Scientists have proven that all people are divided into several types according to the way they perceive the surrounding reality: audials, visuals, kinesthetics and discretes. Consider the features of people for whom the main way of obtaining information about the world is hearing, i.e. audials.
The type of perception of the audial is a rather rare type of people. Only about 5-7% of people in the world perceive information by ear.
During a conversation, the person-audial always carefully listens to the interlocutor, although sometimes it seems that he has lost the thread of the conversation, having turned away or closed his eyes. In fact, with the eyes closed, the audial absorbs information even better.
Description of the audit.
People of this type often have problems with memorizing the faces of people, the route of movement. But he easily remembers the voice of a person, melodies, phone number, uttered aloud. They and the person as a whole, his character, determine and memorize by voice.
To do the work, the audience needs complete silence. To work to music is beyond his power. Audiences choose quiet areas or soundproof materials for living; silence is also an important quality in the cabin of the car. Household appliances, decor elements audial also chooses, focusing on their sound characteristics.
Audience people should not raise their voices, scold them or call them names. All this will be deposited in their memory and the relationship with the abuser is unlikely to improve once.
To memorize something, the auditor needs only to discuss this material with someone or just say it out loud. It is useless to read books and abstracts, draw graphs and diagrams, look at pictures to memorize material.
Audials can be collectors, and for them not the artistic or material value of the collection is important, but the history of each individual item or exhibit. They can tell these stories excitedly, giving the impression of a person erudite in these matters.
How to determine the auditory?
- People are divided into different types of perception, temperament, personality. To find out what type of perception a particular person belongs to, one should ask him to tell him something on a free topic. For example, ask to describe his apartment or work. It is important to consider how a person responds. If in the story he mentions that "there is so quiet, you can hear birds singing", "the floors are creaking", "the road repair does not stop outside the window - they drill something day and night," do not doubt that you are audial
- The words that are characteristic of the speech of an audial are connected with what can be perceived by ear: speak, voice, noiseless, answer, sing, sound, melodic, hear, etc.
- In audios, when communicating, the gaze is most often directed along the middle line, right or left.
- Audi remembers better what he was talking about, what he read, saw on photos and videos, logically and so on.
- Audials are often calm, quarrels and conflicts themselves never begin, try not to raise their shouts and not to raise their voices.
Child audial.
If your child belongs to the number of people-audials, most likely, you are faced with the fact that he was aware of what you tried to hide from him. And this is not due to the fact that he specifically overhears adult conversations, but his ear is better developed than other senses.
Most often, these children learn to speak before others, have a rather rich vocabulary. Even when a baby plays on its own, it can mumble something about itself. And sometimes this quality is typical for adult audials. Such children are sociable, more like to discuss something than to play.
You can give a few recommendations for the education of these guys:
- You should not scold the audience for poor drawing or calligraphy. His eyesight is less developed than hearing - these are his peculiarities. And, as we know, it is impossible to remake a person.
- Develop a child's musical ability. Among audials are the largest number of successful musicians. To do this, from early childhood one should surround the child with various pipes, keys, and drums. In older adults, you can purchase a guitar, piano, or button accordion for your child. Moreover, it is not necessary to force students to engage with the teacher and do the tasks at home; he himself will be happy to do it.
If your friend - audial.
In order for the audience to enjoy the conversation with both participants, it is important to adhere to the following rules:
- In your speech, use more often the key words that are associated with hearing and speech for the audience: “Hear?”, “Say”, “Speak”, “Ask”, “Listen”, etc.
- When communicating with the audial, try to pay attention to the surrounding sounds. If you share your feelings with the other person, it will inspire confidence in you. But sincerity is important here: no need to compare the annoying sound of working equipment outside the window with the singing of birds in the summer forest.
- Do not try to hit the audial with the appearance and do not expect instant response. He may mark your gorgeous appearance, but he will not say anything out loud and will not make compliments. Not because he is stingy with compliments, it is simply not important for him.
- Try to speak as many pleasant and beautiful as possible, possibly unusual and rarely used words. Moreover, it is important not only to make beautiful speeches, but also to make it in a beautiful, pleasant voice. And if you are also good at singing, get ready for the fact that the interlocutor does not want to part with you at all.
