We make sacrifices: how to become an ideal girl?

Who does not see himself in dreams perfect woman and wife?

The one who is really, and does not fantasize on the topic of other people's ideas about herself.

What is the difference and how to determine middle ground?

The ideal of a woman: concept and psychology

Under the ideal of a woman understand the compliance of her physical and mental data. canons, secretly adopted by the society at the moment and actively promoted through the media.

For example, today, the majority considers the ideal woman to be a tall woman with a well-built physique, with flawless make-up, an active social position that has 5+ for all household, family and career issues, not desponding not only for trifles, but also under any circumstances.

This or something similar can be heard, if you ask a question about the ideal in the forehead and demand a quick response.

By the way, the ideal woman in Neanderthal terms is a fat and muscular person at the same time - judging by the statuettes of that time.

"Venus" the Middle Ages should have been pale, anemic - for the sake of dark circles under the eyes, with a shaved forehead and missing eyebrows.

In the middle of the last century, the world went crazy with reed girls: brittle, short, thin not only at the waist, but around the entire contour, with huge eyes.

And a little before, earlier in USSRthose who came close to the standard considered the ladies of a downed build, ready not only to slow down the horse, but to manually transfer the train to the next branch.

And on the go. Naturally, it suggested a good appetite, good health, confirmed by a blush all over the cheek.

What are we talking about? About the relativity of any restrictions and reference prescriptions.

If you chase after fashion, it’s easy to spend your life trying to squeeze yourself into someone’s established framework and lose yourself forever.

What does the perfect girl look like in the eyes of guys?

First you need to clarify what guys mean.

If he farmerwho dreams of reviving a country, or at least a settlement where he lives, and actively working on the land, well versed in people, he wants to see the same fan of healthy life, not accepting hangs in clubs, bored in boutiques and avoiding social chatter about anything.

Young man loose lifestyle, eager to advertise and available girls, sees the ideal partner as a person for one or two nights, with catchy appearance - so that friends, seeing the lady fell out, sorry, precipitated and envied to hiccups.

If at the same time she feeds him, he will be pleased to feed him in the shops, then he will consider himself the navel of the earth and lucky in life.

At the same time, mark her he will not say openly that she perfect in his understanding. What if it takes pride and runs off to another?

The man, deeply immersed in science, in the intervals between the defense of the thesis or the search for an answer to the question of how to resist global warming, it may be thought that it would be good to meet a life companion who will become faithful companion in scientific work.

Or she dreams of a woman without languor in her eyes and thoughts of the unknown in her head, who will wait for him at home from work with a warm dinner and exude admiration for her heroic man.

Therefore, how many men, so many criteria of ideality. And it is absolutely wrong to try to correspond to some of them.

Why do you need this? The times when ladies had to depend entirely on men and their favor have passed.

Therefore, it is better to look for such a gentleman with whom you are most likely to become one without an emergency work on yourself. Torment because break yourself to please someone. And then also fall into depression. That is also not good.

What it should be: description and quality

After analyzing the above, it is desirable to come to the conclusion that the ideal woman is not about 90-60-90 and the ability to remain silent in the rag when your man broadcasts - although sometimes this skill can be useful, but about healthy preservation of their identity and the search for the same male homo sapiens.

There are many, dwell on those that are most combined with your view of yourself and life.

Ideal for explicit or latent tyrant:

unsure of oneself;
preferably with a clear physical disability;
with the psychological trauma of childhood;
not able to use gadgets;
without girlfriends;
looking into the mouth in the literal and all portable ways;
well prepared, knowing the technique of perfect control of the iron and vacuum cleaner.

The ideal of a woman for a confident man:

cheerful;
having one or more hobbies;
loving normal food and a relaxed atmosphere in the house;
who knows about her shortcomings, but accepts herself and does not roll up the story on the topic “I am fat, stupid, petty, skinny, etc.”;
adequately responding to problems.

How to become her?

How to become the perfect girl for a guy in everything?

In order not to go into long conversations, it will be immediately about the case:

To make sure that they are attractive and irresistible. even as a hundred kilogram donut, to laugh heartily at the ridiculous, to be a ray of light emitting inner light, to which all those hungry for narmal and sincere communication are drawn.
Turn into a symbiosis hundred dollar bills and court mat. That is, to open your wallet for him or to become a subject who is ready to endure wiping his feet about himself with silence or with a systematic not very loud squeal.
Carefully take care of yourself and take expensive courses on the sexual satisfaction of men with various psychological problems, Asian and Italian cuisine and driving.
Then you will become a desirable object for lovers of pretty dolls that fit perfectly into the interior and bedroom, unaware of the presence of their own women and goals.

The ideal wife according to men - what is she?

To whcih I want to return at full steam from work, contemptuously turning away from the beauties, whom nature presented, or rather gave for a while, only a beautiful “box”.

But at the same time she didn’t take care of including in the package the thrust to fill the case with something useful.

13 signs of a perfect wife:

you are drawn to her soul;
she wants to make plans for the future and even have children;
can cook;
does not lower all salary on fashionable clothes and SPA salons;
knows what to do with children of any age;
admires you and does not make eyes for your friends;
does not talk about his intimate life of the mother and girlfriends;
laughs infectiously and does not like to dramatize;
easy-going or homebody - depends on the preferences of the man;
he respects himself, therefore he does not run around the house in incomprehensible clothes with a no less incomprehensible design on his head;
does not use your shaving machine;
your mother tolerates her already because you are her son, but she does not allow you to get into your relationship deeply;
takes you along with your deviations from the norm and does not take the brain over nothing.

What should be able to perfect wife:

Prevent most thunderstorms: after storms and shocks, restoring peace is harder. But sometimes a controlled "typhoon" does not hurt. So improvise.
Cook a feast for the whole world with a reasonable minimum set of products and in a short time.
Pretend that she is only a “neck”if it is easier for her husband to live with it and she is not at all against such a disposition in the family.
To be an example as always remain, if not happy, then a whole person. When there is at least one such individual in the family, the other household members more easily overcome their life problems.

The rules of the ideal wife and hostess:

Whenever possible delegate household duties, but not arrogant and do not force the rest of the household to redo all the work, not participating in the process.
Delicious simple lunch or dinner more useful in all respects than the one for the appearance of which you had to give everything to 100,500% and you are waiting for your feet to be kissed for the diligence of everyone who tries even a spoon.
Yes, sometimes it is possible to make such sacrifices at the stove, but constantly - dismiss it.
A well-fed man - a contented persontherefore, it is highly desirable to feed him well before leaving for work. And the same thing to repeat when the faithful return from hunting for "meat".

Seeing the problem, solve immediately. Spilled out of the pan on the stove - you will remove immediately, then you will not tear off the stain with your teeth. The child threw the thing - it brakes it in flight to the computer before you get mad at the mounds of scattered things and lie down with bones on their disassembly.
Joint attacks on fresh air are more important than cleaning. Which, by the way, can also be done jointly later. And who is against - next time will stay at home.

How to turn into it?

How to become an ideal wife for your husband? Conduct serious analytical work and determine what qualities does your man fall in love with you. Over time, do not lose them.

This is your secret resource and the very highlight that needs to be activated whenever it seems that the senses have cooled down.

And then everything is simple:

Watch for yourself, husband, children in terms of hygiene and fashion.
Feed tasty, but not excessive.
Scratching behind the ear - figuratively. But in fact, sometimes crushing the neck-back, if at work I stayed late and overworked.

Have your hobby, which allows you to find peace of mind when everything is not right and wrong.
Do not allow life to be sucked into the abyss of household duties and arrange days unloading for the psyche with the help of attacks on cultural events, on nature, to visit.