The phrase that a second chance to make a first impression will not be, is especially relevant if there is a first date with a guy. How to prepare for it? How to behave so that such meetings become regular?
Meet on clothes
For the first date, it is extremely important to choose the right outfit, having thought out your own image. It is important to like the young man, but not to shock him. The outfit should be appropriate, suitable for the time of year and the institution where you are going.
first date - an important point of the relationshipAccording to the men, they are most pleased to see their companions in dresses, and the image that appeals to them as a whole is romantic. Remember - this is the first date. Do not get carried away mini. No leopards and blood red nails. Naturalness in make-up, moderation in manicure - that is what should be guided by in gathering for a date.
Avoid bouffant and complex hairstyles. Prefer feminine curls. Do not pour styling varnish, because if a man wants to run his hand through your hair, he runs the risk of stumble upon a "varnished" surface.
What to talk about
The first date with a guy should be quite rich in terms of communication: pauses may seem inconvenient. In addition, on the first date, you need to “test the ground,” outlining which topics your buddy willingly supports and which ones are unpleasant for him to speak.
Commonly used taboos are issues related to the material condition, past relationships. You also do not need to try to figure out if you see that certain topics put your interlocutor in a dead end.
Be careful with jokes. Leave the role of a prankster to a man, but only support him. Be sincere, if the phrase seemed ridiculous, react to it with a laugh. If the joke is unpleasant to you, gently say about this man. However, gagging, occasionally falling under the table, is not recommended. Maybe someone will take this behavior for immediacy, but there are few such originals.
Charming voice
Men also love with their ears, so take care of your voice: let it be soft, charming. Diction - clear, and the rhythm - moderate. Do not trash. And do not believe the erroneous opinion that a low voice with a husky sound sounds seductive. Such a voice, especially diligently created in the process of conversation, is ridiculous and ridiculous.
Be confident and friendly. Do not worry, perhaps the feeling that your companion is worried even more will calm you.
