Most people in the perception of the external world rely on the eyes - about 88% of the information a person receives through vision. It is not surprising, therefore, that type of visual of all psycho - the most common. If a person is used to perceive the aesthetic images of the world around him, any confusion, dirt and violation of proportions is incredibly confusing, upset and even disheartening, then you have a typical visual.
In itself, the love of all that is beautiful is a wonderful quality that most people want to instill. For centuries, beauty and harmony of external images have pushed people onto the path of improvement. All this is visuals. But this type has negative features. Often the maniacal love of purity, the willingness to endure discomfort from beautiful uncomfortable clothes and shoes and the requirement of the same from others, sacrificing comfort and convenience for the sake of aesthetics simply infuriate the visual environment. And this is the root of the conflict, which could have been avoided, knowing the particular preferences of such people and having at least a little patience.
Whatvisual?
People of this psychotype have a number of special features:
- Love of cleanliness and order. Guess whose office desk will be cleaned cleanest of all, on whose shelf in the closet even the socks will lie “on a string”? Of course, the visual will put a lot of necessary and unnecessary efforts to make everything look perfect. Do not be angry with him for this neatness and do not be annoyed if he demands the same from you: better ask him to help. Then everyone will be happy with the result.
- Most of the visuals have a fairly clear diction, have a good voice, they have speech. They easily get to know each other, get involved in any conversation, grab the topic of conversation on the fly - and then they will forget it. so if you want the visual to remember something - do not stop him from recording even during the conversation. The dumbest pencil is always better than the sharpest memory - and for visuals it doesn’t work well without figurative reinforcement written on paper.
- This visual is easy to identify by the clothes: it is always neat, well pressed. Yes, and the visual sense of beauty and style is present - he always dresses well and with taste. But about comfort in clothes, it is not a question. A female visual will undoubtedly put on her heels if she knows that she looks more attractive this way - even if she torments them all day and is deadly tired by the evening. A corset dragged to impossibility to a party in which it is difficult to eat, drink and even breathe? You are welcome! A beautiful color nylon shirt, in which the body does not breathe and which is difficult to bring even half an hour? Also yes! Let it be to the detriment of comfort, but with joy from the resulting image. And they at the visuals really always come out thoughtful and bright.
- The visuals, almost the only ones of all types of personality, are able and like to keep their posture. They had only once in their childhood to see how their hunched back looked from the side, and they would overcome themselves, but they would not allow themselves to fall into a question mark.
- If you want to arrange a festive dinner for a visual, take care not about the richness of dishes, but about the beauty of the table. They love a serving that looks aesthetically pleasing - well-chosen colors, sizes, shapes. Yes, and gifts in the package man-visual He will accept with far greater joy than simply handedly handed things without proper clearance.
- All these features are, in general, quite logical; they have a lot of people. In addition to minor oddities, visuals have many advantages. For example, a child-visual at school is not distracted by a noisy class, so it solves the problem written on the blackboard the fastest. If you are a visual, it will not be difficult for you to make a good first impression at the interview or on the first date. All these are the strengths of the psychotype that should be used in solving life problems.
How to communicate with the visual?
How to communicate with a person who relies on his eyesight and often forgets to ask about the contents? Firstly, it is necessary to realize these features and come to terms with them. Yes, the types of perception can change - but this happens not suddenly, but for many years and only under the influence of strong factors, including stress. It is unlikely that you would like to expose such a loved one, friend or acquaintance - it is better to simply learn how to use those features that already exist and come to mutually beneficial cooperation.
In everyday life, one can observe many cases of misunderstanding between visuals and representatives of other psycho-types.
- A wife dresses up in the best of everything, but her husband is not satisfied with such expenses or her appearance: he has to correspond with her in order to be "in people", and this depresses him. The problem can be solved: to specify an item of clothing costs (better for each of his salaries), to abandon spontaneous purchases (even if you suddenly liked a thing in the store very much - you shouldn't take it right away, you need to give yourself at least some thought and calculate its budget ). It is better for a man to choose just a pair of the most comfortable “on the way out” sets - perhaps a bit of a bohemian style: then you can feel yourself uncovered with clothes, and be stylish and fit the occasion.
- Do you want to like the boss, endlessly spinning expensive pen, whose table is decorated with figurines of jade elephants, and the wall behind him - letters of achievement, set in a beautiful frame? Give him for any occasion even a small, but aesthetic and exquisite gift.
- You can not agree on what movie to watch with a friend-visual? Do you like good songs, and he - beautiful costumes and high-quality picture? Go to the musical, but do not go to the conflict!
As we see, there are plenty of opportunities to avoid quarrels and misunderstandings; you just need to get used to the idea that all people are different, and what is logical for you may seem unacceptable to another. Observation and the ability to give in if necessary - this is the key to mutual understanding and respect.
