We choose, we are chosen. And, as correctly noted, often sympathies do not coincide.
Who wants to goof, to the end of years painfully blush at the recollection of an awkward scene?
Therefore, in any circumstances, think head and we use useful recommendations in this regard.
Is it possible to reliably determine this?
Can you tell if you like a guy?
To accurately understand the situation requires worldly wisdom and ability sensibly analyze the actions of other people.
For example, the desire to suppress and command is a manifestation of an authoritarian character, and not an attempt to “stake out a woman”, allowing her to at least somehow participate in his life.
BUT complicityThe needled shoulder with a vest, the desire to save from hard work or unpleasant emotions is most likely not a deviation in development and effeminate, but rarely found today good nature and sensitivity.
10 signs of interest
When a boy pulls a pigtail or slaps a neighbor on a desk with a book on his head, it can be equally a sign of sympathy or protest against her some unpleasant behavior.
Getting older, the guys already understand the incompetence of such actions and change tactics.
How to understand that by their behavior A gentleman signals sympathy for you:
- He stares at you.
- In the team, when you tell something funny to others, the fan smiles too, even from a distance, mirroring your emotions.
- He does not yawn and does not break off after a minute, when you say something especially girlish - the sound of voice is dear to him, and not the meaning of what was said.
- Offers assistance in unusual activities for the stronger sex.
- It tends to be more often nearby, even with heavy workload and the need to be elsewhere.
- He becomes nervous or indifferent when he notices you, communicating with his potential rival.
- When you try to communicate with him for the first time, he quenches himself or tries to have an independent look, but it turns out that it doesn't matter.
- Offers help with weights, inventory.
- Protects in clashes, even if in life is quiet or prefers neutrality in a conflict situation.
- He treats sweets, seeks to make cute gifts.
Behavior and gaze of a man when he likes a woman
How to understand that a man is interested in you?
For many men, when it comes to heart attachments, enthusiasm and courage evaporate in an unknown direction.
Therefore, until they decide to come closer to a direct conversation, watch their passion from afar and blushwhen intersect with her gaze.
What else can be a signalthat a man likes you:
- Periodically there is a feeling that someone is watching you.
- You are increasingly meeting on the way home-to-work-study, having caught up, you notice interest in the look.
- When he comes close to you, it is noticeable that the person is slightly on a platoon: he pulls a button, smoothes his hair, twitches himself on his lip, ear, hesitantly reaches into his pocket and immediately takes out his hand. And if you observe him on the sly, such neurotic manipulations are not characteristic of him at all and become aggravated only when you are nearby.
- When talking to you, he often answers at random, although he communicates with others confidently.
- Bouquets unexpectedly appearing on the table, snacks.
If a man offers a ride, help with a bag-portfolio, on the way is interested in employment for the evening, then you can suspect his interest in you.
But sometimes this behavior just a consequence of normal education and a desire to help colleague woman just like that. This also includes the habit of holding the door, skipping ahead at the exit-entrance, offering a hand when going down the stairs.
Somewhat different behavior with a woman in men who are accustomed to dispose of others:
- Can bluntly say about his sympathy, handing a gift on the occasion or just like that.
- He offers his car and driver to make it easier to get home to work.
- Insists on financial assistance for the purchase of products, things.
For some, such a demonstration of sympathy may seem very pretty, but you need to keep in mind that with the development of relationships, in the future you may find yourself in a situation where you will be seen in the role of a small and submissive girl.
How to understand in specific cases?
It is difficult to determine in relation to a man himself, but it is possible.
How to understand that you do you like boy in school?
- He gets angry if someone starts teasing him, calling him a groom.
- He often looks in your direction and blushes if he notices a return glance.
- Offers to bring the portfolio to the house.
- Carries all nonsense, trying to cause laughter and smiles.
- Does not seek to for the hair, make tricks.
- Tries to put in the place of your offenders.
- Easy endures "bullying" in the form of tweaks from you and scolding for all sorts of misdemeanors.
How to understand that you like a humble guy?
- You often notice that he is staring at you.
- He looks a little upset, watching your cheerful conversations with friends at recess, but he does not dare to approach himself.
- When he is near you, granite slabs envy his silence. After all, because of the excitement of your presence, everything that flies from the language seems like bleating. Therefore prudently chosen tactics forced beeches.
- If you have good physical data, without much attention, it makes your life easier: explains to local hooligans that you cannot be touched, you happen to be around when you need help with bags and a briefcase.
How to understand that you like a male teacher?
If this is true, then it is better not to get involved in such a relationship. First, it is a sign of a psychological pathology in a man. Secondly, it will not stop at you, because such subjects have a so-called craving for new sensations.
If others are suspected of having a relationship with a teacher, there will be a lot of dirty gossip and there will be a desire to change not only the educational institution, but also the current place of residence.
What are the signs that recognize the "wrong" teacher:
- If he teaches physical education, then sitting down on a sports equipment, the man holds his hands on your waist longer than necessary.
- If there is a lab assistant, she asks for help after the lessons with the exhibits to one girl, stubbornly rejecting the help of her girlfriends or classmates.
- Shamelessly staring at his knees and other parts of the body, if the girl in summer open clothes.
How to understand that you like the boss man?
- Leaving, after the report on the executed order, you understand that they are not looking away from you. Sad sighs after - this is additional evidence of sympathy. Unless, of course, a person does not have to do some work for you.
- You are not quite deservedly often singled out at meetings to show other colleagues how to work for the good of the company.
- When crossing the street, it offers help: escort, ride up, carry bags.
- A person is a little stewed in your presence.
- It so ignores that a suspicion about the presence of a carefully guarded heart feeling creeps in.
Of course, if the pain and aspirations of the soul to you, rather than apparent hostility and contempt, “splash” in your eyes.
- Sometimes, fearing to be rejected and ridiculed for feeling, the chief can spread rot to his sympathetic subordinate. For example, to scatter projects, to indulge in contempt.
How to understand that you like an adult male colleague?
- Most of the others hangs at your workplace.
- With direct dialogue, trying not to look into the eyes.
- Looking for reasons to help something.
- Protects to the authorities.
- At the workplace, periodically appear cute trinkets.
- Seeks to help with advice on how to act in a disputed situation and how best and more efficiently to apply with a request to the authorities.
How to understand that you like a former guy?
- He remembered when you had a birthday and showed up with a bouquet.
- More and more often he finds himself on the “path” to your home, place of study or work, while greeting and trying to establish a long dialogue.
- Former frequent guest on your page.
- Rolled up to your girlfriends to find out how you are doing now on a personal front.
- When meeting you do not skimp on compliments, complains that the soul is cold and empty.
Practical recommendations
How to test in practice? Try to follow him in secret to find out.:
- how often he looks in your direction, being nearby;
- Does a close relationship with any of the ladies
Themselves first start a conversation. Naturally, making the first step, do not shock the man with an avalanche of confessions of an intimate nature.
They have at any age the psyche in this regard is weak - they may not survive such happiness. To escape, for example.
And then cry softly in the corner of his bedroom, reproaching himself for indecision and excessive sensitivity.
How not to be mistaken in their findings?
How not to wishful thinking?
Sometimes, because of girlish dreams it seems that the young man you like is not indifferent to you.
How to understand when a person really has sympathy for your heart, and when this is your fiction or, worse, an unforgivable rude joke on you.
- In a circle of friends, he does not change his attitude towards you, becoming rude, boorish.
- Appointment of a date in an unfamiliar place, at a later time - this signal of some inadequacy.
- Rough molestation - this is not a passion, but lust and nearness.
- Spirits offer A lady is a luxurious gesture of bosom friends who have known each other for 10 years, but by no means a nice offer of having a good time for the weekend in the first months of the relationship.
- Attempts to improve the financial situation due to the relationship with you - a reason to understand that you are used trite. These include: systematic offers to have fun in some institution at your expense, trips to cafe-restaurants-bars and anywhere for, again, purely your budget.
- Harassment threateningeven if in a joking tone, to punish for refusing to deprive of the workplace, dirty gossip is pure blackmail and harassment, not romantic brutality.
No matter how special the relationship with a man may seem to you, always evaluate his actions, not words.
If there are conversations future tense verbs, and the practical expression of words is zero, then it is worth considering how great the chances are for realizing the promise.
How to understand that you have disliked?
Alas, not always even a good relationship lasts until the end of ages. And sometimes they stop earlier than you would like.
If not a word has yet been said about the break, but the connection is doomed if:
- He has less time to communicate with you.
- He began to let rude jokes in your direction, compensating for the growing, but concealed irritation due to communication.
- He began to hide the names of callers, started new accounts or changed statuses in old ones.
- He does not hesitate to look at other girls at your presence.
- He stopped paying attention, avoids physical contact, hides his eyes.
- Disappeared from sight. In this case, fantasies about "aliens stole it", "no money to replenish the phone account", "seriously ill, probably" - this is only your unwillingness to face the truth and admit that the break did take place.
So that relationships with men do not interfere with life and do not become the cause of dramas, do not forget about the existence of real and hypothetical goats. There you need to bypass the tenth road, if there is no desire to be eaten cabbage.
AND you should not hope that a bad boy only with the rest is bad. Most likely, that soon you wouldn’t call him another way either, having been friendly or, what is worse, love relationships with him. Therefore, caution above all!
10 sure signs that you like a guy:
