You meet with your beloved man for more than 5 years. Passion, pleasure and emotion overwhelm you every time you meet.
What else is needed for happiness to any woman? But you are unhappy. Pleasure is replaced by pain, joy - longing, and hope glimmers in the soul ... The hope that he will disperse with his wife and always be only with you - such is the fate of the mistress.
But the years are inexorably going, and sometimes you want to forget everything and start living from scratch. But how to stop loving a married man, to forget him?
There are several ways to stop loving a married man.
Try to "swap places" with his legitimate wife, put yourself in her place. Perhaps it is not easy and painfully difficult - to try on the role of the legitimate spouse and look at the situation with different eyes.
You are waiting for your husband to return from work, have prepared a delicious dinner, bought some pleasant trifle, but the man stayed at work, at a meeting, in a traffic jam, etc. What do you feel? Offense? Mistrust? Fear? Strange calls, fleeting mobile messages, a suspicious odor on his shirt, where he is now and with whom. And it happens all the time.
You feel intuitively treason and betrayal, suffer in suspicion and your worries, but continue to live together. Contrary to everything or for children. You have already moved away from each other, there is no heart-to-heart talk, as before, sex is more like forced labor. Although the husband still says that he has no one, he will be with you and everything will be fine. But where is that passion, that tenderness in relationships, awe and mutual understanding? After all, it was ...
Remain still in the role of his legitimate wife, do not leave. Feel on yourself all her experiences and excitement, understand her as a woman who also loves and is waiting for her beloved man, her partner, chosen one, husband.
But how to stop loving a married man, make yourself stop loving someone else's husband? When you love him, you love only one side of him: at meetings he is caring, pleasant, affectionate, perfect man. Imagine what it is in communicating with other people, what are its disadvantages and disadvantages. Why does his legitimate wife love him - for cheating and deceiving her? And not the fact that being with a man in marriage, you would have everything differently. Think you need one like that?
There is another way to stop loving a married man. Start offering him to live together, get married, put a choice like "me or a wife", etc. And the more often you will repeat it, the faster he will be frightened and move away from you. And if you become annoying, persistently monitor him every step, endlessly call him, then a married man will simply enrage, he will become angry at you and express aggression. Think you need one like that?
It's never too late to start everything from scratch, to find a new love without pain and deception. Remember that you deserve a better attitude towards a better man, and on someone else’s grief you cannot find happiness.
