Simple kisses perfectly convey sympathy, tenderness, care. However, they rarely show something more passionate, intimate, frank. But the French equipment successfully copes with this task. However, the practice without previously learned theory does not always go smoothly. You do not feel like hitting the dirt with your face when you first try. Then how to kiss your tongue right? What mistakes should be avoided?
Kiss with tongue
He may not like everyone. Someone, in principle, does not like to kiss often and often, but someone is against just such a technique. How to recognize someone who can appreciate the benefits of “seduction in French”?
Most often these people are:
- passionate, open, emotional, expressive people, mostly extroverts. They start up quickly, and their feelings are reminiscent of a typhoon or a storm;
- curious, ready to experiment personages. They do not tolerate monotony, with joy, optimism perceive any changes;
- lovers of proximity. They are strongly attached to their couple, striving to maintain close contact at the physical, emotional and often everyday level.
This also includes partners who are in long-term relationships. They have already managed to build high level of trust, frankness. They are not afraid of intimacy, so often they are not averse to “fingering” feelings with a kiss with a tongue.
According to its strength, the intensity of the French technique can be completely different. Even if a guy / girl doesn’t particularly like to kiss, you can still find a style that will give him / her pleasure. Another thing - unavailability or lack of mood for such an activity. How to define such states?
How to understand if the partner is ready to kiss with the language
It is good if he / she starts using the language himself, openly making him aware of the desire to close the distance. But what if there are no obvious promises for rapprochement? How to guess the very moment that requires the use of French equipment, especially for the first time?
Atmosphere and atmosphere
Simple "cement" universal and relaxed. They do not have a high intimacy threshold; therefore, few people are embarrassed when they are played in public. They can be used anytime, anywhere. What can not be said about the language contact. Often it requires:
- solitude. Stretching such pleasure under the gazes of passers-by is too embarrassing;
- suitable preposition. Perhaps with erotic overtones. This may be a joint dinner, watching a love scene in the film, frank conversations, etc .;
- romantic setting. Dim lights, candles, lights of the night city, beautiful sunset, sexy music set up the desired mood;
- lack of haste. Sweet shivering, the heat that spreads throughout the body does not always come immediately. It will take several seconds before these feelings begin to emerge.
Of course, you can even kiss in the market - during the selection and purchase of meat, for example. But the effect will be completely different.
Careful check
This method most effectively allows you to determine the willingness of a partner to continue. To see if a couple wants to try a deeper technique, you can follow these steps:
- start with a simple touch of the lips, with the usual way;
- open mouth slightly, hold the tongue on the lower lip of the pair;
- follow the reaction:
- if a boy / girl moves away, frowns or otherwise dislikes such a move, it is better to postpone the transition to a new level;
- if nothing has changed or he / she has clung more firmly, expressed pleasure, opened her mouth, you can try to gently stick your tongue further into the mouth;
- follow the reaction again, depending on it, proceed to a deep French kiss or for now abandon it.
The direct question is to be or not to be?
There is a very simple option, how to find out if he / she is ready to continue - ask directly. This is the fastest way, it is suitable for those who do not like to complicate things. However, he has his drawbacks:
- a person can be confused by such directness and give a false answer;
- the intrigue, the heat of emotions is partially lost;
- awkwardness, uncertainty make it difficult to ask (in newly created couples);
- fear of failure will override the desire to try and everything will end in failure.
That is why it is better to avoid such questions and leave them only for cases when his / her decision is generally illegible or not fully understood.
How to kiss your tongue
Act gradually
Such skill requires smoothness, does not tolerate haste. That's why french kiss don't start right away. At first, it is better to just gently press against his / her lips, slightly hug one of them with your two.
After that, the time comes for the “test” - the test of readiness for the next step (see paragraph “Careful check”).
If the green light is given, you can gently begin to move the tongue through the mouth. At first, only the tip is activated, then the back is connected. It is important that the movements are smooth, non-sweeping, sliding.
Experiment
Involving the language opens up new possibilities in getting pleasure. To stop only at one point or movement is a great loss.
There are several varieties of this technique. Here are just a few of them:
- stinging - with a simple kiss several times not far push the tip of the tongue between the lips of a guy or girl;
- inciting - licking movements are concentrated only on the lips;
- mill - contact of languages, executed in the form of circular rotations;
- royal - touching the teeth (the inner part of the lips is automatically touched);
- exquisite - short-term touching the sky.
But even that is not all. The partner's language can not only be stroked (along, in a circle, across, chaotically), but also slightly nipped, sucked, even tickled, making quick, but short movements with a tip.
Find the right points
Most sensitive and successful points external and internal areas of the lips (especially the upper), frenulum of the tongue are considered. The tip, the back of the tongue, the cheeks are also good places for impact.
But what exactly better not to doso it is to tickle the palate or try to reach the root of the language. At best, kissing just pull away or redirect someone else's language with his. In the worst case, a person will have unpleasant feelings, even an emetic urge.
Do not forget about posture and movements
To use such a passionate expression of feelings, while loosely holding hands and taking a static position, is somehow wrong.
Girls may bend a little in the lower back, leaning against the chosen one's chest.
- You can run your fingers into your man's hair.
- Driving palms around his shoulders, back, neck, or putting them on his torso is a great idea.
- If an even more intimate sequel is planned, it would be good to put your hands under his shirt / sweatshirt / sweater.
Guy can hold her partner tightly to her, stroke her waist and back.
- The neck is a real erogenous zone, so you can put a palm on it and slightly squeeze.
- A girl will like it if during a kiss they begin to gently stroke her cheek.
- Spending his fingertips on the hollow between the collarbone, a man will surely make his lady tremble pleasantly.
Catch a couple's reaction
A timely response to the response can also enhance the positive effect of the kiss.
It's simple: if a person pushes away, moves away, tries to change the situation, it is better to stop the current action or replace it with another. Similarly, and vice versa.
If a partner repeats some movement all the time or tries to push his pair on him, then he likes it. However, embarrassment or awkwardness does not allow to express everything openly. You can try to trust the beloved one and experience something new. A mirror image of the steps taken is also appropriate.
Correctly complete
You can not abruptly interrupted. This decision leaves a feeling of incompleteness. It is the same as if a skilled artist with enormous potential suddenly abandoned to paint a picture in the middle of the process.
The completion technique mirrors the beginning:
- smoothly do the tongue the way back to the affected points;
- slightly lick the lips or their contours;
- completely stop the language;
- continue to kiss in a simple way, slowing down the pace, weakening the power of touch, until my lips barely touch each other;
- gently pull away from your partner.
Then it is better to say a compliment, for example: “You have such soft / sugar / tender lips" or "Mmm, it was magical, you kiss well". If everything went well, of course.
If something in his / her kiss did not like, you can try to fix it right away. To do this, use phrases built according to the scheme:
- “I liked the fact that you ... ”(Biting her lip gently, stroking her neck, turning over her hair);
- “It was nice / interesting / cool / sweet”;
- “You know what would be even nicer? If you… "(Hugged me by the neck, sometimes whispered to tenderness) or"But this kiss would be even better if you ... "(Previously swallowed a little saliva, slightly reduced the pressure);
- “Let's try this? What do you say?”.
It is important to express benevolence, to sincerely smile, then a person will adequately perceive veiled criticism. After offering your option, you can reach for a new portion of pleasure.
Common mistakes doomed to failure
Even with the already listed tips can be trapped. For this reason, it is important to know not only the recommendations on how to kiss properly, but also the rules, how to DO NOT act. Common Mistakes:
- thrust the tongue too deeply, too zealously, dynamically move them;
- open mouth wide and squeeze lips tight;
- forget about saliva and make the kiss too wet;
- to dramatize, making with hands, head or even the whole body incomprehensible movements, indicating an unsuccessful acting past;
- kissing for very long. It is desirable that this technique did not last longer than a minute. If you really want to use this way of kissing, it is better to try to distract yourself for another caress for a while, and then resume the exercise again.
Knowing how to kiss a language can express much deeper feelings towards your partner. Trying different techniques of such activities, kissing enhances the sensuality of the moment, deepen intimacy, find the points of maximum enjoyment. They actually move to a new level of relationships and personal skill in kisses.
