The first step to fulfilling a dream is to understand what you really want. To do this, make a wish list. It's not easy to do this. Try to write 100 of their "want." From the first time, as a rule, it’s barely 50. To make the process easier, to make it more entertaining and to concentrate better on your dreams, you can connect creativity.
Collage
To create a collage of desires, you need a sheet of drawing paper. In the center is placed a photograph of whose dreams will be fulfilled thanks to such a magic tool. Around placed clippings from magazines, newspapers. You can search for themed pictures on the Internet and print them. A car, a beautiful figure, a vacation in the Maldives, or a three-room apartment - all this can be depicted in pictures.
You can also use collage to fulfill intangible desires. The main thing is that the pictures mean something specifically for a person. For example, someone for the image of love is enough two hearts, the other will choose a photo of the embracing couple. A career takeoff can be depicted in the form of a person climbing a ladder, perceived as a career one, or in the form of an elegantly furnished office.
There is no exact rule on how to correctly make a collage of desires, so it is not necessary to collect it from scrapbooks, you can draw on it. The more personal creativity in it will be, the better. It should be hung in a secluded meteor, accessible only to the author, but so that they can be enjoyed every morning and before bedtime.
A diary
Personal diary - a suitable place to write down your desires. It can describe in detail the goals, dreams and ways to achieve them. You can share with yourself what has already been done to realize a desire, how life changes from this. Failures also describe useful, this is after all experience.
To tune in to the dreamy wave, in the diary of desires you need to describe every detail, what specific feelings a person will have from fulfilling a dream. For example, the entry “I want a million” is absolutely ineffective, so that it starts to work, you need to explain to yourself why this same million is needed. It is more efficient to write "I want to live in my own two-story mansion on the ocean, to spend one summer month in Madrid, etc." It is even better to write down desires without the prefix "I want", and in the present tense, as if it comes true at this particular moment. No particles "no" in dreams should not be.
Leaf with desires
Many complain that they do not know how to visualize, they have a poorly developed imagination. For them, there is a simple method for fulfilling a dream - to make a wish list. This is the most common list of what you want. But there is one rule, the list should be long, the more points it contains, the better. It is worth starting with a hundred, and no concessions. If the "big" dreams come to an end, you need to go to the "small", up to "I want chocolate chip ice cream."
When the fantasy runs out completely, the result must be re-read and immediately fulfill any dream. If you use the same example with ice cream, get dressed and go to the store for a dessert. If necessary, overcome laziness. And then, eating the ice cream, mark the wish in the sheet as fulfilled.
Sheet must be constantly replenished with new dreams as old ones are fulfilled. Throw it away is not worth it, it is better to reread to see what has already come true. Sometimes people keep their wish-lists for several years, noticing with surprise how many of them have come true.
Motivating wall
The principle of creating a wall of desires is almost the same as that of a collage, but it takes up more space and is no longer considered personal, as it is visible. It can be done a little differently. You can imagine what kind of person you want to be, what to achieve and display it on the wall. In addition to pictures, you can use the statements of people who want to be equal, or just interesting and inspirational quotes.
The wall of desires can be turned into the forefront of achievements. Let that which has not yet come true is adjacent to that which is already fulfilled. You can hang on the wall a few frames, symbolizing the steps to the dream. They need to gradually fill. For example, I want to open a company. The first frame will be a diploma from the university, the second - a photo from the place of practice, the third certificate of a private entrepreneur, some of the framework may remain empty for now.
Sometimes, on the contrary, I want not to purchase, but to get rid of unnecessary complexes and fears. Overcoming any of them, you can capture the moment in the picture to remind yourself of your courage. You can create several "frame tracks" at once, separately for each desire.
"Talking" board
Useful magnetic marker board. On it you need to record desires for the planned period, for example, day, week, month. During this period, you will need to make additions to the desires. For example, near the desire to raise, you can write "Today is an important presentation! You are the best!", And upon return you should add "You have been noticed, you are awesome!" or "Not this time, buddy, but I know how to fix it." The more ironic remarks on the board of desires, the better.
You can wish yourself good luck or remind yourself of your merits. Belief in yourself and your abilities is important for the fulfillment of desires. If you want to lose weight, you can write in huge letters and a bright marker "I'm full." It is in this wording, because the sentence "I am not hungry" can have the opposite effect.
Reporting Table
It will be more convenient to keep such a wish table in electronic form, for example, in Word or Excel programs, as it will be constantly edited. The table needs to be divided into two columns. In the first record desire. And necessarily with the date when they were made. In the second column you will need to enter how and under what circumstances the wish came true.
This is a simulator for guessing and fulfilling desires, which will help those who do not know how to dream. Such a table will show that sometimes dreams come true instantly, and sometimes years later. This will teach not to lose hope, articulate what you want. In addition, a person will see how much he can achieve if he wants.
To understand how the wish list works, it is worth remembering the famous modern parable about how a person in conversation with God reproached him that he had prayed all his life for winning the lottery, but God did not help him with that. To which the Lord replied: "Have you tried to buy a lottery ticket?" Having started to fulfill his small desires, a person will feel that Fortune, the Universe and other higher forces are on his side.
