How to interest a guy: working tricks

The situation when the girl is the first "fuse" on the guy is quite typical. Alas, but not always the interest arises for both at the same time. And so I want him to conquer the "impregnable fortress"! But what and how to interest the guy, not turning himself into an object for ridicule? I will share my working tricks.

How to become interesting for a guy?

Any girl dreams to attract the views of the opposite sex. However, for this, of course, you need to have good external data. Without them, conquering a man's heart will be much harder.

Do not be in a hurry to get upset if you are alone and the so-called "gray mice." Everyone can become attractive, it is worth making a little effort.

So, to "hook" a guy you need:

Workout. It will be great if you find something to your liking (for example, dancing, figure skating, scuba diving). This will help to improve not only the figure, but also to become a more interesting, diversified personality.
Always look neat and tidy. Even if you do not have much free time or lack of funds, each can afford a neat manicure, light makeup and fresh clothes. Just take the habit of 30 minutes a day to spend time solely on yourself.
Learn to "talk" correctly. Few who are content with only external attractiveness. To interest the guy, the girl must feel a sensual nature, an educated personality and a deep soul. But to express your inner world is impossible without a competent speech. To learn eloquence, you can go to special courses or just read more.
Follow the tone of your voice. Intonation when talking is very important, the males are very attracted to girls with a soft, unhurried speech. So try not to take "high notes", speak calmly and slowly, so that the sound of your voice is pleasant to listen to.
To be able to adapt to the interlocutor. If possible, try to copy the guy's style of speech, and in no case interrupt him. Find a balance in the conversation, if he likes to listen more - take the role of the narrator on yourself, if he speaks to you about something, listen carefully.

How to choose a key to different types of guys?

There are no two identical guys, so the universal instructions for the temptation simply does not exist. You have to figure out for yourself what your chosen one likes and what pushes away, what he is interested in, etc. However, one cannot fail to mention the different approaches to the temptation of guys-quiet and spoiled by female attention. So, the main differences in the strategy:

How to cause interest in a modest guy? It is this type of guys most often complains about the lack of initiative of girls. It is very difficult for them to show interest and sympathy because of the inner fear of failure. Therefore, when talking with a modest guy, it is important to show sincere, incorruptible interest. He would rather be interested in an open, affectionate girl, than an impregnable "snow queen".
How to cause interest in "macho"? "She was a smart girl until she fell in love." Familiar, is not it? These guys know that they are interested in girls and they easily identify those who have already fallen for his "bait". Therefore, your main task is to show that it is interesting, but not so much that you are ready to lose your head. Act on the principle of "closer - further", periodically give it your attention, and then disappear. If he is completely indifferent to you, try to interest his friend, this is exactly his "cheer up".

Subtleties of temptation

And, of course, where without female features to attract male attention? I will share my own methods that always work with everyone:

Beautiful pictures. In the modern age of technology, everyone has a page on Facebook, contact, classmates, etc. Surely your boyfriend is registered there. Just add as a friend and excite his fantasy regularly with new attractive photographs. It's great if there are a lot of comments under them.
Request for help. Surely you have already found out what MCH is interested in (say, computers). Contact him for help, not forgetting to mention that he was advised as a pro. All the guys are configured to support and protect, they assert themselves in this way.
Unusual hobby. Sign up for a theater group or street dance, extraordinary personalities always attract. Moreover, if it is not possible to interest this particular guy, you will find a lot of other fans of your creativity.
Do not be perfect. Show your weaknesses (just do not complain and do not whine), few guys love strong, independent girls. Allow yourself not to know who Monet is, to love sweets or not to be able to cook soup. Surely you have a lot of other advantages.

Summing up, I would like to add that in the affairs of the heart to blindly follow the instructions is stupid. Falsity can play a cruel joke with you, the guy will simply be interested in your image, and not in a subtle soul. Be yourself, but interesting, fun, exciting and seductive. That's the whole secret.

Natalia, Orsk