How to interest a man: the right ways

They say that a woman should not take the initiative. In part, this is true, because every man is a hunter by nature. But on the other hand, this does not mean at all that you need to humbly sit and wait for your attention. A wise woman always knows how to interest a man. Today, these secrets will open for you.

"We choose, we are chosen,

As it often does not coincide "M.Tanich, k / f" Big change "

How to attract attention?

Contrary to popular belief, it is a woman who chooses a man. However, it does so unobtrusively and unnoticed. By submitting non-verbal signals, she thereby attracts attention, forcing herself to stand out from the crowd.

Very rarely, the stronger sex takes the initiative. It is important for a man to understand that he will not be denied acquaintance or communication. Yes, confusion and timidity are not unique to women.

So, what to do in order for a man to pay attention to you:

Make eye contact. Look at the desired object, holding the view for 2-7 seconds. As soon as he notices you, smile. Then turn away and repeat the trick again (after about 10 minutes). It is very important that the eyes express warmth and benevolence. A cold, scornful look will only alienate a man.
Smile, laugh even better. Cheerful people always attract attention. They are much easier to meet, easy to start a conversation. And vice versa, I don’t feel like communicating with a sad, reticent person. The important point - a smile should not be fake or stretched like in American films. Joke, laugh from the heart, this is one of the main weapons of women in the art of seduction.
There are other ways to attract the attention of men. For example, you can, casually drop in front of him your scarf, shawl or other unbreakable object. Surely he will help lift the fallen thing. Thank him, noting how attentive and gallant he is. You can also ask for help, for example, open a bottle of water. Yes, just ask the time or find out how to get to the famous cafe or theater.

Council If a man does not show his interest, do not be discouraged. Perhaps he is now very busy or just immersed in his thoughts. However, just in case, try to find out if he is not married. If his heart is already taken, any attempt to get close will be in vain.

Art of seduction

So, your chosen one has already noticed you, but is still not in a hurry to take the initiative. It happens. Sometimes a man doubts whether he needs to make a new acquaintance at all.

If you want to finally conquer it, it is important not to sit back. You can interest him even more with your appearance, conversation, various "female things".

First things first.

Appearance

Many women, becoming interested in a man, rush from one extreme to another. Then she is too fat or thin, and the whole body must be carefully hidden, then her figure is the height of perfection, which, of course, must be exposed to the maximum. No, no, no, you can't do that. In the first case, the man, most likely, will not pay attention to you at all, and in the second, he will take it as a vulgar, accessible woman. It is necessary to keep the middle ground:

Dress femininely, avoid men's clothes in the wardrobe.
Emphasize only one virtue - a smart chest, long legs, elastic hips.
Give preference to light, flowing fabrics of light or bright colors.
Shoes choose a small, comfortable heel.
Apply a light make-up, leave your hair loose or collect them not too tight.
Do sports. Perfect body like absolutely everyone.

Council Forget about your complexes. A man will rather feel your insecurity than notice any shortcomings. In addition, a well-groomed woman is always beautiful, so everything is in your hands. Choose the right clothes, experiment with make-up and hairstyles, and that’s all, half the success in your pocket.

Conversation

To talk with a man need to be able to. Conversation with the opposite sex and communication with women are completely different things, at least at first.

In order to interest your chosen one, it is important to pay special attention to intonations, voice timbre, and, of course, to choose the right subject for conversation.

Just follow these rules:

speak slowly and clearly;
your voice should be calm;
do not shout or scream;
touch only positive topics;
do not complain, do not gossip, and do not tell tearful stories;
communicate on the subject of art, share experiences, ideas, feelings;
kidding;
ask a lot of questions;
listen carefully;
periodically demonstrate your interest ("are you serious?" "Is it really true?", "wow, but I did not know!");
read more - it is easier for well-read people to keep up the conversation;
try not to use slang in communication with a man.

Language of the body

Man is a rational being, it is indisputable. However, he is not alien to animal habits and instincts. As in the animal world, there are special domination or submission poses among people.

A woman who wants to interest a man should show helplessness with her body.

How to do it:

Show your neck. You can tilt your head to the shoulder or tilt it up. And if you keep visual contact, it will be perceived at an unconscious level as a call.
Play with your feet. Swing your foot or slipper lightly. If the dress is short enough, put your legs together and sit with a half-sided man, demonstrate their entire length. Another trick is tossing one foot over the other. In this case, it is important that the skirt or dress were not too short, otherwise the man will consider you frivolous.
Talking with a man, lean your body forward slightly. In this way, you will demonstrate your most vulnerable spots - the chest and neck.
Open your lips. You can occasionally bite or lick them. Too tight, his mouth clamped speaks of nervousness, impatience and even aggression. Open lips show a willingness to dialogue.
Touch yourself with your hands. As if by chance, touch your lips, neck, shoulders. Movement should be smooth and light. Ironing yourself is not necessary, it will already look defiant. You can put your hands behind your head or stretch. So your figure will look even more advantageous.
Straighten hair. Playing with hair is the most ancient secret of seduction. Especially good if they are well maintained and long. You can flip curls on one side, correct, throwing your head back, or just dissolve them at some point.

Advice from the author. To interest a man simply be yourself. It is important to be able to show your individuality and uniqueness. If you are a wonderful hostess, then you should not pretend to be a business woman or a socialite. Perhaps, these are what most people like, but sooner or later the mask will have to be removed. It is better to be open and straight, then men will attract the right ones. And the wrong ones ... why do you need them?

So how can a man be interested? First of all, you need not be afraid to show interest. This does not mean that you need to rush to the chosen one on the neck with the words "I am all yours." Just a warm look, an alluring smile, an interesting conversation. And then it's up to him.