Everyone has long known that very much depends on our inner feeling. Mood influences personal relationships between people, place in society, level of grades at school or university. You say: "It's all nonsense, only perseverance and work contribute to the achievement of the goal." And I partially agree with you. But from those emotions that you invest in future triumph, it depends on how sweet it will seem to you.
So, let's figure out how to achieve success and feel happy at the same time.
For starters, you should be well aware that the journey of life is yours alone and no one else. It is you who build your present and future.
Stop imitating others.
You are the only one in this world and your uniqueness is not like anyone. No need to play roles that are not given to you. Be yourself. Other places are already taken.
Your dreams are real, they must be carried out. Otherwise, why live? Do not believe all those people who say that you will fail. Usually we are taught by the lives of people who once faced problems and did not succeed.
Only not many say that you will succeed. Attempts can be made dozens, hundreds, and then you will definitely find yourself on the path to success. The most important thing is not to give up, you should always strive for something. And if you “lie on the couch,” then, of course, nothing will change, and you will not go this way to the end. It does not have to be easy.
All failures and achievements are given to you by life, so that you can overcome them with pride. No need to fear or run from problems. They are not as scary as they appear at first glance. All fears lurk behind the door, which you just need to open, and they will immediately evaporate. Fear prevents us from feeling happy. Do not be afraid of anything. There are many good people on our planet who are ready to help.
Be sure to have friends.
But not thousands, but only a couple. Thanks to them, our life becomes brighter and more colorful. Agree, it is much more pleasant when they listen to you and help you, than when they spit on your life. Familiar will never be with you in difficult moments of life.
Your words affect the life around you. Do not forget that optimism as nothing else helps to cope with all the difficulties. Do not lock yourself open to people. Then they will reach out to you. Positive and sociable people like everyone.
If you promise someone something, be sure to do it. Not everyone can keep his word. Every word that is not supported by an action is calculated as idle chatter and disrespect towards people around them. Appreciate the time of loved ones and friends.
Be able to enjoy every minute.Parents and health do not last forever. Every student wants to finish school as soon as possible, but when the time of the last call comes, he is sad and crying. Because only with time you begin to realize that these particular details were among the most important in life.
Never delay anything for the future.We constantly tell ourselves that we will start a wonderful life from Monday, but when it comes, we are just too lazy to do anything. Therefore, if you have not yet decided to make your life better, then start right now. "Tomorrow" never comes, because it does not happen. It happens only here and now. Remember this.
Treat everything with kindness and care. Engage in charity. Help people who need help. Smile to others, even if they are gloomy. Smiles and laughter are contagious. If you smile, you will definitely smile back.
Due to failures, we become stronger and stronger. No wonder they say: "Whatever happens, everything is for the best!"
Respect the elderly, give them a place in the transport. They deserve it. And especially veterans.
Take people as they are. Nature created them, and each is beautiful in its own way. There are no perfect people. That's why we are people, not dolls, to be imperfect. But you can strive for excellence. Then you will become better with each subsequent day.
Keep your hobby and do not strive to be leaders in everything.
Many scholars in the school were "losers", and then made brilliant discoveries. Improve in the case that you are really interested. Take from this positive emotions.
Lying is the most terrible weapon that can break everything. And friendship, and the close relationship between lovers. Do not try to deceive someone in order to achieve personal gain. Do not be cynical. It never leads to good. And most importantly - the worry you provided.
We are always afraid of the unknown. We are worried that everything will change and will not be the same as before. We are well and comfortable behind this fence, but it will certainly not be better. Learn to communicate with new people, go to new places, travel. Your life will become much richer. Everything everyday and routine can lead to depression. And getting rid of it is very difficult.
Perhaps you imagine that happiness is an ideal state. You are not right! Happiness is a state where you have learned not to notice the problem, easily overdo it, have learned to see the good things in everything and rejoice in it. It’s not money that makes us happy, but good relations between people and our world around us, because we don’t have another one. And sadness is not an option.
Read more books. They teach us life. With their help, our speech becomes interesting for the interlocutor, and we have the opportunity to go through many roles.
Being in harmony with others is easy. Just learn to be happy. Nobody will do it for you!
