Women's attractiveness is a whole set of parameters and qualities, which together create a unique and very attractive image.
And to enjoy success with men, women around the world are trying to uncover the secrets and laws of attractiveness. How to become a real woman, attracting men?
Concept and Psychology
What is female attractiveness?
Female attractiveness - This is a combination of internal and external features that increase in the eyes of a man the importance of a woman with these characteristics.
Three criteria for female attractiveness:
- physical;
- energy;
- intellectual.
Physical criterion
These include appearance, figure, style of dress, gait, manner of correcting hair, shape of nails and other trifles, which men perceive through the organ of vision.
At the same time there are no certain parameters of the "ideal" female body, face and style. Every guy has his own view on beauty.
Energy criterion
Every woman radiates its energy.
And it is energy that is the fundamental criterion in the issue of female attractiveness.
If a lady leads a conversation with an indifferent face, wanders the walls with an absent glance and makes all the movements as if by force, her energy source will not be able to feed a man.
But representatives of the stronger sex are looking for inspiration, motivation and energetic charge in their companions, which will push for new feats.
Therefore, to cause true delight and "dependence" will lively, emotional women with an active attitude.
Intellectual criterion
Men do not like stupid women. Common Myth Crashes. Some guys love smart women who talentedly pretend to be silly.
But very few infantile and deprived of wisdom women will find attractive.
What attracts a woman?
What kind of women do men consider attractive? Attracts:
- Femininity. This is one of the most valuable qualities inherent in the weak half of humanity. Femininity is not long skirts and heels (although they add charm), but external helplessness, vulnerability and tenderness that stimulate a man to protect, protect and care.
- Wisdom. A wise girl will not defend her point of view with foaming at the mouth, even if she is really right. She gently pushes the man to the correct conclusion and after that wonders how well and smoothly he invented everything. A wise woman can forgive a man little weaknesses, endure his complex temperament, at the right moment to become a fighting friend and, if necessary, motivate a man.
- Self-confidence. One of the most "delicious qualities." Self-confident woman battles men to fell. Her shoulders are straight, and her gaze is directed forward. She looks boldly, but not arrogantly.
She enjoys the awareness of her own uniqueness, calmly leads a conversation with a man and is not lost in front of the powerful of this world.
- Coquetry. Half-smile, casual compliment, sincere admiration for the strength and abilities of the man, a request for help and a strong thanks. All this merges into pleasant music for the ear of a man. And between times a coquette straightens a dress, gracefully twists a curl on a finger and plays with a glass of champagne.
- Smile. Sincere smile fascinates. Especially if this smile appears on a woman’s face as a reaction to a man’s jokes. In this case, the representative of the stronger sex not only admires the smiling beauty, but also receives a compliment to his sense of humor.
- Appearance. Appearance is a matter of taste. But in any case, an attractive woman should take care of herself, do a manicure and pedicure in time, monitor the cleanliness of hair and body, and dress neatly and with taste. Makeup should emphasize the dignity and hide flaws, but at the same time be invisible to the male eye.
It is better to give up all pretentious, flashy, extravagant and ultra-fashionable.
- Smell. The smell of a woman is a separate category. He beckons, lures, turns his head and causes addiction. Particular attention should be paid to perfume and perfumed products, since men form a strong link between the female image and the smell. And even having heard familiar perfume in a completely unexpected place, a man unwittingly remembers the owner of this fragrance.
- Thrift. A woman is not obliged to spend all her time at the stove, constantly wash and iron, and also perceive cleaning as her main entertainment. But she should be able to manage the housekeeping, and the man should KNOW about it. It is enough to wash his things once, prepare a delicious dinner and do the cleaning. Then the value of women in the eyes of men will increase, because she has the most feminine skill - thrift.
- Curiosity. An inquisitive woman always looks younger than her age, her eyes sparkle, and the winner's smile plays on her lips. It is interesting to talk to her, because she knows so much! And at the same time conquers new heights in the field of science, work, creativity or hobbies.
- Independence. In any circumstances, the woman must remain independent. She can live on full support of a man, take expensive gifts and leave work. But she always has escape routes in case of a major quarrel or break. She will not be lost if the man suddenly decides to end the relationship.
This is very important, since women completely dependent on men are perceived by the stronger sex not as a person, but as an “attachment” to a partner.
Therefore, in the head of a guy should always be the idea that he can lose you and his resources do not act as a guarantor of security and a huge advantage in matters of relationship.
Factors attractive girls, as partner
The female partner is very interesting category.
Such a woman must be either an equal member of the union, or a missing element of one whole, which is formed by adding the best qualities of a man and a woman.
In addition, the female partner must:
- to be able to defend their point of view, without affecting the pride of the man;
- provide support, but not “drag” relationships and affairs on themselves;
- to encourage a man to take initiative;
- to make adjustments to the fact that men and women think differently;
- love in any circumstances, being a powerful energy source;
- to remain a woman, even being equal for a man by status.
A woman as a partner can help a man achieve his goals in such a way that he ascribes all the merits to himself, but at the same time he is grateful to the woman for her support and wise instructions.
Psychology tips
How to become more attractive for men and guys?
To be attractive in the eyes of a man or a guy, it is important to avoid the typical mistakes that women sin.
Three images acting on the opposite sex repulsive:
- Businessman in a skirt. A woman is cold, calculating, devoid of emotions and used to command everyone around. Her boss's tone does not change even at home; she doesn’t put men in a penny and is ready to contend with each of them.
She absolutely atrophied such quality as femininity. She just can not and does not allow herself to be affectionate and gentle.
- Bitchy lady. She is capricious, hysterical, inadequate and does not know how to be sincere. Her inaccessibility attracts men, but after several meetings, interest in her disappears (or after intimacy). As a result, the bitch is left alone.
- Eternal housewife. It can not be imagined without a robe and ladle. She always smells like cooking, looks scruffy and always busy with household chores. It is impossible to talk with her about anything other than pots, tile washing agents and a new way of bleaching kitchen napkins.
To become attractive in the eyes of men, you need start living for fun.
Accept your status as a woman and enjoy it as an advantage.
Search and experience real emotions, do not step on your feelings, forgive weaknesses and allow liberties.
Any man will fall in love with such a woman who lives to the full. After all, happiness and genuine emotions attract like a magnet.
A few more tips on how to become attractive and beautiful in the eyes of guys and men:
- Entering a dialogue with a man, remember the most pleasant memory from the past and keep it in your head. As a result, a satisfied expression will appear on your face, your eyes will become lively and sparkling, and attempts to suppress a pop-up smile will add charm.
- Don't put accents on yourself. Better in the dialogues to mix the focus on your interlocutor. Men love to talk about themselves. And they love mysterious women.
Therefore, by keeping silent about her secrets and listening to her partner, a woman gets double benefit.
- Do not be afraid to show emotions. A woman is a volcano of passions, feelings and emotions. This is exactly what the men are waiting for from the opposite sex. You should not try to smooth out sharp corners, keep silent about your offenses or restrainedly show admiration, trying to preserve a secular facial expression. Unleash your feelings, even if it seems childish to you.
- Do not push a man. A woman should not force a man to take the first step, confess his love or offer to live together. He must make all serious decisions on his own, so as not to feel like a puppet-led woman next to him. After all, the lady commander loses all charm in the eyes of a man.
Most of all men value not appearance and character, but his condition next to a woman. If the chosen one gives a feeling of fullness, motivation, warmth and completeness, the representative of the stronger sex will be smitten.
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