliability in trifles, gentleness and sentimentality.

You do not need to become "your boyfriend" and show indifference to the feelings of the young man. You need him - show it: hints, jokes and subtle flirtation.

Let him speak out - men love to talk about themselves.

Do not make mistakes

To make the guy feel an urgent need to keep you in sight, do not commit offensive slips:

do not impose - your insatiable desire to control him every step and demand a report will lead to the fact that the young man loses interest;
do not be available - an impregnable girl who needs to be sought will attract far more than a person whose winning will not require even the slightest effort;
Do not confess your feelings - let the first step be his initiative.

Psychologists advise to use the "carrot and stick" tactics: charm a young man, attract, drive you crazy, and then disappear, surrender, do not answer calls, ignore. Believe me, this method gives an absolute result, and the guy will turn circles around your house, expecting an unpredictable chosen one.

Soon you will notice that the guy is trying to become the main person in your life, and you are free to choose whether to give him a chance or not.