First step. Some girls are convinced that the first to take the initiative and attract a guy is definitely not worth it, you have to wait patiently for him to notice you and take an interest. Those who believe that happiness should be fought, and would be happy to take the "first step", but do not always know how to attract a man.
In order for the man he likes to have a reciprocal feeling of sympathy, he must be interested. He should not just notice the girl, but pay close attention to her. What do I need to do? At least once to be in close proximity to him, to be noticed.
If you decide to attract a guy, arm yourself with sharpness and act actively.
Experienced seductresses know how to fascinate with just one look, they boldly flirt and flirt. For the rest of the ladies, attracting the attention of a nice guy to your person is not an easy task.
It would be nice, before embarking on active actions, to gather some information, namely, to find out:
- the character of the guy;
- his hobbies, occupation, interests, hobbies;
- which girls he likes;
- what kind of relationship he dreams of.
Learning about a man is enough to understand what kind of person he is, getting his attention is much easier.
If there are no “clues”, think about what people usually pay attention to? For something extraordinary, beautiful, interesting, desirable and at the same time close to those ideals and values that are in the mind.
How to become attractive
A man is more likely to be attracted by a girl close to his ideal. With the maximum similarity of the real girl with the desired, the guy will not miss the opportunity to strike a relationship with her.
We must try to meet his expectations, without losing their individuality!
Although there is no friend to the taste and color, psychology studies show that most men are more likely to find an attractive girl with such features as:
- Femininity. Men love their eyes, so you need to take care of yourself, emphasize the dignity and hide the flaws in appearance. Height and weight are not as important as the harmony of the silhouette and the ability to fascinate with a look and a smile.
It is important that your body shape, gait and behavior are feminine. Smoothness, grace, tenderness and notes of sexuality create an aura of attractiveness. Men like women who not only look beautiful, but also talk, look, smile, laugh and generally behave beautifully, adequately to the situation, educated and calm.
I would say that femininity is the inner warmth of the soul, calm and warming, but at the same time intriguing and mysterious, ready at any time to turn into a hot passion.
- Self-confidence. Confidence relieves stiffness, tightness, excessive shyness and other "side effects" of an inferiority complex that interfere with the best side.
Self-confident girl is positive, courageous, benevolent, open and ready to talk. It is easy to approach and communicate with her; she herself is not afraid to take the first step. A self-confident girl will not be afraid to draw the attention of a man to herself, she will not think that she may look stupid or hear a refusal, but simply uses the opportunity and opportunity offered to her.
- Personality. You must admit that not all girls who are incredibly popular with men are hand-written beauties, but they all have a certain talent to attract attention to themselves. Inner peace can be more charming appearance.
It is good when a girl has hobbies, successes, life achievements, plans and aspirations. But psychologists are unanimous in their opinion that the woman who will listen to him and be interested in him will be more attractive for a man than just talking about herself.
Once upon a time I read N. Butman's book “How to fall in love with yourself in 90 minutes” and took one recommendation: to speak more often to an interesting person “Me too!”. Having found something in common, similar, dear to the personality of another person, we will certainly be interested in them. General views, interests, increases - this is the reason to tie and continue communication.
Becoming desired for an interesting man, it will not be difficult to draw his attention: he will turn him on you!
Express methods of attracting attention
One of my friends, who had no end of the fans, gave me this advice: "If you want passing men to always have a reason to come and meet you, go in high-heeled shoes, but rather on heels. In that case, and in winter, you can always ask for a “helping hand”, in the extreme case - to slip gracefully, and in the summer you can, as it were, accidentally twist your leg.
A classic example from TV shows: the girl carries some textbooks, notebooks, packages in her hands and faces a nice guy head-on, and he, like a real gentleman, helps her to collect scattered things.
You can come up with many such harmless tricks and methods of attracting attention. The principle of such methods is simple: to make the guy, without hesitation, come to the rescue. Any man dreams of being a superhero, you need to give him that opportunity.
To attract a guy, you need to take into account the peculiarities of male psychology.
Only an indifferent "cracker" will refuse a girl if, for example, she asks to bring a heavy suitcase to her porch. The flight of fantasy in inventing such situations is limited only by the place in which the girl most often meets with her nice guy.
If you are not a strategist, you are afraid that the "plan" will not work, or simply very shy, you can get the guy's attention without doing anything, just by appearance. Bright accessories, beautiful hair, makeup, sexy outfit can attract the attention of any man, the main thing - do not overdo it, so as not to make a false or repulsive impression.
Express methods suggest that the guy will take an incentive that has attracted attention, as a reason to start communicating, but whether it will be possible to continue it is not known. The probability that the attention of a man will manage to keep is approximately equal to 50% out of a hundred.
Attracting a handsome man, try to be for him "prey", and not "hunter"!
Oksana, Moscow
