So, Olga is a housewife, and her husband is a businessman. And the income of their family can afford to have two good cars. Olga at some point started a conversation with her husband about buying a car for her, and her husband was not against. However, since they made the decision, the income from the husband’s business has decreased, and sharply. I had to reduce many of the costs and, in fact, buying a car began to be put off indefinitely.
Olga, as it turned out later, wanted her car in order to “keep up with her friends,” but inside she doubted whether to buy it. And that's because of what. Her husband gave a lot of time and effort to work. And the wife suffered from a lack of attention. 
However, the husband, despite the workload, found, nevertheless, time to go with his wife “somewhere” - on her business, in general, in principle it does not matter - the main thing is that they were together. And Olga really liked these trips. They have always been an additional opportunity to spend some time next to their loved ones. And having your own car meant that the number of such joint trips would be reduced to a minimum, which would lead to a major lack of attention.
Therefore, when a woman thought about buying a car “for herself”, then it began to seem to her that with him she would acquire longing and loneliness. Probably, this internal unconscious resistance led to the impossibility to buy a car from a financial point of view and the further development of all events confirms this.
Their financial situation improved, and Olga bought the car. However, only after random circumstances, she found a new way to gain attention from her husband. He had to work at a facility located far from the city, because he sometimes stayed overnight there. And Olga began to go to him, bringing along lunch. My husband was very grateful - a difficult problem with food was solved both for him and for the whole brigade as a whole. Olga was happy - she not only received attention from her husband, she received admiration for her preparations.
The car “bought” simply and easily, as if by itself, since the purchase has become comfortable from a psychological point of view for the whole family. Everything in life is easy if there is no resistance inside a person. Therefore, if there is no money for something, then it is worth finding a reason that may “threaten” their appearance. The main thing is to believe, and everything will work out.
Elizaveta, Obninsk
