Every girl wants to be the one and only for her lover. Therefore, the majority of the fair sex so often attend various trainings and thematic seminars. Methods of specialists help all participants to sort out the urgent question of how to understand whether a man needs you or not.
Such questions are visited by bright minds for a reason. Sometimes a man with all his views scornfully treats a girl, and she, blinded by love, practically does not notice a consumer attitude.
It is possible to understand whether the second half treats you sincerely and independently, having carefully studied his usual behavior.
Innocent gestures, answers to tricky questions, a lost look - all this together can give quite an exhaustive answer.
The main signs of indifference men
True signs that a man is not interested in moving to the next step of the relationship:
- he sets the time and place of the meeting himself, when it is convenient only for him, ignoring the wishes of the passion; in the rest of the period he doesn’t pick up the phone, abruptly interrupts the conversation, refers to employment and persistent problems at work;
- can change your joint plans in their own way, without a weighty argument; occurs mainly in the dark, without inviting guests to choose a neutral territory;
- does not introduce his friends, colleagues, relatives, and generally speaks little about himself; also does not betray a special desire to get acquainted with the environment of passion, and even more so with parents; shy away from joint meetings with common friends and acquaintances;
- regularly shows dissatisfaction with the halves, their appearance, preferences and hobbies;
- may quarreling and not get in touch for several days, making him feel guilty.
All the above-mentioned examples testify to the young man’s deep unpreparedness for a serious relationship.
How to draw his attention to yourself?
Psychologists say that you need to start any changes from yourself.
According to the results of this work, you will be able to completely evaluate the situation. Therefore, initially it is necessary to decide on your own feelings, listening to your heart.
Imagine the picture that after 5-10 years you live together with the same attitude to each other, try to describe this action in all colors. For example, what will your partner look like? What will you do at the weekend? What will be the general preferences? And, most importantly, will you have children together?
If the inner feeling does not show discontent with the analysis of this picture, then the man rather causes you to have good associations, will be a reliable partner and shoulder. But if you feel that nothing good will come of this venture, then stop living with illusions and stop such a relationship.
Learn to speak and hear each other!
Speaking of pressing problems is the right decision in any relationship. Partners need to listen to each other, show respect, jointly resolve the backlog of cases and mutually rejoice in common victories.
Take care of yourself!
Start doing what you wanted for a long time, but because of the employment, everything didn’t work. Take time for a hobby, visit your favorite places, change your hairstyle or hair color, try to maximize your life in the right direction. This way you can attract the attention of your loved one and change your own self-esteem.
And believe me, no man will stand, looking at an attractive, purposeful girl!
