When we talk about the strength of a woman, we first of all mean femininity - the fundamental one of all her life principles. However, to assume that only this quality allows a woman to be successful and attractive, to support a beloved man and children and to endure unexpected blows of fate with courage would be a delusion. Female power is the combination of unique, inherent to the nature of the weaker sex, features that serve as the basis of female attractiveness, and an inexhaustible source of internal forces.
What is the true power of a woman?
So it was conceived by nature that in a woman from the moment of her birth laid a huge reserve of internal forces of both energy and physical nature. First of all, the opportunity given to it by nature to give birth to new lives presupposes the existence of endurance and adaptability to high loads on the body. The level of pain threshold in women is much higher than in men. The heart and the body of the representative of the stronger sex simply could not bear the generic pain.
The strength of men is concentrated in the area of muscles and mental activity, while a woman is like a vessel within which all the wealth of her sensual and emotional world is hidden. The quality of the contents of this “vessel” depends not only on the life and fate of the woman herself, but also on the well-being of her loved ones. Returning home after a hard day, a man from the first minutes of communication with his half is “fed” by her emotions. If such “nourishment” carries negative information, it gives a destructive start to the man’s inner world and relationships in a couple. Constantly charging a man with positivity, tenderness and confidence in his own abilities over time becomes a vital necessity for him. It is this trait of a female character that guarantees the strength and durability of a relationship.
Almost every woman from her youth has a clear idea of what should be the companion of her life. In the active and persistent desire to match their companion to the ideal existing in these ideas, many women make a grave mistake. In their attempts to “re-educate” their half, they, without even noticing it, suppress with their energy the masculine principle of the partner and cause him a natural desire to get rid of the oppressive and degrading male self-esteem relations. And in this, oddly enough, also lies the "merit" of the woman's power. The companion of the ladies who are persistent in their aspirations subconsciously feels weaker than her and chooses separation as the only opportunity to preserve their personal status. Thus, the true strength of a loving woman lies in the wisdom and ability to build relationships in such a way that, changing for the better under the imperceptible influence of his girlfriend, the man does not feel at the same time internal discomfort or pressure from her.
Another quality given by nature to a woman is an amazing feeling of intuition. The invisible connection with the cosmos and nature sometimes allows it to make the only right decisions in difficult situations, without resorting to analytical calculations and long-term conclusions. And such a female ability in combination with tolerance and wisdom is also another secret weapon of a woman. Men no less than their “weak” girlfriends need the presence of a person who is able to cope with life difficulties and at the right moment to take responsibility for the successful resolution of a crisis situation.
The strength of a woman is in her weakness. Is it so?
Many of the fair sex mistakenly believe that the manifestation of female weakness should be to demonstrate the utmost vulnerability and helplessness. Representations of men about this concept are completely different. Women's weakness in their understanding is primarily the quality of a physical nature. Where man's strength and endurance are required, a woman, as a rule, resorts to the help of a partner, and this is completely natural. This is not only annoying to a man, but, on the contrary, gives confidence in himself and solvency as a person responsible for the safety and well-being of his family. A man is first and foremost a breadwinner and protector. This he takes for granted, but in the event that the partner feels that his companion is abusing or speculating with this role in the relationship, the discord is inevitable. The task of a woman is to convince a man of his importance and indispensability in situations that really imply it.
If female power is connected with its weakness, then only in one variant: any manifestation of weakness should be directed at raising the inner self-esteem of a man and not be in conflict with his life principles. The stronger sex today prefers to see next to them independent and successful girlfriends who show weakness only where protection and a reliable and physically strong partner are really required. The false notions of many women that weakness should manifest itself in the demonstration of excessive vulnerability, sensitivity, or, worse, tears or hysterics filled with reproaches, cause an effect diametrically opposite to what was expected. Irritation, frustration, accumulating fatigue from relationships may ultimately lead the partner to a fair decision about separation.
The strength of a woman is in the weakness of a man. What does this mean?
Of course, such a formulation has nothing to do with the physical indicators of male power. A man’s weakness is the need to feel support and understanding from a loved one. Men are creatures from the same planet as women. They are also able to experience and sometimes feel insecurity in themselves, the only difference is that, due to their nature, they are not able to express it on an external emotional level. If a woman subtly feels her partner, his thoughts, feelings and experiences, and strives to become his reliable friend, then all her actions and actions will be aimed at giving the man a feeling of inner comfort and regaining his confidence. The constant presence of warmth and sincere support emanating from a girlfriend becomes for the man an integral part of his life and binds to the woman much stronger and stronger than the sophisticated women's tricks and tricks.
Woman's mind: strength or weakness?
There is a common misconception that men shun intelligent women. And again, the whole matter lies in the concept laid down in this definition. There is hardly a man who will argue that he prefers stupid to smart women. The presence of intellect always causes respect, no matter who shows his mental abilities, male or female. Another thing is important: being smart and educated, the man's girlfriend does not suppress his self-esteem, abusing her education and focusing her attention on the man and others. Mind combined with wisdom is perhaps the greatest strength of a woman, giving her value in the eyes of a beloved man and making her truly irreplaceable!
