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Human dignity: what is it and how to cultivate it in yourself?

Virtue is significant aspect of personality any person.

How to understand the word dignity? The essence of this concept is viewed from different points of view.

Concept definition

What is human dignity?

Virtue is characterized moral and legal.

As moral category it is a collection of high moral qualities of the individual.

Legal aspect is to understand it as an intangible good belonging to man. It cannot be alienated, transmitted, etc.

The concept of self-esteem (self-worth) is often used. In this case, we are talking about the ability of the individual to self-esteem, based on the awareness of the presence of high moral qualities.

Synonyms of dignity - self-esteem, pride, honor.

Important do not confuse dignity with narcissism. In the first case, there is respect for oneself, which helps build harmonious relationships with other people, and at the same time defend one’s own system of values.

Narcissistic people in the first place put your own person. For them, moral norms are not significant if they go against individual goals and plans.

Decent man respects not only himself, but also the people around him. Therefore, his behavior is distinguished by intelligence, honesty, education, and people-centeredness.

Such personalities possess a strong will and wide spiritual qualities.

They free from criticism and gossipthat do not affect them.

The ability to soberly evaluate oneself and realize one’s value makes it possible not to perceive third-party opinions about one’s personality as authentic, if they disagree with their own ideas.

Similar freedom from prejudice and stereotypes grants true independence.

The higher a person appreciates himself, the greater his chances of achieving success in his personal life and in the professional sphere.

Examples

What does masculine and feminine dignity mean? Due to natural differences between men and women their dignity manifests itself in different ways.

Men

Typical example of decent behavior - fulfillment of military duty in periods difficult for the state or protection of the interests of the country in the framework of professional activities.

At all times, the military was the standard of manhood. These people have a clear idea of ​​honor, justice and duty.

They are ready protect your life their children, parents, strangers.

The concept of military honor includes upholding the interests of the country, a willingness to give one’s life, respect for the uniform and the flag, the execution of an order in any circumstances, etc.

Another variant - competition in strength and endurance, which men love so much.

Winning an equal or superior opponent is also a manifestation of dignity.

Thus, a man subconsciously seeks prove that he deserves respect and recognition. At the same time, during competitions, the principle of justice, equality, mutual assistance is respected.

Often, men who have no relation to the work of rescuers, provide assistance to people in extreme situations.

Saving people from a fire, saving a drowning person and other similar actions speak of ability to take responsibility and consider yourself able to help people.

Women

Historically, the main advantage of a woman is the ability to be a good wife and mother. Successful performance of the duties of the keeper of the home gives the woman confidence in their own solvency.

If she respects herself and understands her needs, then only her worthy men will always be with her.

It is self-esteem that allows a woman to build harmonious relationships in the family.

If she values ​​himself and at the same time respects his choicethen the nearby man will always feel care, attention and support.

Growing up in a similar atmosphere, children, in turn, grow into decent adults who create the same strong families.

Decent girl never sinks to gossip, criticism and condemnation. Because she respects herself, she does not want to waste time on such negative conversations.

In her speech will not be present rude, abusive words, and her gestures and facial expressions will never be vulgar or intrusive.

The ability to show respect for someone else's appearance, opinions, actions - this is the behavior of a truly decent woman.

Self-esteem is manifested in the desire to look after yourself. Untidy clothes, unkempt hands, bad smell - all this causes rejection among others.

Dignity must be manifested not only in behavior, but also in appearance. Love for oneself is manifested in the compulsory care of one's body, which all people around can see.

Value

Virtue allows a person to make the right decisions, to commit noble deeds, to win the respect of others, to achieve success in your personal life and career.

Decent behavior is always appreciated in society, especially if it manifests itself in critical situations. The more such people in society, the higher the level of its development.

Not only the moral and moral side of the concept is important, but also the legal one. There is an article in the Administrative Code (Article 152 of the Administrative Code) on the protection of honor, dignity and business reputation. The provision provides for the right of citizens to protect their interests in court.

For example, there are occasional situations when the media publishes information discrediting the honor of famous people. Such a public insult can be recognized in court. crime against the honor and dignity of the personif it is proven false

A citizen who has suffered from crimes of this kind can rely on public denial of false information about him, to receive compensation for moral damage and to pay damages.

Criminal Code also considers the issue of protecting the honor and dignity of the individual (Ch. 17 of the Criminal Code). Abduction of a person, unlawful deprivation of liberty, human trafficking, slave labor, illegal hospitalization and slander are criminal offenses.

Value with self-respect

Self esteem has a close semantic connection with self-respect, but a little different from him.

Self esteem - this is the attitude towards oneself as a person with a certain set of individual qualities, a subjective emotional assessment of one’s own significance.

That is, self-esteem focuses on how the person himself perceives himself, his “I”.

Self esteem - awareness of a person of their positive moral qualities, which affects his behavior in society and interaction with other people. That is, here we are talking more about the orientation in the external environment, rather than inward.

Nevertheless, many psychologists and sociologists emphasize the identity of these concepts, since in both cases we are talking about the self-perception of the individual.

A self-respecting person always has self-esteem, and the failure to accept one’s personality may well lead to depreciation of existing moral qualities.

Respect for human dignity

Anyone is entitled to respect by the state, individual bodies, officials, other members of society.

Art. 21 of the Constitution of the Russian Federation states that the dignity of the individual is protected at the state level and nothing can act as a basis for his derogation.

This provision implies any person has the following rights:

  1. Protection from torture, violence, cruelty, humiliation.
  2. The possibility of voluntary rejection of medical, scientific or other experiments.
  3. Access to the rights and benefits provided by the state regardless of gender, age, nationality, financial situation, religious or political beliefs.
  4. The right to defend their dignity in court.

How to develop this quality?

Every person should have self-esteem, since only in this case can one achieve inner harmony and success in social life.

If there is a lack of self-esteem, a person’s duty is to cultivate the necessary qualities. To do this, do the following:

  • always fulfill commitments made;
  • do sport;
  • constantly acquire new knowledge and skills;
  • not to allow disrespect to oneself from relatives, friends, colleagues, strangers;
  • Do not be afraid to defend their position, if circumstances so require.

Following these tips, a person quietly gains greater confidence and begins to realize the high moral value of his personality.

How to save it?

Every person at least once got into situations that made to doubt yourself and existing moral attitudes.

Aggressive attitude of others, gossip, slander, unfounded accusations, exaggerated demands, intentional insults - all of these phenomena are unsettling.

It is important in any situation to remember your own values ​​and not allow external circumstances to destroy the inner integrity of your personality.

Worthy behavior - is the ability to take a punch in any conditions. A person must defend his dignity and honor in authorized ways, without falling to the level of offenders.

For example, some women become victims of domestic violence because of lack of self-respect.

They allow insults to your address and their use of physical strength by men, which ultimately leads to the complete loss of a sense of self-worth.

You can save your dignity in this situation only in one way - get away from the abuser and call him accountable before the law.

Such decisive actions help to regain self-confidence, to restore self-esteem.

Dignity is one of the important components of our value system. Permanent work on yourself will help achieve the necessary degree of self-esteem.

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