How to find a lover and whether to take such a step

Probably, every woman at a certain stage of her life is thinking of having a lover. Some need a rich patron, others want to find a sexual macho for love joys, or just to feel love and passion. Often these dreams remain unfulfilled, most women have no idea where and how to find a lover. Indeed, you will not offer yourself to the first comer, especially when a jealous husband walks on his heels. But I will say from my own experience that there is always a way out.

Is it worth it?

Dizzy passion, hot hugs, violent sex - this is of course wonderful, but often women are not ready for the pitfalls of such a relationship. So, what difficulties will be encountered after you make a lover:

You can truly fall in love. Men are able to share emotions and physiological need, and the female psyche is different. As a result, your family may collapse like a house of cards. And do not convince yourself that you are "not so", if sex is really good, it will be very difficult for your lover not to stick with all your soul.
You must understand that at the first call the lover will not come running to you. Yes, yes, you are not his beloved, so do not count on more than sex. Some men, of course, can sing serenades to you and shower them with rose petals, but you should not forget that, in the end, he should not do this (as you iron his shirts and wash socks).
In addition to you, a man may have other mistresses. As you remember, no one owes anything to anyone. A rare lover will be faithful, so you need to be prepared for the fact that you can be infected with a genital infection.
About your relationship may be known to her husband. First-class hiding your love affairs is not given to everyone. Random SMS, acquaintances, and the lover himself can reveal your secret.

Consider how well you are prepared for such problems and are there high-class sex and a storm of emotions at such a risk? Are you ready for a double life? Do you have enough fuses for two men? If such difficulties do not frighten you, you can safely proceed to action.

Where to looking for?

How to make a lover, and most importantly, where to look for him? You can meet a man suitable for this role in the most unexpected place - in public transport, cafe, theater, in the store. But, nevertheless, it is better to do a search for your hero purposefully. Why?

First, it is important that the lover does not live near you. If you find yourself neighbors, it will be much harder to hide. Secondly, avoid having an affair with your colleague. Remember that employees are concerned not only with the workflow, but also with each other’s personal life. Any careless glance can be a cause for gossip. Thirdly, when you deliberately choose your lover, you can look at him in advance.

List of the most suitable places:

Meeting website. The first place where men go looking for a mistress. Here you can choose a candidate for age, wealth, sexual preferences, etc., etc. However, it is important to learn to separate the wheat from the chaff, many men offer their services for money (yes!) Or are looking for money. Be careful, discuss important moments for you in advance, chat on Skype, you can even try virtual sex. Do not show your photo to each first, remember, conspiracy is first of all.
Resort. If you need a passionate romance, then there is no better place than a resort town. You can take the best friend to rest, the main thing is to leave your husband and children at home.
Fitness center, gym. Here the choice of handsome, smart lovers is richer than anything. But do not rush to flirt, first take a look, make friends, so to speak, explore the situation.
Dances, sports competitions. This option is more suitable for single women, the husband simply does not understand a new hobby, for example, football (or will simply walk with you).
Secular evenings - concerts, themed evenings, presentations, meetings of fans. Common interests are known to bring together. Try to make acquaintance and to start making friends with the man you like. Later you can find out if he is interested in such relationships and how interested he is in you.

And finally, a couple of tips. The perfect lover is sure to be married. Such a man is unlikely to have several mistresses, he is interested in a good conspiracy, he understands that you have family concerns and obligations (not very demanding). Do not forget that being a good mistress and a wife are completely different things. Learn to separate one from the other, and you will feel like a really happy woman.