The heart of a woman is a mystery. You can never say for sure which one of several fans she would prefer. Often, the choice of a girl is led by far from common sense, but by a heart impulse, which is beyond the power of the majority of others. What should be a real man, able to conquer the mysterious heart of a beautiful lady?
It is very difficult to answer this question unequivocally: how many people (I will give, in our case), so many opinions. Let's try to go a narrower way and consider the most common qualities that are associated in women with masculinity. Surveys by sociologists among ordinary Russian women will help us to do this. So, what qualities do ladies appreciate most in men?
Sharp mind
In the same category can be attributed such qualities as a high level of intelligence, ingenuity, erudition, broad horizons. Why is this side of male nature most attractive for women?
Anna, 25 years old: "My first love was my diploma thesis at the institute. I could not help but fall victim to his sharp mind, education, which became the cause of first deep respect for him, and then a strong attachment.
It seemed to me that with such a man you can always feel safe - he will be able to solve any problem, pave the right course towards achieving the goal. Even though my love has not turned into something more, I still remember him with admiration. It is a pity that such a clever man in my path no longer came across, but I do not lose hope. "
Sincerity
What should be a real man to justify the confidence of a woman? He should not lie to her. Sincerity is the second main quality of an ideal boyfriend. Here we also assign the concepts of honesty, loyalty, candor, decency.
Many women remain faithful to their partner, as they consider this the main manifestation of love. Accordingly, they expect the same from their man. In the question of treason, women are divided into two camps: some prefer not to know about it, while others expect recognition from their wrong life partner. The champions of truth are the overwhelming majority, therefore such a thing as sincerity is second in the ranking of the qualities of a real man.
Of course, women prefer sincerity without misconduct - that is, without betraying, hiding, petty deceptions. At the same time flattery for deception is not considered.
Good temper
Russian women live with emotions and feelings, which is why they love men so much, who show their indifference to others. What should a real man be for a woman to consider him kind?
- A good man loves children: he can spend time with the child, be able to occupy him with interesting games, calm him down if necessary.
- A good man helps strangers: he takes the old people across the road, helps to bring a woman a bag, gives a hand to women as they leave the transport.
- A good man will not blame the woman for her offense, will not remind her of him afterwards.
- A good man can listen to a woman when she is sad or ill, give advice and touch her.
Great sense of humor
Women love to laugh - it helps them relax, have fun, relieve stress. When a woman laughs, she instinctively begins to feel sympathy for the one who made her laugh. Therefore, joker and enjoy such a hugely popular with the female.
Larisa, 32 years old: “My husband and I met at a wedding with friends. The toastmaster turned out to be a terrible bore, so the guests soon got bored. And then the witness himself began to organize unusually funny contests, throw jokes and eventually saved the whole wedding! He simply fascinated me with his charm! "
Masculinity
Oddly enough, this quality is only in 4th place, but its value is therefore not reduced. Women love to feel weak, and this is only possible next to a strong man.
What is masculinity in the eyes of the female half of the population?
- the ability to not give up in difficult life situations;
- courage and determination;
- lack of fear of taking responsibility;
- leadership skills.
Man since ancient times is considered the head of the family, and women have a desire to obey nature. With the development of feminism, this desire is no longer so clearly manifested. The reason can be considered not only female emancipation, but also the degeneration of a male warrior, a male earner: today many women take on this role. But if even a very strong lady suddenly meets a man stronger than her, she will fight him, but in the depths of her soul she will still wish to obey him.
Generosity and generosity
These masculine qualities are important for a huge number of women. So it is customary: a real man should be able to pamper his darling, do not skimp on gifts and surprises. Of course, we are talking about the golden mean.
Rita, 27 years old: “As a student, I met a guy for a couple of months, everything was fine with us! I wanted to do something pleasant - I noticed that he walks without gloves in the winter, and the skin on his hands wears and cracks.
What was my surprise when he gave me nothing at all, referring to the fact that he had no money. At the same time for the purchase of several boxes of alcohol, to celebrate the holiday with fellow students, he had enough money. I soon broke up with him. He is not a man, since he cannot even please his girlfriend on a holiday. "
Other qualities
There are several other characteristics that, in the opinion of Russian women, a real man should have:
- physical strength;
- ability to earn;
- a responsibility;
- cleanliness;
- sensitivity
It is impossible to say with certainty what a real man should be - the answer to this question is different for each individual woman. But what should not be doubted is that a woman needs, above all, a beloved and loving man.
