It would seem that hard to tell a manthat you feel sympathy for him.
However, not everyone is willing to frankly admit his sympathy.
Some fear ridicule, refusal, others simply very modest. The girls are waiting for the first step from the guy, and the guys are unsure of themselves and do not decide on it.
In this case, various non-verbal means of communication come to the rescue, with the help of which you can hint that you like him.
Tips for guys
If a guy likes a girl, he is often embarrassed to admit it.
It is in vain, usually girls are waiting for initiative from men, therefore, can willingly respond to sympathy.
However, women are discouraged by excessive directness and assertiveness. It is better to act gently and unobtrusively.
How to make her understand?
First you should pay attention to the object of sympathy. If a woman realizes that she is not indifferent, one can judge by her reaction whether to continue communication or not.
As you know, women love the ears, so the shortest way to her heart is through compliments and beautiful words.
All women are concerned about their appearance, so talking about her beauty, the guy does not miss.
The safest options:
- "You have beautiful eyes";
- "You have such a slim figure that I do not cease to admire";
- "Your hair looks like silk";
- “How do you always look good?”
If a girl is proud of her intelligence and education, then in addition to the compliments of her appearance, you can express admiration for her mental abilities:
- "You are very smart";
- "I bow to smart girls";
- "It is interesting to communicate with you, you know so much!"
In no case you should not focus on her legs, breasts, buttocks, as a woman will take it as arrogance and stop all communication.
Second way - This is an attempt to build a joint future. Thus, the guy will make it clear that he is ready to continue close communication.
For example, you should ask for her phone number, invite her to the cinema, for a walk. But this is the near future.
The following phrases will help hint at far prospects.:
- “I'm going to have a party, I think you will like it”;
- "How do you feel about a joint trip to the sea in a year?"
Before leaving, always make sure that you want a new meeting: "See you tomorrow," "I would like to meet again."
A hint of sympathy will be desire to help. For example, you can help collect documents, carry home, carry a heavy bag.
If a girl has a problem, you should offer assistance in her decision.
It will be especially effective if man will do something with his hands: will repair the crane, repair the car, pokleit wallpaper. Before such a guy girl just can not stand.
How to admit right?
Often guys are not capable and do not want to beat around the bush, but prefer straightness. There is nothing wrong with that, you can directly say about your feelings. True, it should be done beautifully so as not to frighten the lady.
The most pleasant phrases for a woman:
- "I am crazy about you, I want to continue our communication";
- "I really like you and I do not want to hide it."
Next you need to say what specifically attracts in a womanFor example, appearance, mind, sense of humor.
It is necessary to say what you feel, and not memorized phrases, then the lady will believe in the sincerity of men's intentions and will reciprocate.
Good help will be sense of humor, the more so that comic confession is much easier to pronounce. Phrases such as: “And I would have met old age with you” or “Take me to my cat's place” will tell a lot about the attitude of who said them.
Social networking
A hint about the attitude to the girl through the social network is, perhaps, easiest way.
After all, the object of sympathy does not see the interlocutor.
You can say a lot of things like that hard to pronounce looking into your eyes.
It is best to write her directly what she likes and the desire to meet. However, in the Internet communication there are both pros and cons. Among the minuses:
- The girl will not take the confession seriously and will not respond.
- Many beautiful messages come to beautiful women, so they often ignore them.
- It is impossible to convey sincerity through the screen, it is better to do this in person.
How to hint classmate?
Schoolchildren are very shy, have no experience of communication with the opposite sex. Therefore, it is very difficult for them to admit to a classmate that she likes her.
In order for her to pay attention, simple steps should be taken:
- Often communicate with her, smile at the meeting.
- Offer your help, for example, in doing homework.
- Ask her for help.
- Bring her small gifts, souvenirs.
- Suggest to hold to the house.
- Invite to the cinema.
- And you can just ask a trusted friend to tell her about it.
Recommendations to girls
Since ancient times it is accepted that the girl should not take the first step towards the man.
To attract the attention of the opposite sex, women use a whole arsenal of methods of seduction.
But, should be careful, after all hints which will be normally perceived from an adult lady, from the girl-schoolgirls will be regarded as frivolous behavior.
Hint
Hint the man you like about your feelings can be in the following ways:
- Eye contact. Catch the gaze of a man, look away after a couple of seconds.
To look at him often so that he will notice it, but you cannot look at the support for too long, men are afraid of too energetic women.
- Hope for the next meeting. There is nothing wrong with giving your own number, without waiting for the male initiative.
- Smile, reduced distance, touch. For example, you can touch your hand, get close to your face, pretending to hear it badly, lean on his elbow so as not to fall, etc.
- Attentive attitude. We need to listen to his stories, laugh at jokes, joke back.
- Thank for help, ask for a new favor.
- To compliment. Men are more willing to accept the praise of their mental abilities, sporting achievements, etc.
You can express sympathy using body language: curl curl on the finger, biting the lips, shaking his foot.
Be sure to be irresistible, think over the image, hair, makeup. A man must understand. What try for it.
If the guy never made a step forward, should move to more decisive actions: tell him about your feelings. You can do this by joking: “You know, I must have fallen in love with you.”
Just do not immediately wait for a response, as men do not accept the female onslaught. If the guy is reciprocated, he will definitely continue to communicate himself.
How to show a guy your sympathy?
Young people who have little experience in communicating with girls do not always decide to start communication themselves, since afraid of ridicule and rejection. A girl can hint about her sympathy with the following steps:
- Random touches. For example, you need to accidentally stumble upon it in the corridor, touch your hand.
- Laugh at his jokes. Guys love girls who appreciate their sense of humor, even if the jokes are not that funny.
- Help offer in school, extracurricular tasks.
- Creating common interests. It is necessary to find out what the guy is interested in, to study this topic so that there are common interests. You can go to competitions, watch movies that he likes, listen to the same music.
- Attentive hearing. It is necessary to listen, without interrupting, to agree with his opinion, not to argue and not to impose his judgments.
- Praise and admiration his talents.
- Long communication. You can communicate in private, in the company of friends, to get to know each other.
- Make presents for birthday, New Year. Presents should not be expensive, but should benefit the guy.
How to say about this boy?
If communication has already been established between classmates, then it is easier to hint about sympathy than an unfamiliar boy. Psychologists advise doing the following.:
- To praise. For example, you can say: “A cool haircut, it suits you,” “You have a sports figure,” “You play great football.”
- Ask to tell about his hobby, express interest.
- Ask him to help with homework. But you should not look completely stupid.
- To offer sit with him at the same desk.
- Invite him to a meeting. Let it be not a date alone, you can come to a meeting in the company of other classmates.
If a chatting with a guythen you can hint about your indifference with the help of emoticons, likes, virtual gifts.
If communication has been going on for a long time, then you should confess feelings directly.
There is one way to do this. significant drawback: a guy can just ignore the message. It is also impossible to see the reaction and emotions of the interlocutor.
Typical mistakes
Talking about your feelings is very difficult. If you make a wrong move, then easy to get into trouble. Typical mistakes in communication:
- Imposing, too frequent presence in the life of another.
It should take a break in communication, give the opportunity to get bored.
- Playing alien roles. You need to stay yourself, do not overplay, behave naturally.
- Constant pursuit, filling up calls, messages.
- Demonstration of sympathy in the presence of strangers, friends.
- Excessive sexuality in behavior, clothing.
- Obsessive talk about the joint future, wedding, children. Men are especially afraid of such speeches.
Tell about feelings or keep silent - this is the choice of everyone.
It is not always possible to predict response. Perhaps it will not be exactly as expected.
However, it is better to do decisive stepthan later regret not having made it. In any case, the experience of communication will be gained, even some mistakes can be gained.
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