When it comes to kissing, inexperience is confusing like nothing else. It is terrible to do something wrong, to disappoint your partner, to become a laughing stock. However, these problems can be easily avoided by delving into theory. Different people kiss differently, so it is advisable to prepare for everything. How to kiss for the first time skillfully, pleasantly, using different techniques?
General rules of kissing
Regardless of which technique of kiss is chosen, there are a number of general recommendations that will have to be followed. Main principles:
- hygiene. Whole body, but especially the oral cavity. Kissing an onion fanatic, a nicotine exhaust pipe or just a sloppy personality? No thanks. Shower, deodorant, toothpaste with a brush, chewing gum or candy - a necessity. If there is also a light pleasant aroma of perfume - great;
- comfort zone. Kiss someone for the first time = break his personal space. You can not show sharpness, not making sure first that the pair is also ready for such a step. You have to be patient and do everything gradually;
- rejection of egoism. Two kiss, it means the pleasure let them get two too. It is better not to forget about his or her needs, comfort and to monitor the reaction, responding in time to change;
- tactile contact. He is extremely important. In part, it is desirable to establish it before the kiss - take a hand, under the elbow, embrace. Then, in action, the awkwardness will be much less.
With this approach, it will be easier to get a chance for a second date, relationships, deep sympathy. Elementary politeness, upbringing play an equally important role.
"Gold standard"
This is the basic technique with which almost all types of kisses begin. For this reason, it is better to devote even more time attention than others. If you thoroughly study this method of kissing, we can assume that all the others have already been studied by at least 50%.
The “gold standard” is wonderful suitable for the first kiss in life. He also fits perfectly into the concept of the couple's first kiss. That is, even if the guy / girl is already considered a virtuoso in this area, in the only established relationships it is better to start with this technique anyway.
Approximate course of action:
- slowly approach the whole body or body (depending on the situation, the position of the couple) to the partner as far as possible;
- provide tactile contact - put your hands on the waist, shoulders, neck, face, stroke, embrace;
- slowly, smoothly begin to reach out to your lips, directing your gaze precisely to them (it will look strange or ridiculous near the “eye to eye”);
- close your eyes just before the very first touch, when the breath of the couple will be felt most clearly;
- open mouth, gently touch the lips of the partner, it is very easy to press them;
- try to carry out a series of weak “smacks”, without straining much of the mouth muscles;
- slightly clasp the lips of your beloved;
- to repeat everything in the same style, alternating the speed of actions, periodically changing the points of contact (corners, middle, upper / lower lip).
This kiss ends in the reverse order. The pace slows down, the pressure is weakened, the mouth closes. Then you can slowly open your eyes, pull away.
Such skill is suitable for people sensitive, romantic, gentle. They probably want to kiss for the first time that way.
French kiss
The French style is more passionate in nature and, as is known, requires the use of language. The movements performed by this organ of the speech apparatus cannot be called systematized, but it is also better not to do them chaotic. Actions can be directed to:
- exclusively in the language of the partner;
- only on the tongue and lips;
- on the tongue, cheeks, teeth, sky - on all that you can get.
The danger of the last species isthat during it you can easily forget and cause discomfort to a guy or girl. That is why the first two methods are optimal for a debut in the style of “French”. Sequence:
- start with a simple kiss;
- gently, gently touch the tip of the tongue of his / her lips;
- if there was no protest, increase the pressure, but not make it rude or dirty;
- push the tip of the line of the lips to the teeth;
- meet with the partner's language and “tickle”, “stroke” him with your own;
- continue in the same manner, making sure that the own language is not in the mouth of the pair more than half its length.
How to finish the lesson? It is better to go back to a simple method, and then stop completely. It is important not to come off abruptly.
Kiss kiss
This is the most passionate of all known. It is rarely used for the first time, but there are exceptions, so it is desirable to learn it. Procedure:
- start a simple technique;
- go to the French style, but do not push the tongue further than the line of the partner’s teeth;
- gradually, but surely, noticeably increase the pressure of the lips, of the head as a whole, tighten the muscles of the mouth more strongly;
- to start opening the mouth wider (not to the maximum), to move not only the lips, but also the chin, the head (without an excessively strong amplitude);
- it is desirable (but not necessary) at this stage to stop using the language - this can be fraught with injuries;
- try to completely wrap the pair of lips with your own, drawing in the air;
- add passion to the touch of the hands, the body.
Departure from this option is the most difficult. Emotions were played out, actions became sweeping, poorly controlled. If you continue at this pace, then everything will obviously end intim. If there are no such intentions, then it’s better not to delay this kind of kissing.
The completion is identical to the previous techniques, that is, performed in the reverse order.
"Mill"
This species can be called one of the french kiss subspecies. This technique is very common, popular, and therefore deserves separate consideration. How to act:
- go to the standard technique;
- start kissing in french;
- first touch the tips of the tongues only, teasing your mate;
- using the back already, try to make a circular rotation of the tongue around the partner’s language;
- adjust to the pace, find a comfortable rhythm, continue to move in a circle;
- occasionally change directions (clockwise and against), alternate with other touches (standard, other French).
“The Mill” can be used as the first attempt at a french kiss. The movements are more understandable, there is less improvisation in them, and therefore they will be liked by those who like everything to go according to plan.
“Fight of mouths”
This kissa is quite playful, but at the same time, passionate. It combines feelings, excitement, flirting, easy rivalry. How to perform it:
- kiss in a simple way;
- increase pressure on the lips, but not to the maximum;
- begin to constantly hug the lips of your partner, as if fighting for the right to possess them;
- add to the touch of suction lips, but without delay - it will cause pain;
- include light bites, ensure that they do not turn into aggressive bites;
- continue in the same vein, alternately wrapping the upper lip and the lower lip alternately.
This option is better to work in advance on the fingers or the same tomatoes, to continue to control themselves and not to hurt the girl / boyfriend. However, having mastered this technique, you can fully enjoy each other's company, close contact.
Information about how to kiss for the first time, is indeed useful. Even if she is not completely remembered or completely forgotten during a kiss, she still gives confidence before the event. Namely, belief in yourself is so fascinating, attracts others, makes kisses unforgettable and enjoyable.
