It is believed that to win and seek reciprocity is the lot of a strong half of humanity. But girls should not go with the flow. To take a passive attitude in heart matters is to be content with what is. Wouldn't it be better to take the fate into your own hands and attract the attention of a young man who you really care about? Not sure how to win a man? We will reveal some secrets!
Think of female tricks
The first and most important rule is that your elect must think that he has achieved you, and not vice versa. If he realizes that the initiative in the relationship comes from you, his interest will quickly fade away, and the guy will turn his attention to a more inaccessible object.
But do not be afraid, in fact, everything is not so difficult. Think of female tricks! The following tips will help you solve the problem, how to win a man with ease:
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Work on your appearance.
Work on your appearance.The rubber phrase: "Men love with their eyes," nevertheless, is the truth. No one at the first meeting with you or superficial acquaintance knows about your kindness, thrift and other wonderful qualities. In order to attract attention, you need a beautiful picture. Attractive appearance causes the desire to continue communication, unattractive - pushes away or just makes you invisible compared to other girls.
Possessing model parameters and external data of Angelina Jolie is absolutely optional. Well-groomed hair, manicure, pedicure, healthy skin of the face and snow-white smile are the main components of your attractiveness. All deficiencies can be corrected with clothing, underwear, cosmetics or procedures, diet and sports.
The main thing is to pay enough attention to the appearance. No need to go on about the illusion that someone will love you for moral qualities. If you do not attract a man with external data, then he will hardly want to know you better and figure out what kind of person you are.
- Include charm.
Many beautiful girls are lonely simply because they can not interest a man, to keep his attention. Appearance is only half the success. You need to be able to charm the elect, "hook" him. How it's done? Yes, very simple! The components of feminine charm are flirt, naturalness and ingenuity. Add to this a charming smile and the ability to slightly embarrass at the right time - and not one man will not stand!
In order to feel confident in communication with the guy you want to win, practice easy flirting with other males. Smile, charm, make sure your attractiveness every day. Set yourself simple tasks, such as falling in love with a new colleague or causing sympathy with a courier. Over time, you yourself will intuitively feel how to behave properly with a man in order to cause a reciprocal interest in yourself.
- Collect information.
The situation is in the hands of the one who owns the information. Try to find out about the guy you want to fall in love with as much as possible. Use social networks and common friends. Find out where he works, what he does in his free time, what kind of music he is listening to, whether he is in a love relationship at the moment. This knowledge will be useful to you in the future. Your task is to find common ground - hobbies, interests. The results of this "investigation" will help to choose further tactics of behavior.
Even if the guy is in a relationship or there is nothing in common between you - there is still no reason to drop it in your hands. You can get involved in the same sport as he, start listening to the same music. Offer him to watch a football match in the sports bar or an extra ticket to the concert of your favorite group. Just prepare well the theoretical part and sincerely get involved in the process so that the guy does not feel the catch.
The easiest option is to ask a man for help in some business in which he is a pro. For example, reinstall the operating system on a laptop or create a program for training in the gym. Such requests are innocent enough, and common interests bring together. In addition, what kind of guy can refuse to help a charming girl? This flatters his vanity better than the most sophisticated compliment!
- Refer to your femininity and sexuality.
In jeans and sweatshirts, of course, comfortable, and in a strict classical costume, colleagues at work see you as a professional in their field. But, if you have a goal to win a certain man, do not even show your eyes to him in such clothes! Choose modern feminine outfits, dresses, skirts and blouses, which emphasize all the dignity of the figure.
Pay attention to the manners and style of recognized standards of femininity. For example, watch a couple of films with Monica Bellucci. Be inspired by beauty and sexuality, harmony and grace. Try on this image. Get ready to conquer and seduce!
Once upon a time, the incomparable Marilyn Monroe asked a journalist, "What do you wear before bedtime?" rather immodestly replied: "A Droplet of My Favorite Spirits - Chanel No. 5." Listen to the advice of the sex symbol of an entire era and wear perfume on yourself every day. Pick a sexy, unobtrusive scent. Do not forget about the quality lace underwear. Even if this day your chosen one is not destined to see him, you will feel more attractive!
- Do not cease to amaze him!
If at the beginning of a relationship you chose the tactics of a nice, kind, docile girl, then periodically show character and disagreement on some issues. Also, if you are interested in a man with his self-sufficiency and strong character, do not forget from time to time to give him an opportunity to feel his superiority, ask for help, be gentle with him.
If every day there is one and the same dish, even if it’s favorite, sooner or later it will get boring. To win a man, you need to let him feel the whole range of emotions, do not let him get used to and relax, keep him always in good shape. This is the only way to keep yourself interested for a long time. Do not let your communication become boring and "bland"!
The most common mistakes
Some actions, on the contrary, can bring all efforts to “no” and push a man away from you. Avoid the following errors:
- Do not think that appearance is everything.
Some girls make bets only on external data. A beautiful picture may attract, but if a man is bored and uncomfortable with you, he will quickly lose interest in you.
- Do not overdo it.
Obsessive behavior and too active actions will only push a man away from you. He must feel that the initiative comes from him. You just have to draw his attention to yourself, to cause interest, a feeling of love. Many ladies literally “hang themselves on the neck” to their chosen one. Even if he does not retreat immediately, such a relationship - for a couple of dates.
- Do not become "your boyfriend."
If your communication is based only on shared hobbies or working moments, the guy will treat you as a friend, no more. Do not forget to remind you that you are a girl. Flirt, smile, be playful and feminine!
- No need to be trouble free.
Learn to say "no" and refuse requests to your chosen one, if what he needs is somehow embarrassing you. Also, do not run to him on a date with all legs. Sometimes refer to employment, so that he does not think that you live only in anticipation of meeting with him. This behavior does not alienate the guy, but only arouses his interest.
- You should not tell a man all about yourself and your past.
Even if you do not have “skeletons in the closet,” and you can freely tell everything about yourself and past relationships, you don’t need to. Do not talk, avoid answers to intimate questions. Between you and a man should always remain a veil of understatement. The book, which has already been read, the second time open, not everyone wants. So keep your secrets with you!
When practicing tips on winning men's hearts, remember that in any situation you need to remain natural. Play the role sooner or later get bored. And would it be nice to realize that a man did not love you, but an image you created? Change internally and externally, self-improve, gain self-confidence! And never forget about your own dignity in pursuit of the love of your chosen one!
