If the first romantic date has gone well, many girls are already beginning to dream of the further development of relationships and make plans for the future, in which there is a loved one next door.
In dreams and enthusiastic thoughts, a day passes, another, a third, and a man does not call. The girl begins to worry, to remember the date in the smallest detail in search of the answer to the main question: "Why does he not call?"
The reasons for male silence can be many, consider the most likely of them.
Your chosen one is a muddler
Yes, yes, do not be surprised. A young man could incorrectly write down your phone number or lose a piece of paper where it was written.
This, of course, happens infrequently, because a rare man will be so careless about the phone number of the girl he likes. Therefore, it is worth considering whether you need such an optional person in the clouds.
His phone was stolen
Another fairly rare, but having a place to be the reason why a man does not call is the theft of the phone where your number was recorded. If you did not communicate in social networks, then the phone is the only connection between you, and it could break off in such a sad way.
On the horizon - a rival
Men are hunters by nature, and if love is not firmly entrenched in their hearts, they continue to look out for prey even after meeting a pretty girl. Do not flatter yourself, one date for many men means almost nothing serious.
It is possible that after your meeting the guy met another girl who carried him more than you, so he immediately switched to her.
I did not see reciprocity
If you are a rather constrained person by nature and are too shy to show your attitude, a young man could regard your behavior as coldness. The absence of signs of attention on your part could bring him to the idea that you did not like him.
Most men do not like to impose, so the guy can not call, because I am sure that you do not want.
Seasoned ladies
Some young people prefer not to call the girl for a while on purpose so that she would begin to experience and experience certain emotions in relation to him. The famous postulate "The less we love a woman, the more we like her" really makes sense, and experienced men know about him firsthand, successfully applying it in practice.
This reason may explain why a man does not call for a couple of days, but if the lull lasts longer, then there should be more serious reasons.
You didn't like him
No matter how sad it may sound, but you will not be forced by force. To a young man, you just might not like it so much that he wants to continue your relationship.
In this case, it’s not a fact that he didn’t like your appearance - he did go on a date with you! Most likely, you simply did not agree on the characters, that is, he did not feel attracted to you or found common interests.
Personal problems
The reason for the lull can also be serious troubles at work or in the family. A man may be busy solving urgent problems that require his immediate attention.
However, this reason is also not an excuse for prolonged silence, since most problems can be solved within a couple of days, and then take a moment to call.
How to behave if he does not call
If you really liked the young man, and you would like to continue the relationship with him, then stop waiting for his call, sitting by the phone and looking for reasons why the man does not call.
Take the situation into your own hands - call him yourself. There is nothing degrading or scary about it. In a pinch, you will hear that he does not want to continue the relationship. But even in this version there is a plus - you will stop aimlessly waiting for a call and spend this time getting to know another man. 
More likely another development: the man will pick up the phone and be delighted with your call, explaining his silence. Believe me, he will be pleased that you yourself called him, because even the stronger sex needs attention.
If the reason for silence, in your opinion, is insignificant or obviously invented, then think about how the guy treats you. Yes, he could rejoice at your call, but this does not mean that he really feels something for you if he made you worry, just forgetting to call you. First of all, think about yourself: you deserve more, you deserve to be treated with respect. If not him, so different, you can not get hung up on people who do not take you seriously.
One call does not oblige you to anything, but you will no longer torment yourself in vain doubts and expectations. If he does not call, call him yourself, and the problem will be solved immediately. And then you either continue the relationship, or get rid of unnecessary torments.
Elizabeth, Moscow
