Young guys think how to make to have a girl in their lives.
Wondering how to attract a woman - pay attention to the advice of psychologists.
What attracts guys?
For serious and long relationship the girl should see in the guy something that will interest and attract her.
It is believed that modern people pay more attention to the level of welfare.
This is important, but not to the extent that it is customary to think. It is not important how much you earnand what is your potential, that is, are you able to provide for your spouse and family with children in the future?
We have been evaluating people for a few seconds of acquaintance and are drawing conclusions about how pleasant a person we are.
If it causes rejection already at the first minutes of communication, then it will be problematic to change the impression of yourself.
The main thing that girls pay attention to:
- manner of communication, the ability to open social contacts. Girls do not like too closed guys, but too sociable can cause irritation and fatigue, so the golden mean is important;
- energy. There are people with special charisma. Do not think that this is an exclusively innate quality. Charisma can be developed in yourself;
- goodwill;
- generosity but not extravagance. How do you spend money? Do you have periods when finances are running out completely, are you forced to borrow without knowing how to manage money;
- as far as you are interested in a particular girl. She most likely will not waste time on a guy who does not pay attention to her;
- how many girls have a guy, how often does he change them. For serious relationships, loyalty is in priority;
- what was the relationship with the previous girl;
- how much guy is neat in clothes. Too obvious adherence to fashion can repel and cause misunderstanding. The guy should be dressed stylishly, and clothes fit him. However, it should be neat;
- smell. We react to flavors, including barely noticeable. Our body emits pheromones that attract or repel. Other smells are important - sweat, deodorant, toilet water, and how it all fits together.
When choosing a partner, we pay attention to the image as a whole, which consists of individual elements.
What to do?
How can you attract a woman in your life? A woman does not appear herself, man for this need to show some activity. If you sit at home, then the maximum with whom you can meet is a neighbor or a girl from social networks.
Activity - this is a constant movement, communication, diverse interests.
A woman looks at how strong a man’s energy is, assesses him as a potential father of her children, even if no serious relationship is planned yet.
What to do to have a woman:
- Communicate more. If you hesitate to get acquainted, then you lose a lot. Start small — say hello to a stranger, ask for directions. This is a classic exercise, but it helps to relax and learn how to start a conversation.
- Develop its charisma and appeal. If you can not cope on your own, then attend special courses.
- Stop being a homebody, find a hobby, a job that requires constant communication with clients and colleagues. The wider the circle of interaction, the more chances to attract a girl.
- Strive for development.
- Forget bad habits - now it is not fashionable.
What can interest a girl?
So you go to practice.
It is likely that it will not turn out right away, do not despair - consider your mistakes, correct the shortcomings.
At the meeting
How to interest a girl when meeting:
- be cheerful and active, show a sense of humor, resourcefulness, know how to keep the conversation going;
- do not ask directly about personal information - when you first talk, questions and topics should be neutral;
- do not immediately fill up a visit and do not rush to invite to yourself - this can scare a girl away, if only she is not interested in quick and frivolous acquaintances;
- do not try to immediately tell about your virtues and exploits, be more interested in the girl;
Online Dating
How to interest a girl on a dating site?
There are thousands of accounts on the dating site, and among them the girl should choose only yours. Pay attention to your profile - what information is indicated in it, think how much it might be of interest.
Photos - what she sees before dating. Do not put photos of celebrities, downloaded from the Internet, too much fotoshoshoplennye. Better - naturalness.
Note, what is shown in the photo - do not try too hard to put yourself in the best light, but a photo where you walk with friends and drink alcohol will not be the best advertisement. You can put a photo with your favorite animal, at work, near the sea.
In social networks
How to interest a girl on the Internet, in social networks, in Vkontakte?
Social networks provide ample opportunities for communication and dating, you need to use them correctly.
Do not be too intrusive, start the conversation boldly, but at the same time carefully.
An example of a dialogue in the VC:
- Hello.
- Hello, who are you?
- Accidentally I saw you in the dialogues in the group, I liked your answers, I decided to meet you. Do you mind talking to a stranger?
- Do not mind.
Or another option:
- Hello. I saw you among my friend's friends. The photo you have is beautiful.
- Hello. Thank. Who are you?
Next comes the development of dialogue.
Questions in social networks, as well as any conversation, it is better to ask open, so that there is no temptation to answer yes or no, and the girl gave a detailed answer.
for example: What do you work? Where went to rest this summer. How do you know our mutual friend?
By SMS
How to interest a girl by SMS?
Short messages no longer so popular as several years ago, due to the fact that people actively communicate through social networks and instant messengers.
But they can become a small bridge that brings people together.
Wish the girl good night.
Tell me how glad you were to meet.
- I was cool to talk with you.
- You are cool, you have not spent time so well for a long time.
The main thing is to compliment not turned into unnatural flattery. Better to use short messages.
Pay attention to how well you write; with educated girls this can play a decisive role.
On the first date
How to interest a girl on a first date:
- Bring a small bouquet of flowers. Too large and expensive on the first date should not be taken, so as not to embarrass the girl.
- Think over your wardrobe. Appearance is very important - dress neatly, according to the occasion and the place where you are going.
- Choose the right meeting place.. The setting should be such that there is an opportunity to talk and get to know each other better.
- Come on time, you can not make the girl wait.
- Keep yourself confident but not too relaxed. A girl should feel close to you comfortably.
- Manifest initiative.
- Make compliments, but so that they are natural and not embarrassing.
- Forget about talking about the former, their own problems, complaints.
How to attract the attention of a particular woman?
You have chosen an object that you want to attract, now you need to think strategy.
Is it possible to like a classmate? How to attract the attention of girls in school:
- Be active.
- Develop a sense of humor.
- Be always in sight.
- Learn to communicate, girls do not like closed guys, because they are boring.
- Be able to stand up for yourself and protect the girl.
- Periodically start a conversation with her on neutral topics.
- Ask for help in homework. Choose a topic or a subject in which the girl understands.
- Offer to take you home or go somewhere.
How to attract a girl who likes?
The ability to persevere - one of the important qualities. This does not mean that you should bother a girl, but you can try to make her agree to go on a date.
And then it is necessary to carefully prepare for it, think over what you will say, what to wear, where you will go.
Ask if the girl wants to go to the movies. Such a walk does not commit to anything, but you can spend time together.
Take her after to the house, trying to engage in an interesting conversation. Do not talk only about yourself. Show interest to the girl, but do not arrange interrogation, especially on personal topics.
How to attract the attention of his wife?
After several years of marriage, the feelings cool down, it may happen that the spouses begin to move away from each other.
And this is a dangerous time when there is a risk of divorce.
To avoid this, we must try to return old feelings and improve relationships.
What to do:
- Be interesting - develop, explore new horizons, constantly move, lead an active lifestyle. If you spend your leisure time lying on the couch, then over time you will cease to be an interesting person.
- Make a surprise - Reduce in a restaurant, on a country walk, make an unusual gift.
- Make compliments - my wife will be pleased to know that you appreciate her.
- Less criticism and reproaches - they kill not only the relationship, but also the self-esteem of the person, but which are directed.
- Send the children to the grandmother and arrange the evening together, order sushi or pizza, and just enjoy a good rest.
How to attract the ex-girlfriend again?
The girl left you the same, so you have to change and show that you have become a different person. Try to understand what mistakes were made, which led to a break in relations.
Surely a girl for you She said she did not like. This does not mean that you should fully adapt to the requirements of another person, but if you have obvious shortcomings, you can work on them and improve your personality.
Invite her to meet in neutral territory. Present a small bouquet of flowers or a soft toy.
Do not rush to sort things out, express claims to each other - the meeting should take place in the maximum friendly atmosphere. Do not remember past insults, it does not lead to a renewal of relations.
Show what you have changed. Tell us about your plans for the future, share your successes, but do not overwhelm yourself. Be sure to find out how the girl lived all this time, what interesting things happened in her life.
She should be comfortable in your presence.
Do not rush to go to close contact again.but make it clear that you are bored.
At the end of the meeting, be sure to tell them how glad you were to see and that you would be happy to meet again.
Remember - girls love confident, strong guys who have their own opinion, generous, but not too wasteful. Develop a charisma, constantly move forward, and then you will be able to attract almost any girl.
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