A date invitation is still stressful. However, all the difficulties, alas, do not end there. New questions arise: “What should I talk to her about?”, “Should I give something?”, “How to impress her?”. And one of the most difficult problems is where to go with a girl? How to understand her tastes about institutions? Where can I invite her? The answers are in this article.
How to determine the place that she likes
The easiest way is to ask the girl herself. For example: “I invite you on a date. Where would you like to spend it? ”. This will save time and save you from long and hard thoughts. However, sometimes you want to prepare a surprise, or it seems that asking a direct question is not an entirely delicate act. To make a date suitable for a girl, you will have to explore her personality. To do this, you can:
- view its pages in social networks - published posts, “About Me” section, photos, music;
- ask about it from mutual friends, colleagues, her relatives;
- listen to what she says most often;
- invite her to take the test for fun.
You can even offer a test to determine your favorite place to date. Warn your companion that the answers will be announced later. Then arrange her a meeting according to the results of the psychological analysis.
Sometimes it's enough just to watch your partner. Her usual actions, personal things speak volumes. For example:
- buys cute things like pens with feathers, reads books (the genre plays a role) - a romantic, light, soft nature;
- uses red lipstick, wears high heels, often puts on skirts - a passionate but incredibly feminine person;
- loves sweaters, T-shirts with cartoon characters, paints nails with bright or multi-colored varnishes - a strong, charismatic, cheerful person;
- often thinks about something, prefers non-standard colors, the design of things - creative, vulnerable, resourceful individuality.
The last tip in choosing a location: do not forget about yourself. The chosen place can delight the companion. However, if it causes discomfort to a guy, his interlocutor will feel it. The situation will become tense, the conversation will not be glued, and as a result the romantic rendezvous will fail miserably. It is better to stay on a compromise, if such a need still appears.
Where to go with a girl
Classic move
Sometimes it is difficult to find out the character of your chosen one in just a couple of days, or she is a very closed nature. For such cases, there are classic dates. Most often they are appointed in three institutions:
- Cafe;
- a restaurant;
- cinema.
If about the girl so far little is known, the first option will be optimal. Cafe rarely have a clear kitchen specialization and offer a European standard but varied menu. Here, the lady of the heart appears more likely to find a dish to taste.
A restaurant - location is more difficult if only because it requires compliance with the dress code and knowledge of etiquette. Such a choice is suitable if it is clear from the move that the beloved is accustomed to such institutions. In this case, it is necessary to warn her about the destination so that she can prepare. Such a surprise, alas, will not be a surprise.
The last place for romantic classics - cinema. This is a common way to hold a meeting. However, if you buy tickets for a movie that your companion doesn’t like, you can be trapped. Romance - it's romantic, but suddenly she is a bright fan of comedies or a mysterious lover of thrillers?
Individual strategy
This subsection is intended for those who have already managed to at least know a little of their pair. In the center of everything - her hobbies and hobbies.
If a girl is fond of hand-made, needlework, painting, she will not mind going to the exhibition. He loves poetry, books - why not take it to the apartment writer beginners?
Playing the piano - Philharmonic. Loves rock - live music concert. Do not think of yourself without the world of fashion - a huge shopping center, where you can fool around, try on different images. At the same time, to offer yourself as a model for her couturier-imagination would be a great idea.
Animal world
Animals - female weakness. If they are fluffy, cute and friendly. Therefore, it is better not to lead her to look at iguanas, snakes or other reptiles, unless she is their obvious fan. More often the girl's heart is torn between puppies and kittens. They are a win-win way to conquer its location. Also touches the rabbits, pandas, raccoons, hedgehogs, squirrels and koalas. Where to go:
- animal exhibition or competition;
- zoo, reserve, reserve;
- animal shelter;
- ranch or farm.
The last point is ideal if the chosen one does not hesitate to help the beasts - to feed, brush wool or skin, for example. If she is not afraid of horses - this is a great opportunity to invite her for a horse ride. Communication with these animals relaxes well, which means that the meeting will take place without tension.
Privacy
Want to be alone with her? Why not? This is especially good if the girl is a pronounced introvert, a closed personality. It will be much easier for her to open up and trust a guy without the presence of outsiders. If there is no familiar secluded place, fit:
- roof of a high-rise building at sunset or after sunset, when stars are visible;
- beaches in the indoor swimming season - it is better to bring along a blanket, a thermos with a hot drink;
- walk through uncrowded streets, parks;
- a country house (you can rent a cottage at the hostel) or a summer residence;
- rest at home - movies, games, dinner (if you have known each other for a long time).
Sea of fun
The emotions experienced together bring them closer together. To please your companion and make her remember the romantic meeting for a long time, you can make her laugh. To do this, it is enough to reduce the partner in / on:
- amusement park;
- aquapark;
- circus;
- laugh room;
- rollerdrom or skating rink.
The performance of comedians, student KVN, which is often held free of charge. And you can prepare a ridiculous program specifically for her - to write, for example, the speech of a city guide in an amusing manner with jokes.
Watching children's photos, practical jokes, playing with water pistols, or cooking in the kitchen will also be comic. She will have fun making her own cocktail, baking a cake together, mixing flour with each other, or using a cream to make a funny face on a cookie. Or the face of your chosen one.
Nature
If the terrain allows, you can go to hike. Better for a while and in a proven place. Wandering through an unfamiliar forest, a mosquito attack or a prolonged absence of a soul will not particularly please her.
Another good date is picnic in the park. This is a wonderful way to talk heart to heart, get to know each other better. After a snack, you can walk or feed the animals, birds.
Finally, bike rental - no less delightful idea. Sports, fun, easy.
Dance floor
If dancing is obviously a weak side, it is better not to go to samba or waltz courses. But suitable places such as:
- night club;
- open disco;
- beach parties.
They are often held after sunset, and others are too keen on the rhythm of music to notice anyone around. This will allow you to relax and still make a couple of hit movements.
Small flaws and misses in the rhythm will not alienate the girl. But the opportunity to dance with your favorite guy will cheer her up. The chances of dating success will increase markedly.
There are different places to go with a girl on any date - the first or the tenth. It is important to take into account her type of personality, desires, but in no case do not forget about their preferences. Ideally, the right institution already contributes to the relaxation and drawing together of the couple. So a conscious approach to this choice will eliminate half of the problems and help you have a good time.
