How to make a good impression
Everyone is familiar with such a concept as "first impression", but not everyone knows how to make a good impression on people, fill the meeting with only positive emotions and make the interlocutor have a positive opinion about you.
Incidentally, the first impression is even deceptive, and only during subsequent communication a person reveals the true negative or positive qualities of character. Therefore, it is not necessary to draw conclusions and judge a person after the first meeting. Another thing if you have a goal to win over a person. To do this, you need to positively influence the interlocutor and make a good impression on him.
So, if you want to make a good impression on a person, you need to know a few rules and, accordingly, stick to them.
Appearance, hairstyle, clothes.
As the proverb of antiquity says, "They meet according to their clothes, and they escort according to their minds." If you want to succeed, then pay special attention to your appearance, make sure that your clothes are neat, hair and nails clean.
You should also not forget that if you want to make a pleasant impression on a person and the meeting, for example, is businesslike, you should choose the appropriate clothes, it can be a business suit or keep to minimalism. Bright and frank outfits are better left for another occasion and for another event.
Be yourself.
Behave naturally, not forcedly, freely. It is clear that you care about how to make a good impression on the interlocutor, but if he notices the falsity and intricacy in your actions and words, he will not be able to trust you and this will alienate him not only from you, but also from further meetings.
Listen up
In a conversation with strangers or people you already know, you should at least follow the rules of etiquette and decency. Your speech should be cultural and correct, sincerely be interested in the topic of conversation and keep the conversation going, do not interrupt the interlocutor. Also try to contact the interlocutor by name more often; scientists have proven that it disposes of communication.
Be benevolent.
It is always pleasant to communicate with an educated, educated, intelligent person who is friendly to everything else. Smile more often and do it sincerely, say compliments and pleasant words to your interlocutor, praise him and emphasize positive qualities. Stretched and simulated smile, sullen face, excessive seriousness can only alert the interlocutor, respectively, this is not the best way will affect further communication.
Be confident.
The interlocutor will surely feel your excitement, uncertainty, fear, fear. This will not alienate the interlocutor, but will embarrass him and your communication will no longer be so trusting and sincere. Also, he subconsciously can perceive this uncertainty as ignorance of the business, if, for example, it concerns sales. Accordingly, it certainly does not characterize you as a competent and knowledgeable specialist you can trust.
Correctly end the conversation.
In order to really make a good impression on people, it is necessary to possess such a skill of a successful person as the ability to correctly end a conversation.
Be sure to stay in a good mood, smile, even if you are embarrassed or disliked by something. Tell your partner a few compliments, a few pleasant words, but look not to overdo it, a couple of compliments will be enough. It will also be good form if you first give a hand and say that it was very pleasant for you to talk and you are pleased with the meeting.
It is necessary to remember the mandatory rule that must be observed in a chance meeting, interview, business or friendly meeting, a love date. This rule says that in any case, you should be positive, emit only positive emotions and joy, and then you will have success.
