At the very beginning of the relationship, when a man reaches for a woman, he gives her a lot of attention, gives gifts, flowers, solves problems. However, after some time after the wedding, the woman begins to think (sometimes not groundlessly) that communication with her is no longer a partner. In this case, the question becomes quite reasonable: how to return the love of her husband.
First you need to figure out whether there is really a problem in the relationship. Over time, feelings become dulled, a habit is developed, and such a violent manifestation of love, which was at the initial stage of the relationship, no longer exists. This is to some extent the norm and not a reason for panic - any relationship needs to be periodically shaken.
Is it possible to save something?
If a man declares that he wants to leave, but something is delaying him - in this case there is still a sense to fight. But in this situation there are several scenarios. If this is pronounced for the purpose of joint work on relationships, this is one thing, such a man is worthy of respect, and the family is an effort to keep it.
If the husband simply wants to attract attention to himself, to manipulate you, so that you fulfill all his wishes, while he is “thinking”, it is recommended to send such a man to resign. You shouldn’t spend your nerves and youth on it (at any age) - take better time for yourself.
Not uncommon are situations when a man wants to get away from his wife says that he has another woman. Men rarely go nowhere (that is, they simply leave the woman) - in this case, the situation is really serious, and the relationship with you really tired him.
What do we have to do?
Having thought about the question “how to return the love of a husband?”, You need to understand that it is not always possible. You can not force a person to love, and if the feelings really passed, then it is hardly possible to do something. However, as a rule, love does not disappear instantly, at first there appears boredom in relationships, lack of understanding, irritation. If at the very first bells to hold “resuscitation measures”, then there are chances to save the family.
The first thing women do when it seems to them that the husband no longer loves is starting to cry, find out, make a scandal. If you think for a minute, you will see all the inappropriateness of such an act. If there is no cause for concern, the husband simply will not understand what has happened, and with repeated systematic tantrums, he will very quickly get tired of such a showdown. If a man is really tired of family life with you, the scandal will only strengthen him in the decision to stop it all as soon as possible.
Therefore, you need to calm down and analyze the situation. When did the first signs of a husband become cold? Perhaps this is due to some sort of quarrel or unresolved conflict.
A man for whom relationships have lost their bright colors can be a little intriguing. If there was no conversation about parting, and you only suspect that something was wrong, make him start to be jealous. Men are not afraid to leave themselves, but they are afraid that they will leave them - wounded pride will not allow them to live in peace.
If you suspect that your husband has a mistress, do not blame an outside woman for destroying the family. Think what you did not give your man that he went to look for on the side? Or maybe, on the contrary, you did more than you need by changing the role of a loving wife to the role of an overprotecting mother?
Some women take on themselves the solution of all family issues without giving a man the opportunity to realize himself. This may seem convenient and comfortable, but in fact it is the path that destroys a man. So, the first thing to do: calm down and understand what caused the cooling in your family history. And it is precisely on this cause to influence.
If everything is very bad
Sometimes women think about how to return the feelings of a husband when faced with a wall. It is evident that a man is annoyed by any action, by any phrase. In such a situation it is better to leave a man alone. If he offers to disperse - it is better to give him the opportunity to take a break from your relationship, think, compare. As a rule, men return, but it is not worth waiting for. A woman should never forget about herself, her interests, health, mood, especially if you have children.
The first time can be hard, but isn't it better to be alone with a couple of months, to figure out what kind of relationship you want, what kind of man should be next? Very often, women after such breaks themselves do not want to return to their husbands.
If there is still no talk about a direct break, just do not annoy him: do not ask what will happen next with your relationship, do not bother with questions if he does not want to talk, do not offer to make love, if you clearly see that he is not wants it. At the same time, show that you are ready for dialogue if he wants to discuss something.
If the husband, after a while, shows interest, you should not get into a pose, make him apologize in all possible ways and arrange emotional “showdowns”. Although quietly inquiring about the cause of change in the relationship still does not hurt - at least in order to know what to expect in the future.
