Question to the psychologist:
I have been in touch with a girl for a year. Well, we are friends (we decided to be friends after the necessary conversation, which I insisted on), we see each other relatively often. Mainly at her work, recently taking away and as far as possible I take her to work.
She has been communicating since August and, perhaps, is dating a guy, I try not to go into a private one. But I do not want to give up, because I like her and are cute.
Recently, about two weeks, she agreed to my help with the repairs in her apartment, and I even helped with transportation, due to the illness of one of her family members. The first time she was there, and I myself stayed to help, the next time she called or wrote, I answered by agreement and said that my business would wait.
Before the aforementioned conversation, I took steps to tell about my feelings, she understood this, but said that she likes one person, but they do not communicate yet.
At the moment they communicate, and he happens to be with her, as I understand, but even now she trusts me with the keys to the apartment, and keeps notes that I wrote, and even my postcard from the day she was born until my feelings were shown. She tells a little about the family, even being a guest. But, as I understood, her relatives, say, the guy had not even seen.
Can I count mutual sympathy and feelings, in view of the fact that she may not yet have made her choice?
Alexander, Irkutsk
