The desire to have a pet should be dictated not by fashion because of the film, the romance of the whole world, but by the heart, which is eager to give love.
And the feeling must be reinforced by the awareness of a number of tasksthat will arise because of the new household, and the determination to cope with them.
In fact, they are not so complicated - all the strength of any average family. You just have to become responsible and learn how to plan things, taking into account the responsibilities of caring for your pet.
After all, the main concern should be on your part. Otherwise, parents have the right to abandon the dog in the house and find her another owner. Why does a poor dog have a heart and soul, but only an innocent animal will know about it?
Why mom or dad against pet?
Had your will, at least three dogs lived in the house?
But parents agree only on the hamster or fish? This dissonance of desires a lot of reasons.
Here are the most popular ones:
- Parents understand that you are sincere in your tearful vows that they will never have to clean up after a pet, walk it, wash and feed it, but understand how difficult it will be to keep promises due to age or heavy workload at school. As a result, they see a perspective in which, in addition to responsibilities at home and at work, they will have to spend time taking care of a dog.
- The life of such a pet is 12-15 years.. Who will follow the aging dog when you go to another city to continue to “nibble” science?
- Unlike a plush toy, a real animal requires compulsory walking at least twice a day and a separate placewhere it could rest easy and gnaw the prey without disturbing the rest of the “flock”.
Of course, some owners of small breed dogs replace the paddock with a tray, but not all parents like this kind of toilet for an animal — you barely miss it, and an unpleasant amber will appear in the house.
- Dogs molt twice a year, and so that the family does not look like Chewbacca's relatives, mom will have to spend a lot of forces fighting wool on clothes, furniture and carpets.
- In his youth, and some individuals to old age, they love to nibble on shoes, closet legs, bed corners, gut chairs and bags (especially designer). If you ask around, then each parent will remember more than one story about the life of a gadget that was ruined in the heyday of years, with difficulty buying branded sneakers or especially favorite shoes.
- Dogs feel better if they get balanced diet according to their physiological characteristics. In fact, for adults, this means the need to devote time each day to cooking individual servings with specific contents. And it is the father or mother who will have to systematically pack up a separate type of product.
- Accommodation in a rented apartment - homeowners who have nothing against tenants with animals are rare, like large diamonds.
- Even in adults it happens fear of a dog. Not for nothing, though conditionally, people are divided into cat owners, dog lovers, poultry houses, etc. Worse phobias are only allergic to wool - here no convictions will help.
No one agrees to sit on pills with unpleasant side effects because of the desire of the child to have a dog.
- During the holidays with departure to the sea you need to look for housing, where they will agree to adopt a dog, or to negotiate with relatives, acquaintances about the temporary shelter of a shaggy household - all options are quite complex in execution.
- The first 3-6 months of dog difficult to manage, who do not understand why the carpet is an inappropriate place for a toilet, and the corner of the closet is not a simulator for young teeth.
- If a family once lived a dog for a long time, then memory of heartache because of her death may still be too strong.
The benefits of living with a dog
Practical reasons for the usefulness of a dog in the house:
- The dog is the protector. She is able to warn about the impudent person who is imperceptibly trying to get into the basket where the pet is sitting, or to grab the criminal's throat threatening your life - this is a matter of size and training. But in any case, at a difficult time you will be supported in confronting evil. Have you ever seen a lion retreat before a pressure ten times smaller than a mongoose in size?
If you are often forced to stay at home alone, you can shamelessly “press” on pity with this very point.
- You will have a friendwho is not interested in success in school and work, bank account size, status and other regalia. You will be faithfully loved simply because you are and have agreed to let him into your life.
- Any dog indirectly is host health guardian. Your heart and lungs will be grateful for all hours of outdoor exercise.
- Chat with pets reduces the risk of heart attack and other sores developing on the basis of stress. Dogs do not overtighten the negative, but help to relax and look at problems more calmly. Therefore, the benefit of the animal will experience all households who learn to be friends with him.
- If parents ever remembered that in childhood they also wanted a dog, then they have great chance to “hang out” with a new member of the family to the fullest, blaming all of you not the most pleasant duties to care for him.
In addition to the voiced, any dog is simply cool because it is covered with hair, the owner of a curious, wet nose and a pair of penetrating eyes, able to look into the soul even when you do not have a crumb of tasty in your hands.
She is always ready to listen to any story with attention, is able to console one poke of the head on her knees and warm even icy heart.
What do you need to ask yourself before asking for a puppy?
What can I provide my new friend and as far as i'm ready to give him time every day, deleting some of the usual entertainment from the list?
For example, every day, even in rain, frost, and wind, it will be necessary to spend twice a day in the open air for a total of 1.5-2 hours so that the dog can run out.
What else you need to think:
- Am I ready several times a day to meekly fight against “guidance” and heaps in the house for a couple of months? Do you agree to clean up after the dog on the street;
- can I carefully monitor the appearance of a friend, bathe him if necessary, wash his paws after each walk;
- will I have enough patience to teach him how to behave properly in his family and on the street;
- Am I ready to give the dog a lot of attention?
How to prepare the ground for the conversation?
Do it in an adult way: first prepare yourself to receive the dog in the house, and then prove to your parents reasonably that you are able to care for the friend you are asking for.
How to behave, so that parents agree to take the dog? To take the "fortress" is not whims and tearful pleading, but demonstration of behavior, showing that you are mentally and physically matured to the role of the owner of the dog.
If someone from the family has no insurmountable obstacles in the form of living in a rented apartment or an allergy to animal hair, you can start compulsory stage of own growing up to prepare yourself for the dog owner role.
What do we have to do:
- Change daily schedule. Get up at the same time when the dog lovers of your area go for a walk with their pets. So have to get up every morning.
- Do not ignore the usual responsibilities of the house. Parents will definitely mark your growing independence and the conclusions you need about your adulthood, it will be easier to prove.
- To study the features of the content dogs are different breeds.
You can also enroll in a dog handlers club in order to learn in advance how to make the right hints to a young dog - this way it adapts faster and easier to life in the new “flock”.
Recommendations
In the fight all means are good scientific - not an exception.
How to beg the parents?
How to ask for parents (mom) get a dog:
- turn off the "whiner";
- acquire useful skills of a young dog breeder;
- agree to a purebred dog, if there are no funds for purebreds (by the way, the former are usually much smarter than the latter);
- say that the best gift for any reason is a living dog.
How to persuade a grandmother to buy a dog?
Grandmother will not go against parentstherefore, it is necessary to incline her to permission for a dog in a family by the same methods as father and mother.
How to make a husband?
Sometimes men just do not like dogs - in this case it is better not to have a furry pet, so that it does not become in the family Scapegoat for your partner.
If he simply does not have the time and desire to engage in a new household, then convince him that all the responsibilities for care will lie only on you.
In the end, catch him on some offense and demand moral compensation in the form of consent to the dog.
The child asks the dog: what to do?
If you do not have the opportunity to acquire shaggy son-daughter, honestly explain to the child the reason for the refusal.
If there is an opportunity, and indeed the desire itself is there, agree with the child on a clear division of responsibilities for caring for the dog when it appears, and ask him to “grow up” to the desired level.
Let him learn keep order in my room, get used to get up early in the morning no lengthy notations over the ear, etc.
Otherwise, you risk getting an extra load on your shoulders, for which, in the first place, an innocent dog will take the rap. Well and you, of course.
Since you are older, the responsibility for decisions is still on you, therefore don't take the dog, if: you can not provide her with proper care, you plan to move to a new place where the pet doesn’t have the conditions, the family has people with mental disabilities and a tendency to aggressive antics.
Any dog in the house is a source of new good impressions and a lot of trouble.
But if desired, the last factor can make it less burdensome, if you behave correctly with her and it is reasonable to delegate responsibilities to ensure comfort for a shaggy household.
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