Very often, girls are hostages of the stereotype of love relationships.
For some reason, it is assumed that initiator of the novel Must be a man.
In order not to violate this rule, every girl should know little tricks to attract the attention of the young man, without showing excessive perseverance.
After all, to hint a guy on the relationship can be a variety of ways.
How to start a relationship?
Only in romantic films love comes suddenly, like an arrow of Cupid really pierces two hearts at the same time.
In real life, much more prose. Often, lovers stare at each other for a long time, not daring to be the first to admit their feelings.
It is possible that decides to go first exactly girl. If warm feelings have visited her soul, you should not wait until the guy notices languid sighs in his address.
It is quite possible that such carefully concealed feelings will be completely taken by him for indifference.
Little tricks will help the girl to make the guy himself went to a rapprochement. For this lady will not have to openly admit their feelings.
View object at a distance
The first thing to do before making a decisive step forward is to check whether this very step is worth taking. In love with an unfamiliar person - peculiar lottery.
You never know who the mysterious stranger will be. In order not to fall into the clutches of the villain, the girl should collect some facts about the "experimental."
Social networks - The easiest and very popular way of correspondence dating.
In addition, the interested girl may well remain anonymous, which is very important at the first stage of the “offensive”.
Should examine all the information available on the page. All that he wished to tell the world, it is important to analyze. Statuses, wall posts and uploaded photos. All this is allowed to sketch some character sketch.
It is worth paying attention to the style of communication. Comments under the posts will be enough to assess the level of education. Bad language and other unpleasant statements can testify of bad temper.
After reviewing the list of friends, it is important to find among them your acquaintances. You can make contact with them in order to learn interesting facts about the chosen one.
But you shouldn’t be too hard on asking the guy’s friends, because they can let it out.
Thanks to the page in social networks, you can learn about hobbies young men. Information about his family, hobbies and even pets will come in handy on closer acquaintance. It is worth paying attention to the places in which there is an "object". Maybe you should sign up at the same gym.
Acquaintance and friendship
Only in movies and novels love arises. lightning fast.
In the life of the same guy and girl take some time in order to meet and get to know the partner closer.
Well, if the acquaintance with the guy has already happened. This will allow to bypass almost the most difficult stage in the "rapprochement". If the guy does not yet suspect the existence of a beautiful lady, she will have to contrive a little and “rigging” the cards.
How to meet a guy:
- Arrange a meeting. Having observed the object of attention, the girl will easily determine where this very object most often happens. The best option is a supermarket. The sweets, unobtrusively scattered under the guy's feet, will give him the opportunity to care for the bewildered girl. You should not choose "difficult" in cleaning products.
Hardly the kid wants to collect sugar from the floor. The ideal option would be an orange rolled under the counter.
- Request for help. Option for brave girls. Having loaded heavy things into a bag, you can meet a guy on his way to home. If a man has at least a bit of gentlemanly character, he will definitely agree to help with a heavy burden. The main thing is to ask him about it.
- Phone searches. The old, but effective method that has become a classic of the genre. You should hide the mobile phone in the deepest pocket of the bag. Playing the sincere confusion, we ask the boy to dial his number, simultaneously assuming that the phone is lost. When the melody sounds, we thank the assistant and go away. With the number of the guy in the list of missed calls.
Of course, there are plenty of other ways to meet. The main thing is not to show excitement and act as succinctly.
Gradual rapprochement
Wait for attention from a guy, not taking any action, can be very long.
Sometimes you can even see how he falls in love with another girl.
To prevent this from happening, it's important to apply all the tricks and quietly seize his attention.
Before you take the initiative, it is necessary to verify the intentions of the young man. An interested man is very easy to notice. In the company, he is trying in every way to close the distance, finding himself close to his passion.
Do not miss it and opportunities to talk, chat. In this case, the guy will choose the topics interesting only for the two of you, avoiding participation in the conversation of the others present.
Will give the interested person and look. Eye contact for more than 2 seconds indicates an increased interest in the person. Can use this trick and the girl, playing in short peepers.
If the behavior of the guy gives his interest, you can not hesitate. It's time to go closer. The main thing is not to overdo it:
- Frequent meetings. You should not persistently interfere in the life of a person, even if you have huge plans for him. Sometimes appearing in a circle of a guy, a sly girl leaves an indelible impression of herself and evaporates for a while. Soon the hooked youngster himself begins to look for meetings.
- Occasional meetings. From time to time, when a man comes into contact with his eyes, it is advisable to greet him politely and calmly go about his business. Butterfly, fluttering around the cat, sooner or later provoke her to jump.
- Update wardrobe. When love comes, sneakers and daring outfits should go on vacation. Any guy will notice if a girl from his entourage suddenly blossomed. Playful curls, unobtrusive perfume and flirty behavior is welcome.
- Communication. Look for any reason to start a conversation. It is useful not only live communication, but also correspondence in social networks. Find common ground and develop interesting topics. Be patient talking about boxing. Soon begin and relevant for you to talk.
To move communication with friendly notes, the girl is advised to act actively, but carefully. Violating the boundaries of personal space, you can cool interest a young man.
When communication becomes regular, can move to more active actions. However, if the guy shows signs of attention, it is advised to wait and pretend to be a “victim”, and not a predator.
Distance reduction
How to reduce the distance:
- Do not be afraid to touch. Joked, lightly push him in the shoulder. Invade his space slowly but surely. As often as possible be at arm's length.
- Arm yourself with humor. Good jokes will help to defuse the atmosphere if there is an awkward pause in the conversation. Talking about the appearance of a guy will also contribute to his interest. “After all, if a girl noticed a dented T-shirt, it means that I care about her.” The main thing is not to offend the guy with cheating.
- Be weak Ask a man for help, even if you can handle the problem yourself. Carry Windows on a laptop and ask the young man to reinstall the system.
- Hide behind the courage of the guy. Grasp his hand while watching a horror movie or keep your hand out in a dark park.
For a man, even if young, there is nothing sweeter than a show of his own strength.
Strengthen communication
If the tricks used did not produce the expected result, and the guy is still slow, the girl should not give up. One has only to arm themselves with "heavy artillery."
Do not be afraid of failure. If a young man communicates with a girl for a long time, he is unlikely to completely rule out the romantic development of events.
The relationship between a guy and a girl rarely develop rapidly.
Most often occurs more than a dozen meetingsbefore young people become a couple.
In this case, there is no clear boundary when love is born.
To accelerate the birth of relationships, a girl is advised:
- make him a little surprise. Give the guy a nice little thing, like a key fob or a cool cup. Let a thing resembling a passion appear in its interior;
- treat him to baking. Invite the guy for tea, arguing the invitation with a sudden culinary inspiration. The young man will surely connect your flight of fantasy with his special one. If the cake seems like incomprehensible magic, just buy cookies in the store and give it your way;
- get away. For a while, disappear from the sight of the guy. The sudden disappearance of the active girlfriend further inflame the thoughts of a man;
- inquiry. Find out if the guy was interested in your person during the artificial "separation". If so, you can be congratulated;
- appearance after the disappearance should be fantastic. Do not skimp on the hair and makeup. Let the hero understand how much he missed.
If, after all the measures taken, the guy invites a girl for a date - it's in the bag.
What is better not to do?
Opinion, as if in love and in war all methods are good, for the initial stage of the relationship is not entirely appropriate.
Hints, which seem to the girl quite understandable, can push the guy to space distance.
What a girl shouldn’t do:
- You should not talk with the young man about his potential girlfriends. Advising how to behave with other ladies, the girl personally enrolls herself in the category of "friends."
Get out of it will be very difficult, because the girl will know all the ins and outs of the young man, with which he is unlikely to accept.
- No need to voice your grand dreams. Dreams about a strong family and four children will surely scare away the guy, if the relationship is just born. It is important to focus not on the plans, but on the personality of the young man.
- Immediately introduce him to his parents. Serious intentions are good, but you should not invite a young man to a family dinner in the first week after meeting. First, it is better to make sure that friendship has already flowed into a love affair.
- To be unrestrained. Men claim that they love sexy ladies, but in reality they prefer modest ones.
- Do not talk without ceasing.. Men adore when a girl listens carefully. Try to portray interest, even if you do not know what a carburetor is.
How to continue to meet?
To the relationship not only strengthened, but continued, the girl should warm up the interest of the guy, but don't be too intrusive.
No need to fully absorb the young man’s free time.
Deprive a part of his leisure of your participation. And never tell your chosen one that you have nothing to do without him. Respect the partner and don't take it as entertainment for your own bored nature.
Look for common interests. Joint classes bring together. If you are not interested in the hobby of a guy, look for new points of contact.
Play tennis or sign up for a dance together. And maybe you both like to bake cakes?
Thinking about how to hint a guy on a relationship, It is worth using simple female tricks. Later, when the friendship turns into romance, you can laugh together at the girlish tricks to conquer the male heart.
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