Relationships adorn life, and many girls want to have such an adornment. Unfortunately, not always guys actively take the initiative. How to meet a guy who does not fit first?
First of all, the girl needs to determine which particular man she would like to meet. It depends on where this can be found. Conservatives, calm and well-read dwell in libraries, clubs and clubs of interest. Gambling, sports, easy-going and energetic - amateur athletes, skiers, cyclists.
If a girl does not fully know what she wants, she first needs to understand herself. At the same time, it is important not to move away from reality: it is necessary that life values really coincide, otherwise conflicts are inevitable.
If we are talking about a particular person with whom the girl sees each day, for example, at work or at school, but did not have the opportunity or the courage to get acquainted, then the search is much easier.
Where to find
Once determined with the goal, you need to look for a place and ways to implement it. To do this, you may need to expand the scope of activities: play sports, enroll in a club or library.
Almost any community has a page on the Internet. It is useful to register, read, what this team lives, what is accepted and what is not, and at the same time get to know the members of the club in absentia and think about how to meet a guy who has attracted attention.
In addition to such "specialized" places, we must not forget about parks, shops and places where there are people. Women who have a dog are easier to meet with guys who are walking their pets. The topic of conversation is always with you: about dogs. You can ask how the name of the pet, whether it is possible to play with him, stroke. The man will be pleased that his four-legged friend was noticed. At the same time, you can easily find out how he treats those who are weaker than him.
Appearance
Although the most important thing in a girl is her inner world, so that someone wants to know him, you need to have an attractive appearance. This does not mean that you need to deplete yourself with diets or plastic surgery. Attractiveness involves several factors:
- Cleanliness. Do not think that the guy does not notice dirty hair and untidy clothes. And talking to a girl who has a bad breath is almost unbearable. Even if the topic is interesting.
- Taste. The right combination of clothes and makeup gives the impression of a balanced girl. When choosing clothes it is worth keeping in mind the purpose of dating: if you want to communicate and develop serious relationships, you should not dress defiantly.
- Appropriate appearance and behavior. A girl who decided to ride a mountain bike in high-heeled shoes would cause an ironic smile.
What to say
Most girls are embarrassed when they need to talk to an unfamiliar, handsome man. To cope with excitement, it is not necessary to suppress it by an effort of will. It is quite sincere and open smile. This will set the interlocutor and give confidence.
The easiest and most common way to start a conversation is to ask for help. It can be any simple task: tell the way, time, get something from the top shelf. After a sure thank, friendly smile. Next - on the situation: go further on their business, waiting for the next meeting, or offer coffee in gratitude for the service.
Most guys know this simple method. Therefore, the true motives of the girl for him will not be news. If acquaintance is interesting to him, he will support communication.
If the courage to speak is not enough, you need to take a look. The same situation: the girl needs help, and at the same time looks at the person. Her silent request is obvious, probably the young man will approach and offer help himself.
In another situation, you can offer the help yourself, for example, if he is new at work or at an educational institution. At the same time you need to look friendly - no more and no less.
Common mistakes
Thinking about how to get to know a guy is worth considering and how not to do it.
Do not lose the natural behavior. A stretched smile, strange jokes can repel, and an attempt to make oneself different from what it is, is doomed to failure. The excitement is understandable, and do not be ashamed of a light blush on the cheeks.
Do not lie. For example, when meeting with the owner of the dog you should not say that there is such a pet, too, if it is not so. Lies cause mistrust and disgust.
Girls have a feeling of jealousy when they see someone with whom they want to meet another woman. You need to keep yourself in hand: caustic remarks about the “rival” or trying to remove her from her path are inappropriate, most likely, will be perceived as envy of a decent person.
To take the first step, you need a lot of courage, but such an acquaintance can be truly rewarding.
