Enjoyment of solitude. Is it possible to?
The development of the modern social world entails an inevitable increase in the amount of time devoted to human communication with other people. Someone is satisfied with this, such a life even pleases a person. Some people consciously choose community service, which involves spending a lot of time on having more opportunities to communicate.
But more and more, one can observe how some individuals choose for themselves. loneliness. These people see more joy and advantage in him than being in a relationship or in marriage. In connection with the development of a free life and the ease of entering into a close relationship, the need to live together with people disappears and a lot of free time is formed, it can be spent in any way that pleases.
The desire to be alone with his thoughts is experienced, perhaps, by every modern person, exhausted by the pace of life, which tends to accelerate in recent years. Mobile, landline phones, the Internet, social networks are trying not to leave a person the opportunity to be alone. Social networks are engaging in fascinating conversations, forcing a person to feel the presence of other people in his life.
But the participation of people in this way in their personal lives can be easily limited, which cannot be said about living together. After all, you can not send a wife, husband or other household members to walk for a time that you want to spend in light thoughts about the meaning of life, being alone at home.
Lonely people who do not suffer from their residence, more and more often spend time with benefits to develop their abilities, physical and mental, find time to identify talents. Such people very rarely express the phrase "work-home-work." Often this phrase can be heard from colleagues burdened by a family of both sexes.
If a person often happens for a long time alone with himself, then it is considered to be honored that he loses precious minutes, life passes him. After all, lonely people are losers, they do not get it with the device of personal life. But the rest of them should certainly devote a lot of their time to communication and be visible to other people.
Although, if we turn to the mythological and historical research, it can be understood that people who chose a hermit life for themselves became respected, revered, wise, and even holy. In silence, alone and in peace, their clever thoughts visited, brilliant ideas came.
Judging by the above, we can safely conclude that loneliness is really necessary modern people. How to have a good time with yourself! You can watch an interesting film that no one likes, read a book, meditate.
As a matter of fact, many diverse and exciting activities await a person who is not burdened with any communication for some time. Of course, it’s not worth getting out of society completely, yet a person is in society and by nature must receive a portion of communication, but what this portion will be, everyone has to decide for himself.
