You no longer want easy intrigues and no non-binding relationships. But how to find love? After all, it is not so easy to meet a person for whom strong feelings arise. And it is important that your relationship to each other be mutual. But everything is possible while we are alive. Each of us deserves happiness. You just need not count on luck, and take the fate in their hands.
Where to look for love?
If you do nothing on your own, then nothing will happen in your life. It was only in Rapunzel’s fairy tale that she could spend 18 years in the tower and wait for her love, and for her - a whole kingdom to boot. A modern princess should at least occasionally leave her “tower” and go in search of the groom. At the same time just walking and getting acquainted is not enough. You also need to know the "right" places.
So where are the grooms? Finding love is completely unexpected in the following places:
- In an unfamiliar company.
Meet not only the opposite sex, but just make new friends. Get out of your familiar social circle.
- In the journey.
Do you often allow yourself to travel to other countries? And in other cities? I assure you, even in the neighboring region there is something to see. A tour in the woods or to the lake with a random group of tourists can wrap a whole romantic adventure. Not sure where to look for this group? Run for a ticket to the agency.
- In the billiard room.
What man refuses to hold a party with a pretty girl in "American" or "Pool"? And if you have already passed the billiards courses and surprised your opponent with a virtuoso game - believe me, he will be completely struck in the heart!
- Online Dating.
Do not rush to scroll through this item! Despite the notoriety, on thematic sites you can find a good guy. Just be prepared for the fact that you have to start to go on a dozen meetings with losers, suspicious individuals and husbands who are looking for an intrigue on the side in secret from his wife. But in the end, you still get your reward in the form of "the very one." In a pinch, have fun!
- Dancing.
The guys who are engaged in modern sports dance, have a sporty physique. Choose a group to your liking - StreetDance, Jazz-Modern and others, and enjoy daily flirting with nice guys.
In fact, you can meet your love anywhere. The main thing is the mood. You must be open to everything new, unusual and ready for the meeting of "the very one."
The main thing - the right attitude
The first thing to do in search of love is to love yourself. The banal truth, however, does not cease to be fair. If you do not feel beautiful, sexy and attractive, men will not notice these qualities in you either. You do not want to fall in love and suffer from unrequited feelings? In order to get a super prize in the form of a happy relationship, you will have to work on yourself.
Sit down, take a piece of paper and honestly determine what needs to be worked out in yourself, based on the following points:
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Figure. Lose weight, get better, pump up the buttocks? Think that you do not interfere with this, and run to the gym! - Appearance. Cosmetics will correct minor flaws, but with skin problems you need to contact a beautician. Also remember that luxurious hair, well-groomed nails and white, even teeth are the key to your beauty.
- Wardrobe. Oh, so these women of fashion! Surely, you have a full wardrobe of clothes, but nothing to wear? Perform an audit. We throw away - things that have gone out of fashion, emphasize the flaws of the figure, hide its merits. Too provocative and flashy-bright, too, are sent to a landfill. And at the end of the audit, give the girlfriend all those coats and skirts that you don’t wear for one year or more.
Figure. Lose weight, get better, pump up the buttocks? Think that you do not interfere with this, and run to the gym!Now go shopping and to the beauty salon. You have a new life stage, you need to meet your love fully armed!
Man of dreams
Are you looking for a simple abstract happy relationship, or do you know exactly what a dream man should be like? In any case, we recommend to make his portrait. Consider the following questions:
- how it should look;
- what positive traits to possess;
- that it will be negative (after all, he is a living person, but there are no ideal among us);
- what hobbies he might have;
- clothing style;
- age of elect;
- what he is in a relationship - gentle, domineering, persistent or docile, etc.
This portrait is needed primarily to understand what you expect in the end. Tell yourself directly about your desires - and be able to avoid disappointment.
Also find out with yourself what you are willing to accept. There are no perfect men. But a kind and loving husband can be forgiven for carelessness or a strange style of dressing, in the end, this can be corrected. But with a lie, a betrayal or a predilection for alcohol, very few people will put up with it.
Spend a small interview for yourself (it is possible in a comic form). Write questions on your future boyfriend on a piece of paper and give answers to them. Be sure to be honest with yourself.
We say goodbye to the past
Why are you not in a relationship now? Is your last man gone or not at all? Arrange an evening of memories, and in front of him thoroughly prepare. Collect all photos, souvenirs, household items that cause a strong association with past relationships or a lonely life in one big box.
Arrange a pajama party, cry while watching old movies, listening to music that reminds of the old life. Take all the items out of the box, remember under what circumstances they appeared? What emotions are associated with them? Say goodbye to these things, thank them for playing their part in your life and take the box "with the past" from home. If possible, burn all its contents in the forest; no, just throw it away and forget it.
Only by releasing the past can you open the way to future relationships. Even if you did not have unrequited love, still leave behind your loneliness, the labels that people hung on you, unfulfilled dreams.
Simoron for dessert
Love is an elusive metaphysical concept, a feeling that is difficult to give a precise definition. And that means you should not rely only on yourself. Entrust help in finding your man of the universe. Just remember that higher powers do not hear simple words, but promptly react to signals. This is where the Simoron magic is based. At first glance, the rituals seem comic, but they act!
We offer to perform the following rite. It is quite simple, but it is very motivating, and most importantly, it makes you move in the right direction and forms the necessary energy around. The ritual is called: "Book of Changes or 100 days before the meeting."
Buy a notebook for 100 sheets. On the last page, describe your goal, as in a love affair: "And finally we met. He is as I dreamed ..." and then describe those qualities that you would like to see in your man. Details reveal the finale with a gorgeous wedding, two children, traveling together and what else do you want? ... And go back to the first page.
Start your journey to a happy ending with a new blank notebook. Write down what you are doing for your purpose every day. For example, she changed her hairstyle, freed up the closet, signed up for driving courses. And believe that every day brings you closer to the cherished dream!
