Absolutely everyone wants his life to be happy and cloudless. But, unfortunately, not everything happens as we would like. And often life gives us not very pleasant surprises, for example, treason of the closest and dearest person to us.
Among modern women, the proposition is very common: "Absolutely every man changes. And my husband will definitely change me." Psychologists ask the question: "If this happens, then how do you react to this?" Such persons perceive treason as an indispensable component of any relationship that does not require any kind of experience or emotion.
But it is important to realize that experiences based on simple reflections on possible change, and real experiences of this fact vary considerably. It is very important to understand the reason for treason and it is necessary to understand why this could happen.
There is a statement that our thoughts are material. Everything that we experience within ourselves must be reflected in the external world. If from the very beginning you can be sure that your partner is changing you or will be changing, then you will unknowingly attract individuals who are prone to this act. Therefore, it is necessary to understand in more detail in this situation.
We will not change the external environment in any way, if we do not understand what happens to us inside first of all. If you use a fairly productive method that will allow us to eliminate the attraction of partners who are ready to change, then we will set ourselves on the right path. This method is very simple, but effective. But not everyone can use it.
It will be impossible to use an effective method only if you do not eradicate the source of the change within yourself. This is not a physical betrayal of a loved one, it is not a betrayal of anyone in this real life. This is a betrayal of himself. As long as you change yourself, real partners will change you. This is the main reason. A logical question arises, how to eradicate this negative quality?
It is necessary to understand what exactly you are changing for yourself, what exactly causes such failures and what can affect the desire to change your beliefs, do everything in spite of yourself. In practice, it is clear that this technique is very effective if we record our thoughts on paper. When people visually perceive it, this will significantly increase the productivity of the technique. Therefore, we stock up on paper, pen and start recording.
To begin with, we describe life situations in which the partner has already changed. You should use verbs that describe how your partner acted and what he did. Then you need to describe the moments of your betrayal to yourself. Then we analyze our behavior in everyday life. We try to identify situations that are pushing you to change yourself.
If you manage to figure out how to get rid of such cases, then you will master the secret of the exclusion of all cheating. In addition, you will have the opportunity to make the best changes in your life. You will have no need to think about the reason why you have trouble in your head. Only you can decide whether to leave the old life or create a new model of your own behavior, in which the betrayal simply vanished.
