He calls for meetings, leads home, casts interested views, but ... does not kiss. Or, perhaps, he does not pay attention at all, but you really want to arouse his interest! In any similar situation, it's time to take over the initiative and intrigue ... with a kiss. How to kiss a guy if he is indecisive or does not notice the girl at all? How not to bend over the stick and remain in his eyes a feminine, vulnerable beauty, and not a “man-decided”?
How to understand that the guy wants to kiss you
Before deciding on the first step itself, it is important to understand why the young man doesn’t start it himself. If he is just shy or thinks he is indifferent, then you can move on to the next level without hesitation. And the sooner the better.
However, sometimes guys do not dare to kiss their darling for a long time because of education and courtesy. In other words, they think that going too fast for a kiss can offend your partner's feelings or raise doubts about his intentions. If this is true, then it is better to wait and give him a chance to prove himself. The main signs that he kisses himself, but a little later:
- actively supports communication, does not hesitate to make compliments and in general does not look shy;
- starts talking about kisses and closely follows the girl's reaction to the responses;
- shows signs of gallantry in everything - gives a hand, sets aside chairs, helps to put on or take off outer clothing, takes a companion not by the palm, but by the elbow, etc .;
- apparently trying to do everything gradually - first simple conversations, then compliments, then direct views and, finally, light tactile contact.
With confident guys everything is clear, but How to determine the presence of interest in a timid young man? Is he:
- occasionally glances at the lips of the chosen one;
- often embarrassed when confronting glances, random touches;
- stutters, confuses words and differently expresses uncertainty when communicating, especially when compliments are given;
- trying to constantly be closer or to demonstrate their strengths;
- sitting trying to occupy as much space as possible (occasionally), extends and spreads his legs, leans back, spreading his arms;
- in correspondence, calls behaves more confidently than in real communication;
- at parting, he looks after him for a long time as if he wants to ask or do something.
It is important to bear in mind that the presence of only one or two signs does not give a guarantee for his feelings or desire to kiss. It is important to find at least 3+ signs to make sure that he is in love. And if he is in love, then surely he dreams of kissing.
How to make a guy kiss you
No matter how weighty the reason for the long absence of kisses, you still want to be the man who initiated this step. If the prospect of being first is not at all warm, you can try to make a hint. Perhaps such a decision would be an impetus to finally receive your long-awaited “gift.” How to do it:
- walk or get close to him while walking or talking in private;
- transform your desire into a joking form, for example: “Something lips itch. Probably, they ask for kisses ”;
- share thoughts about the “perfect guy or person,” mentioning that it’s decisive personalities that you like more;
- to tune the situation in which people will be close - to get into a crowded bus, “stumble” and let him catch, support himself;
- flirt with him, make eyes, flirt;
- focus on your lips - lick, bite, touch them;
- peck him on the cheek goodbye. Do it slowly, so that he has time not only to understand his desire to kiss on the lips, but also to move on to actions.
If you have courage, like Russians in Turkey, it’s enough just to tell the guy something like “I want you to kiss me” or joke “I didn’t have one kiss left with my mother. Correct? ”.
How to kiss a guy first
Gave a hundred hints? Went in front of him with a poster, flyers and a light table with the inscription “Kiss me!”? Said in the forehead, but he still does not understand? It's time to kiss yourself. Or seek a more decisive alternative. Otherwise, it will take a long time to swim in the near-integer ocean, and further, as in a flat-sea joke:
一 Zina, I plucked up the courage and ... in general ... well ... I love you!
一 Great, Kohl! You're just a witness of my fiance, and we are already at the registry office ...
What exactly better not to doso it tell the guy about your desire directly or ask him for permission to kiss. If the girl herself decides to take this step, it is advisable to act creatively:
- to conclude a dispute on a kiss, no matter who wins (although it is better that he), the reward for the victory will be kissing;
- play a “bottle” in the company, having sat before his beloved;
- pretend to kiss on the cheek and “miss the mark”;
- say that something got in the eye and ask him to look. When he gets close, look at him, then at his lips, and then gently and slowly reach for him for a kiss;
- whisper a compliment in his ear, giving it a secret, then carefully proceed to the case.
You can come up with a bunch of other options. The main thing - do not go to the kiss with nothing. It is very desirable that there is an excuse for action.
Naturally, before the very day “X” it is extremely important to take care of the hygiene of the body and mouth, make-up and clothing. The basic principle - let the appearance reflect the inner essence, “I”, sincerity. It is also better to have notes of femininity.
How to kiss a guy to make him like
Give the palm
He has enough of the fact that the first step was taken by a girl. For this reason, already at the time of the kiss it is better to take the position of the slave and allow him to lead the entire process. Why is that:
- he will feel confident and show himself;
- henceforth, the young man will doubt less, take the initiative more often and in other situations;
- the label “I myself” will not appear on the girl and she will be able to rely on her young man;
- so you can better know the partner, his skills, desires;
- There is no pressure effect, which can cool away a chosen one;
- it's just nice and even natural.
Even if the first battle remains for the girl, it is advisable to appoint the guy as the main commander of the arena.
Tease
Men are hunters by nature. Their DNA has a desire to win, to extract, to win. It’s just that some are aware of this immediately and more clearly, while others need a good kick in the direction of believing in themselves.
How can I stir up interest? How to tease and let him enjoy the “hunt”:
- lightly bite or suck on his lips;
- alternate in contrast the tenderness and passion of a kiss;
- deviate a little from his face so that he stretches after him and smile;
- make a path for kisses from his ear to the corner of his mouth, but do not touch his lips;
- make the kissing short, but do not go far from the young man so that he himself can take a portion of the additive;
- tickle his lips with his tongue, making them quick, light movements.
And another tip: during a kiss, it is important to open your mouth. Even if the technique is simple and only involves the lips, the teeth cannot be squeezed. This will qualitatively improve the whole process.
Touch
No good kiss does not intersect with the position of "hands at the seams." Let them act, and not just lie static on some point. It is uninteresting and gives a false (or not) feeling that the woman is too shy, has no experience or is weak in imagination. How and what to touch:
- face stroking with palm or fingertips;
- shoulders, sides or chest with gentle strokes;
- neck gently marigold;
- back smooth and light massaging movements;
- hair, burying their fingers in them;
- palms, crossing his fingers with his.
Already understand how to kiss a guy. The question remains whether it is necessary to do it, or rather, whether you want to. If there is no eager desire to spend your time with a hesitant and notorious boy, it is better not to start this business. However, if a young man really likes it very much, this is a reason to give one more chance and help him reveal himself.
