Pickup is the science of how attract the attention of the opposite sex.
If earlier only guys were fond of pick-up, now even the beautiful half of humanity has begun to actively learn the art of seducing men.
Why does a girl need a pickup?
Women's initiative does not always get the approval of the stronger sex.
The young ladies should humbly sit still, waiting for the prince to pay attention and start the conversation first.
But how to be if the guy you like doesn't notice you at all? This is where the pickup comes to the rescue.
With the help of the science of seduction, you can provoke a person into a conversation or specific actions, cause interest and attract.
In this case, the guy will be sure that the acquaintance happened by chance or on his personal initiative.
Is it good or bad?
Female pickup has both positive and negative sides. As a plus, you can call freedom of choice. After all, using the worked out methods of seduction, a woman herself can conquer the object of her sympathies, and not wait for her to be approached.
Thus, the representative of the fair sex chooses based only on their own interests, and not from the active men.
Pickup is still about interaction with the opposite sex.
And in the process of interaction with men, a woman is charged with positive energy, raises her self-esteem and simply flourishes.
Therefore, a pickup is a great way to raise your mood and confidence, even if you no far-reaching plans for the object of seduction.
The negative moment of a pickup is the obviously losing position of a woman in a relationship.
If a woman by means of a pickup truck meets a man who has only carnal interest for the fair sex, heart may be hopelessly broken.
But many guys regard any signs of attention as a sexual message.
What is the basis of the teaching?
The doctrine originated in the States at the end of the last century. The authors of the method of seducing steel Gregory Madison and Erik von Markovik. Later, a large number of people took up the topic.
When the doctrine was born, the only purpose of the pickup was sexual contact with the object of seduction.
Those. pikaper should by any means "Drag in bed" your victim.
But now the position of the followers of Gregory Madison has changed slightly, focusing more on acquaintance.
The basis of the teaching:
- Work on your own image and Strengthening Strengths.
- Oppeners. A set of prepared phrases with which you can bring a person to dialogue.
- NLP. Work with the subconscious or neuro-linguistic programming.
The authors of the methods of seduction teach how to fall in love with a person with the help of simple and effective manipulations.
- Non-verbal communication. It is important to be able to communicate not only the language, but also the body. Pickers should be able to “read” other people's gestures and broadcast the correct signals through non-verbal techniques.
Basic rules
Before embarking on seduction, it is necessary to study the basic rules of “hunting for a male” and follow them unconditionally:
- Appearance. Appearance should not be just stylish or attractive. It should be focused on men. Restrained sexuality, the absence of awkward, but fashionable elements in the image and total adherence to the rules of hygiene. Neat manicure, clean hair, ironed clothes, shiny shoes. A woman should shine.
- Mood. A negative attitude is reflected in our face and movements. Therefore, it is important to “catch the wave” before leaving the house. Your wrinkles on the forehead at the moment of reverie, pursed lips or clasped hands will scare men away, hinting at a bad mood.
- Inaccessibility. If a woman resembles an arrogant queen, men will admire her from afar.
They will simply be afraid to be rejected and will prefer to start a conversation with more benevolent and open persons.
Techniques
What is the sequence of actions:
- It is necessary to appear in the field of view of men. This must be done before you start interacting. So the object of seduction can switch attention to you easily and without tension.
- The next step is the invasion of the personal zone. Try to get close to your "victim", leaving a distance of half a meter. This area is carefully guarded and try to keep a distance. But if the guy does not move away, it means that he is completely focused on you.
- Now, Oppeners or templates prepared in advance are used. Try to calculate the course of events variants of the reaction of the chosen one, so as not to get lost in the most crucial moment.
Methods and techniques
The techniques and methods of pickup are quite simple. But it is better for women to put pressure on "men's weaknesses" and arrange everything so that a man considers himself to be the initiator of dating.
- "Cry for help." Each representative of the stronger sex wants to demonstrate their courage. That is why men are so willing to resort to help. The reason for the convergence can be any problem (broken computer or heel, dead phone or heavy bag).
The most important thing is the eyes of despair, an open request for help and a grateful look as a reward.
- Hints. "Pickup" can be at a distance. Several glances thrown in the direction of men, as well as embarrassment at the moment when eyes meet with the eyes of men. All this can be spiced up with a bored look. Show the object of seduction that you are not busy. Play with a pen or glass, thoughtfully look around the room, lightly sway with your foot. You can also smile a little man, if he looks at you.
- Actor play. If a woman has acting talent, success in a pickup truck is guaranteed for her. You can play dizzy and as if by chance to grab the shoulder of a handsome man, and then embarrassed to apologize, explaining his behavior ailment. You can play a "meeting with a friend", deliberately making the mistake of entering into contact with a stranger.
- Mirroring. If you are in close proximity with a man, try to mirror him. Slightly change and then reproduce his gestures, posture, intonation. And if he is in the company discussing the topic of sports and football, try to promote the topic of basketball or swimming in your circle. Such a light mirroring will attract the attention of a person.
Now online and offline actively promote various trainings on the female pickup. They should go not only to those who want to become a master of seduction, but also to those who are afraid to get into the network of pikaperov.
Lessons with examples
In order to make it easier to grasp the essence of the pickup, it is necessary to consider specific examples of seduction and dating.
Score
If you are in a shopping center or a shop, and a handsome man is looking at a shop window right next to you, do not miss the chance.
Select on the shelves of the product "male category". Then contact a man for help.
Report that your brother / father has a birthday, and you cannot choose a gift and you want, to be consulted by a man.
While you choose wine / gastuk / cufflinks / perfume and stuff, try to smile as nicely as possible, keep up the conversation, throw back the hair with a flick of the wrist and look at the object of seduction in your eyes.
Greeting
If you saw a guy on the street or in any crowded place, you need to quickly "get involved in the game" before your roads are gone.
Go to the object of sympathy, put your hand on your shoulder and say hello. Brave ladies can slightly hug a man during the greeting. Then continue the conversation using neutral phrases.
Ask the guy how things are going and where he disappeared so much. Do not immediately ask questions that hint him at your mistake.
Indeed, in the first place, a person will remember who you are and maintain a dialogue. So, there will be an opportunity to seduce the victim before the words “Sorry, I mistook” will be pronounced.
Apology
Negative emotions are always help uncover a person.
Therefore, you can slightly salt the object of seduction, to provoke him.
Can simulate the fallwhile grabbing the hand of a man. Then you should bring a warm apology.
Can "Accidentally" pick up his scarf / notebook / pen (if you are nearby for some time), then return and invite for coffee as an apology.
Options for pickup messages to a man on the net
Pickup men can be in the network, using for this simple templates:
- "Good day! Did you do fitness classes at the resort last summer (...)? ”
- "Hello! I am writing a term paper on sociology and interviewing random people on the Internet. Do you have time to answer a few of my questions? ”
- "Hello! Did you look for your headphones at a party with friends yesterday? It seems I accidentally put them in my bag with other things. ”
These templates can be modified in the correspondence at its discretion. With their help, you can engage in dialogue with a man, without showing any personal interest in him.
And when the interlocutor answers that you are wrong, can maintain dialogue, pointing out its similarity with your friend, surprised at his mistake or clarifying the situation.
What precautions should be observed?
If you decide to try your hand at a pickup, don't go too far.
Many women are not ready for sex and just want to have fun, but go far enough.
Wanting to please, they accept an invitation to come to visit, get into the car to a stranger, etc. We must tactfully refuse from the offer to meet on the territory of men.
Also, do not give the initiative to a man and be completely fascinated by him. Try to keep the situation under control. and use "contrast shower". Those. show to the partner alternately interest and indifference in order to provoke him.
Try to act in such a way that the man considers acquaintance and communication with you as his own initiative. He should not suspect a woman that she is manipulating the representatives of the stronger sex.
Pickup is great way to get to know each other. Perhaps this acquaintance will give rise to a romantic love story. Or maybe it will remain just a warm memory. In any case, it is worth discarding fear and trying on the role of the seductress.
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