The emergence of sympathy between a man and a woman is natural process.
In order to create a relationship, you need to know a person.
But first you need to understand whether you like him. Perhaps this relationship has no future and don't try.
Is it possible to understand the sympathies of strangers?
According to statistics, most relationships starts at school, university, at work.
But because of their shyness and fears, people can beat around the bush for years without acknowledging their feelings.
Moreover, working in the same team or living in the same house, the guy with the girl may not even be familiar.
However, it’s possible to guess a stranger’s sympathy. by circumstantial evidence. These signs are called non-verbal means of communication.
Among such means:
- mimicry;
- gestures;
- poses;
- sight.
Of course, some manifestations may have a double meaning. For example, friendly and open people smile to everyone without exception, and attractive girls are used to flirting with all men.
Therefore, the ability to correctly interpret the meaning of messages comes with practice.
Signs in guys
How to understand that you like a stranger guy?
Men, although considered to be strong sex, are in fact very shy and secretive creatures.
They are afraid to take a step towards the girl they like, they are afraid to look ridiculous or get rejected. Especially shy guy becomes, when in fact sympathizes with the girl.
If a man is too easy to get acquainted and give out compliments, this suggests that he is a professional lady in love and not serious.
In most cases, a woman understands that she likes a stranger with her intuition.
This does not mean that she is clairvoyant. Just a guy involuntarily sends some signals indicating his interest.
Understand that the girl likes a stranger, you can by the following features:
- Thinking. The guy constantly from under the tishka examines a woman, escorts her with her eyes. But when she catches his gaze, she is confused and turns away.
- Random encounters. He constantly seeks to catch the eye of the girl, supposedly by chance, to pass by, to be in the same cafe where she has breakfast, etc.
- Smiles. After some time, the man will have the courage and will be smiled at the girl at the meeting. He is just waiting for a response. If a woman smiles in response, it will be a signal to continue dating.
- Searches in social networks. A man will definitely find an object of sympathy in social networks, like a photo, leave a comment, or simply go to the page regularly. More courageous will write personal messages, wish good morning and good night.
Also, sympathy is indicated by the fact that the young man quickly responds to the message.
- Interested in friends. The man in love will ask friends and acquaintances about the girl to find out as much information as possible. Perhaps he will even ask someone to hint to her about his sympathy.
- Attempt to be in the general company. A man always tries to get into the circle of communication girls, which he likes. So you can get to know and establish a relationship.
- Changes in appearance. Men are rarely concerned about their appearance. If he suddenly began to dress with a needle, changed his hair, this is a sure sign that he wants to please.
- Awkward movements. In the society of the object of sympathy guy will be embarrassed and worried. This is evidenced by his gestures: rubbing his hands, getting his hair and clothes trimmed. Also he will blush and speak out of place.
- Behavior in society. Some men, trying to look better, constantly talk about their achievements, boast trophies, joke, talk loudly. This is such a way to attract female attention. Although in ordinary life, this man is quite modest. The opposite situation also happens: the merry fellow and the recognized macho suddenly become modest, silent.
Girls signals
How to understand that you like an unfamiliar girl? The psychology of a woman is much more mysterious to a man’s he likes her or she just plays with him.
In fact, the signs of female sympathy do not differ from those expressed by the guy. Just add to them some manifestations of sexuality. A woman can express them consciously or unconsciously.
A man can understand that like an unfamiliar woman by the following featured:
- She constantly looking at him, and when meeting the eyes looks away.
- She is talking loudly and laughing in his presence.
- Constantly it turns out in those placeswhich are visited by the man you like: cafes, sports clubs, dog walking places.
- In his presence flirts with other guys, to show that like the opposite sex and cause a prick of jealousy.
- Beautifully and sexually dressed. In the course are short skirts, neckline, studs, cosmetics, perfumes.
Often, a woman is transformed beyond recognition, for example, she stops wearing sneakers and track suits, and puts on high heels and feminine dresses.
- Smiles when meeting and hides his eyes, allegedly embarrassed.
- Takes beautiful relaxed poses: arches his back, throws his legs.
- Uses facial expressions: biting lips, curling curl on a finger, tossing hair from one shoulder to another.
- Involuntary confusion. It is expressed in reddening of cheeks, trembling of hands and eyelashes, abduction of eyes. A woman can talk loudly or mumble under her breath, which is not typical in everyday life.
- Shows activity in social networks, likes photos, puts pluses, comments, sends emoticons. She can also just write “Hi” or “How are you?”. In discussions, he constantly stands on the side of the object of sympathy, supports it. Another girl will subscribe to the same pages and join the same groups that make up the man.
- Ostentatious indifference. Some women may behave deliberately indifferent, ignore a man. This speaks of her feelings, which she for some reason hides.
- Desire for body contact. The girl will accidentally touch the guy's shoulder, she may stumble upon him in the corridor, drop his documents under his feet, so that he can help her gather.
- Bolder signals. A woman can ask for a cigarette, help carry a bag, look after her things, etc.
- Asking friends Like boys, girls love to be interested about their beloved with his good acquaintances.
They try to get into a common company or ask a mutual friend to introduce her to a man.
- Creating common interests. A woman finds out what the object of her sympathy is interested in and begins to study this topic. Then in the presence of a man talks about his new hobby. For example, she discusses film, music, a trip out of town, fishing, etc.
- As if by chance reports that her heart is free. She constantly talks about how sad she is and how she longs for a new relationship.
- Jealousy. If a young man who has preoccupied himself begins to communicate with other women in her presence, this will provoke a jealousy. It manifests itself in the form of irritation, bad mood, anger, and ostentatious indifference. In response, the girl will defiantly flirt with other guys.
- Distance reduction. The woman will seek to violate the personal space of the young man, sitting closer to him.
This suggests that she considers a young man as a matter of passion and would like to get to know each other better.
- Request for help. Even without being familiar, the girl can ask for a minor favor: to help start the car, give the phone a call.
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How not to wishful thinking?
Often a man in love so waiting for a response from the object of sympathy, what is wrong regarding his behavior.
There is a category of people who are always open and friendly.
They are smiling at the meeting, ready to help, support. Their friendliness can be interpreted as a special relationship.
Here you should look at the behavior of a person and analyze actions. If he smiles at everyone and always, then his joy is not a sign of falling in love.
Also people pretend to benefit. For example, sly men pretend to be in love and ask female colleagues to make a report for them. On women’s love for complimenting with beautiful words, loveloires and marriage scammers build their deception.
Girls also do not lag behind. They know that men are attracted to certain poses and gestures, so they actively use them for their own purposes.
On communication in social networks in general it is difficult to judge the true attitude of a person. Perhaps he was just bored and he found entertainment for the evening. Someone just thus revenge former lover.
On the contrary, deliberate indifference may indicate originated feelings. Just a person is afraid to seem ridiculous or get a negative response.
A certain category of women builds a foothold, so that the man himself wanted them.
But men are creatures more straightforwardtherefore, they perceive such behavior as unwillingness to communicate.
The only thing that cannot be changed or “faked” is the look.
Blush on the cheeks, dilated pupils, changing mood - all these are signs that a person is not indifferent and wants to continue communication.
Make the first step to the acquaintance is always difficult. This can be assured by the fact that the object of sympathy experiencing mutual interest. This is reflected in his behavior, attitudes, actions.
You can evaluate the behavior of a person for a long time, but you can do it easier - come and meet.
Then there will be no time lost spend on a pleasant conversation.
