With this post I would like to congratulate all the readers on the New Year and upcoming holidays and make a few wishes. First of all, I would like to thank everyone for your feedback, they mean a lot more to me than some of you might think.
Favorable reviews remind me that I am on the right track, that my blog on self-development is not an empty and meaningless idea, that it is really necessary for someone and finds someone to respond. The site is only six months old, but it has already received a lot of grateful comments and its attendance is steadily growing.
So once again, thanks for your comments. And I, in turn, would like to wish you to have fun celebrating the New Year and have a good rest during the holidays. Staying true to the concept of my site, I can not do without a few tips and parting words and limit myself to just wishes.
Holidays - an occasion to look at life from a perspective
I want to say that holidays are an excellent reason to break out of the routine and thus have the opportunity to look at your life from the perspective, from some distance, when viewed from which, all the problems and worries begin to seem small, and your way, the road to meet your Goals look more clearly in the landscape of life that stretches before you.
During the year, while you are busy with family work, you are constantly inside some sort of fuss, eternal trouble. You yourself do not notice how your routine absorbs you, and behind it you no longer distinguish any goals, all your thoughts begin to be reduced to resolving your immediate worries, and your long-time dreams begin to shrink rapidly.
Captured by routine, you no longer see anything beyond its borders, you are completely absorbed in thoughts of work, of purchases, of some intrigues and other nonsense. You become like a captain of a ship, who for many years roamed the seas, not seeing sushi, experienced many terrible storms, and here again fell to the center of one of them.
The captain is standing on the nose and does not see what is hidden behind the waves, he directs all his strength to fight the raging elements: the sailors again and again desperately fight the oncoming waves, some of them fall overboard and are absorbed by the dark sea depths.
When the storm finally stops, the crew of the vessel, having counted the losses, relaxes, barrels of rum open, cards are taken from the chests, unbridled joy begins, a drunken revelry. This goes on for a very short time, until our team is overtaken by the next storm. And here again, the new ...
But if the captain, took advantage of a short lull, instead of carelessly swaggering with the sailors, he would climb the mast, could see a barely visible piece of land at the very horizon and send the ship there, putting an end to endless wanderings.
But, not caring about the future, he preferred to have plenty of fun, and thereby again doomed his crew to meaningless and aimless walking on the seas. Yes, the path to sushi is far and full of dangers, but sooner or later the ship would have gotten to it, and so it continues to go where not known ...
So I also urge you to seize the opportunity of a lull in the sea of routine, instead of plunging yourself into a ten-day alcoholic orgy. Remember, you do not get the necessary rest, while loading your body with alcohol, it only gets more tired and spends a lot of energy.
During the holidays, I advise you to spend more time alone with yourself and your loved ones, walk more, ski, get out into nature, think less about work and your everyday worries, watch TV less.
Such a high-quality rest with your mind and body will give you an excellent opportunity to evaluate your life from a perspective, to understand what suits you or does not suit you, it can be deeper to realize your desires and set new, more suitable goals for you. Think about what prospects await you in the future. Do they suit you? 100%? If not, it may be worth rethinking, to review the current order of things?
Holidays are not eternal, so they will end and you will need to go to work again and wait for the next “vacation” or vacation (of course, I don’t really want to remind myself and you again, but it’s better than not thinking about it at all).
Are you satisfied with this scenario development? Holidays are an excellent reason to think about it, climb high on the mast and try to see the island of land in the distance and send the nose of your ship straight at her. Perhaps your current course is not the most successful, but it is certainly not without alternative, there are many other ways and possibilities that are more suitable for you.
It just so happened that I made all of my most important and, so to speak, “revolutionary” decisions during holidays and holidays, because I let my brain relax and calmly think about my life until I was once again torn by daily worries ...
Therefore, you should not dissolve in entertainment, party and drunkenness, find yourself and your way, relax ...
That is actually the idea that I wanted to convey to you before the upcoming holidays. Well, in order not to finish the post, timed to such a wonderful event on an instructive and even somewhat boring note in these circumstances, I wish you a lot of fun to celebrate the New Year and success in everything, in work, in communication, in dialogue with yourself, in self-development, in setting the right goals and achieving happiness and harmony!
Good luck to you!
