"I have no future, but my whole life flows into the abyss," - such an idea sounds more and more with you? Why do we live and why is it important to set goals? How to stop finding excuses and achieve results? Why do thoughts of suicide arise so often? If you are tired of struggling with the thought of suicide, and life teaches lessons every day - read the article to the end. There are many ways that will dissuade you from parting life and give you confidence. You do not see them yet? Then stay with us.
Why do we think that we have no future
What if you want to die? Continue to give up on yourself, blame everything around ... but why? Man associates his existence on Earth with the idea of achieving success, obtaining status, wealth, and with him, perhaps, the envy of others, but he does not seek the truth of his behavior. Suicide is a chronic psychological state, when a person pushes himself into a blind corner. The breakdown is complemented by broken mood, problems in society and internal pain.
Such a "nuclear combination" is not something that takes away all thoughts of flowers and cats, but simply takes away the ability to think sensibly from anyone. Constant absorption of the idea “I have no future” is a direct path to the brink, where on one side of thought everything is fixed, but on the other side ... and on the other there is nothing.
We are looking for our place where we will be understood and often do not find understanding. We believe in a good relationship, but we face problems in finding a partner. We are looking for ourselves, but more and more we are disappointed in our weakness and stupidity. There will always be BUT, and it is better to say "how can I get out of this situation and what do I need to do for this."
Yes, everything is simple, but in all the elementary you need to want to understand. Any thought on the topic "no future" has sources that start from one problem. It is like a hotbed of a virus, from which a person cannot recover, and worse, to die. We can not allow the stupid, sometimes, simulated state to cross out all childhood dreams, hope and efforts!
A person is directly connected with a society where his interests, benefits, relationships are concluded. It becomes a shame when you are thrown by your best friends at the most crucial moment when there is no support at the very thought of suicide. And where does it come from? Under the pressure of their interests, human activity, they don’t touch the fact that “I can’t do anything, it's all over, I won’t find my own happiness.” There are two important things in these words that cannot do without each other - this is “I” and “happiness”.
When does a person have no future? The moment when he lost the happiness of all life, which brought him inexhaustible energy! We lose relatives, loved ones, and then we cannot imagine life without their gaze. This, however, is very difficult to survive. It is difficult to survive when he could achieve a gold medal, and got into a car accident. It is difficult when the money collected over the years to buy their own homes was stolen. Life always challenges at the moment when it wants to test a person for willpower. For example, if success came easily, it is possible that it will also evaporate easily. We cry "what to do next?", Because it was the whole point of existence, and we simply were not prepared for another.
What to do if you want to dieeven reading this article now? Do not depreciate your right to a better future, which depends only on you. There is a desire to strive, and not to stand in one place? Why not give up this boring job, where you are constantly underestimated? People around you do not consider you as a person and in every possible way avoid them? Sign up for acting classes, go in for sports, learn a foreign language and go on a trip.
Why not challenge stereotypes, change appearance, break ties with the old social circle? I want to cry, and there is no one to speak? The church helps many people, even when they say they don’t believe in God. The main thing is belief in one's own strength, and when energy is squandered inside, it must be immediately returned. An empty vessel will rust with time, and a full one will shine with the same beauty.
What to do when we are desperate
Best of all, the idea of "I have no future" will be told by the following story. It is taken from real life, and most importantly in it is the state of a person who is tired of fighting with everything.
Maria is a university student who had a hard time in her young years. Now she lives in difficult conditions, where there are no beautiful interiors, good technology, beautiful things in the wardrobe. She was born in a rather poor family, where, moreover, there was no special understanding between each other. At 18, Masha needed to get any job to pay for her education and still look after her sick grandmother.
She had no time for personal space. From morning to three o'clock in the afternoon she studied, and then immediately went to work and from there instantly to her grandmother. Such a routine completely exhausted her, which she said to herself: "I have no future. So I am doomed for decades. Rather, my way out is to die." The illness of a loved one, lack of understanding with relatives, lack of money, lack of their interests and friends made Masha a hostage to circumstances. Life mocked Masha, and she meekly carried her burden, thinking about the tragic end.
What to do if you want to die for life? Need to learn to be grateful. It is gratitude that frees one from obsessive thoughts. Regardless of good or bad, you need to sincerely express understanding for your destiny. The bad is given for a reason, and the good, obviously, is deserved after all the upheavals and frustrations. Why does another have good housing, and I have a barn with an extension? Why do I ride the tram and he drives around in a car? Why is he so hurt, and I'm writhing in moral pain? A famous parable says: "If there is no future, take care of it now.
Regardless of everything, you need to be able to say thanks to the Higher Forces, anything. If you do not have enough strength, you need to fill them with faith through overcoming internal barriers. It will get better over time, and the world will not seem so murderous. "
Masha understood that it was her duty to keep a loved one while he was still with her. She realized that this would only get stronger, and all sorts of little things would not torment her in the future. When others cry for stress at work, she will gratefully recall the lessons that made her a strong personality.
We proceed to practice and begin a reboot of consciousness. How to overcome the thought "I have no future."
To gain their own dignity
You do not need to constantly poke a finger "and he has it, but I do not have it," "he can, but I am nothing." It is important to start with yourself and not live by the achievements of other people, making yourself an empty space. In order to grow financially, in the eyes of other people, you need to learn to respect yourself. Respect is the key to self-realization, without which you cannot build a solid future. Confidently look forward, speak confidently, act confidently - everywhere you need to re-educate your habits. Work on yourself makes a weak whiner with a gray fantasy in the likeness of a decent and happy person. Being in this state, negative thoughts recede into the background.
Want to live for something
Why is there no future? Many do not know what to do with themselves in the coming months, let alone for decades. This trend has been dragging on for years, and man still does not find his destination. It is important to ask the question: “What do I want to do at all and what will it bring to me?”. When you invest strength, your years of life, it is important to understand what it will bring to you.
If you consciously take risks for your moral attitude, you know what you will encounter and howl from despair you should not begin. Why don't you work as a tour guide if you dream of traveling? I want to help animals, and not to work at the slaughterhouse, then it is worth getting a veterinary clinic. The meaning of life is a favorite thing that will bring prospects in the future. You do not see prospects now - change your occupation.
Don't mess around
What if you want to die? Do not allow yourself to be lazy. Such a luxury is clearly not for someone who uses their time for self-torture badly. No goals, desires? Then you need to take the right path and get rid of bad habits. Alcohol, drugs, promiscuous sex, even banal profanity does not pull us to success. People are buried in their own dirt, which is born from inaction. Why is the water in the spring tasty? It flows, constantly clears, makes its way through the stones. The water in the pool is dead, it cannot be clean without help. Employment - the best cure for poverty, disrespect from others and, above all, yourself.
Open the mind
I have no future, because the world around is limited, there are no opportunities in it. Being in a gray mass, it is difficult to notice glimpses of happiness. You need to keep seeing the world differently. When you are constantly called and complained about life, and you dutifully assent, you load yourself with the idea of “really, everything is bad” - this is the way to the bottom.
Someone says that there is good, and here is bad? Why not do something for well-being. Tired of seeing empty lawns and trash - you can write in the social. networks post familiar, in order to remove the park and plant trees. No more strength to sit in this city bezvylazno? Great, now you should book a train ticket and go to a beautiful place for a couple of days. You can not focus on one thing - it stifles morally, bringing a person to a state of panic. Reading books perfectly trains imagination, and, therefore, the main gyrus. It is necessary to take a step into the unknown and find their unrevealed ability.
Invest in your future
To get quality knowledge, people go to universities, attend refresher courses, go to trainings. If you sit still, see others grow, and you degrade - it's time to take hold of the mind. Want to master the skills of a programmer? Great idea to enroll in courses, take time to study on the Internet. I do not want to live in old age is poor, do not afford to buy private housing, cars?
It is time now to postpone 10% of the income (the golden rule). And it is better to make money work for you. Why not consider a stable bank and put the amount on deposit? Smart people calculate their steps in advance, determining their price. If there is a shortage now, then you need to invest strength, money, intelligence in increasing the reserve.
Do charity work
So that thoughts of suicide do not even try to knock on your door, you need to take care of others. When you dwell on your own person, you do not think about the needs of others who really need it. When was the last time we bought groceries and gave them to an old grandmother? When they stopped and asked the person who was crying, “what happened to you”? Why did we forget that we need to share love, care, and our well-being with those who are in critical condition? Be sure to filter your environment, as there are cases of fraud. But we can not exclude their contribution to the protection of ecology, the arrangement of the city, and the assistance to the poor.
We believe that the thought "I have no future" let you go. You are a full-fledged person who has everything possible to achieve freedom. Do not limit yourself to the thought of hopelessness, because for someone it can only be the tip of the iceberg. Be strong and know that support is always there. We believe in you!
