If you and your beloved second half have been in a relationship for quite a long time, and it seems as if you have been together all your life, then it is time to surprise each other! Even if your man does not make any romantic gestures, do not be discouraged - you have a great chance to start first and please your loved one not even with the expectation of a return act, but simply because you love him. After all, does a lover need a reason to do something unexpected for his life partner? Surely you know each other very well and it seems to you that it’s impossible to surprise your boyfriend. This is absolutely not true. There are many more ways to surprise your loved one!
What you need to know to get a guy surprised?
The most important thing is to carefully observe the man, his preferences, reactions to your words. He can casually mention something desired even in a simple, everyday conversation. And if you accidentally talk about it on this topic, you can learn more about what the man wants and about his dreams. In this case, you will have one more option in stock. You can also talk with his close friends or relatives and even find out what he dreamed at the time when you were not yet familiar. Be sure to remember this important information, and it is better to write it down - only so that your chosen one does not see these secret records, otherwise the whole surprise will come to naught, since it will be revealed at the initial stage of preparation.
If your guy is a secretive person and doesn’t share his interests and tastes with anyone, you just have to draw conclusions from his behavior. After all, you probably know something about his interests, if you see how he likes to spend his free time or rest. Use the knowledge that you have, and acquire new ones - it will be easy if you live together. Just try to be a little more observant - and you will definitely notice something that you have not noticed before among the interests of your loved one.
With the knowledge that your chosen one might like, you can safely get down to business. Surprise lover can be in so many ways. For example, pay attention to his hobbies (this option is especially relevant if earlier you were not particularly interested in his activities), if this is football, go to a match together or watch a workout. If his hobby is rare books or unusual coins, find out which instance his collection is missing. Try to find it, because even though the task is not easy, but the effect is worth it. Just imagine how delighted your loved one will be if you get for him an unusual and rare thing that he dreamed of a lot of time.
More ways to surprise a guy - more surprises.
Want something simpler? No problem! In this case, you also have many opportunities to make even a small, but impressive surprise. Let's start with a banal - why not make a custom dinner, or, on the contrary - breakfast? Even better if you can bring him to bed for your boyfriend. Surely he will be delighted non-standard dish after a hard day or in front of him. In addition, he will remember this as a touching moment in the manifestation of your care. It is not necessary to prepare a culinary masterpiece - even simple coffee with toast will do. The main thing is not what you serve, but how you do it.
You can go on nature, not limited to the framework of the four walls. Trips out of town bring people very close, even if it seems to you that they are closer nowhere. This is primarily an opportunity to get to know each other. And this surprise will pamper your health. Urban bustle often takes time away from people. Highlight a few days of good rest, remove a country house or go to the country. Turn off the phones and allow yourself this time to be just the two of you, without being distracted by the annoying calls of relatives or colleagues. Do not forget to take the weekend at work. It would be nice if you ask your boyfriend for the same, otherwise your paradise for two can end very quickly.
Try to surprise a man not only for some special days, but also in everyday life, every day. Your chosen one will be pleasantly surprised by your calm and understanding reaction to his visit to a bar with friends or a new pair of fashionable shirts, waiting for him in a closet or other non-obvious place.
Surprise the guy - attention to yourself!
Despite the fact that you come up with to surprise your boyfriend, always remember that the main gift for him is you. A man always feels better and more confident if his chosen one is in good condition, calm atmosphere and may well feel happy. After all, you - the keeper of a fragile family light, which is sometimes so hard to light. And well-being in relationships and in the house begins with you! Try to make time for yourself - go shopping, for which usually do not have enough time to buy a long-liked dress. Get some aromatic oils and arrange a relaxing evening in the bathroom. In general, there are many ways to take care of yourself - and you know the best of them, because every woman is very individual. Your boyfriend will be very surprised to see that you’ve started to devote more time to your hobby, change your style or just update your wardrobe. Your pleasant state will be transmitted to him. And what could be better than a couple in which both partners feel most comfortable next to each other?
In general, surprise yourself - a very good script. Plan in advance what you want to change or add to your image, so that your man is really surprised. This may be some kind of non-standard clothes, a new make-up or even a dramatic change in taste preferences. Imagine the reaction of a man if, for example, you drink a cup of tea in the morning instead of coffee, which you cannot stand. He will surely take an interest in such cardinal changes in your tastes. A good reason to translate everything into a joke!
The main thing - do not stop generating ideas that will help you pleasantly surprise your loved one. And do not be afraid of extravagant decisions! Only in this case, your surprises will be spectacular and not forgotten!
