Over time, relationships cease to be equally emotional for a couple (positively), men and women get used to each other and stop appreciating their other half. It often happens that a woman leaves, and a man does not even understand why this happened. Sometimes the girl ends the relationship because she met another, sometimes she just realizes that the existing relationship has no future, it is often the man himself who is to blame. Anyway, before returning the girl after breaking up, it is necessary to figure out what exactly was the reason for him.
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When do girls leave themselves?
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Psychologist's comment
If the relationship was long, and both of you took them seriously, then the girl definitely had a significant reason to stop them. Despite the fact that women are often overly emotional and quick-tempered, the break in relationships is a balanced decision that was preceded by long thoughts. This means that to return the girl is not so easy.
If she found another
If this is love, and the girl is sure that she has met her fate, you cannot do anything. No romance, gifts and oaths will not help to return his beloved. Even a million attempts to explain that you are better than he (even though it really is) will not return lost feelings for you. The easiest thing is to switch to something else for a while: work or sport, and after a while start a new relationship.
If you yourself provoked a break in relations
We all make mistakes. If a girl loves you, she is ready to forgive a lot. Constant betrayal, addiction to bad habits does not apply to this. Here, you will first have to work hard on yourself, practically create a new person so that the old relationship resumes, or the new ones will not end either sadly.
Very often, girls leave because they don't feel loved. Women need a lot of attention, it is important for them to receive sms with warm words at the height of the working day, arrange a romantic dinner with a “snotty” movie, get flowers, make funny photo shoots for memory - in general, lots of little things that men consider to be nonsense and a waste of time.
The girl wants to tell with pride to her friends what kind of man is a hero. And you? After all, indulging in women's whims does not mean becoming a henpecked, it means making your beloved happy. Of course, a man must remain a man. He makes decisions, confidence emanates from him, a woman knows that he can solve any of her problems (because girls love to create them so much).
The ability to combine all this will make you the perfect man, before whom you can not resist.
Some recommendations
The main thing you have to do if your girlfriend is gone is to make every effort to become her friend. Do not call her constantly to find out what happened. Send a message and say that you felt good with her, you regret that the relationship is over, but you hope that you can continue to communicate in a friendly way. This is important, because in this case you can always be aware of all the changes in her life.
Do not discuss with her personal topics. No one knows how exactly your girl will react to the presence or absence of a new relationship in your life. She may decide that you did not appreciate her, if you say that you started dating someone (even if you want to make her jealous and come up with it), or understand that you can’t live without her if you don’t have a relationship, but interest on her part will not warm you up.
Try to be close. If she needs some help - help: change the battery in the car or hang a shelf if it makes repairs. Do not start talking about the renewal of relationships, you will understand when it can be done: by look, gesture or touch. Then you hug your beloved and say how you need her. In any case, all this makes sense only if the girl has warm feelings for you.
But it happens that they pass irrevocably, so think about whether you are ready to fight for it, if the result turns out to be not as you expect.
