The modern rhythm of life everywhere dictates its own rules, even in love: relationships start and develop very quickly. People, and especially men, try not to spend a lot of time on the courtship and the so-called "candy-bouquet period", immediately switching to action.
This does not always work: many women want to be conquered. Yes, and reciprocity does not always happen. Therefore, many men come to look for ways to conquer the girl of their dreams.
The components of success in capturing girls are correct behavior and men's actions. Modern girls do not believe the words and promises, they are accustomed to evaluate their fans by their behavior and actions. So what to do to get reciprocity from the girl you like?
Correct behavior
Of course, there is no ideal universal principle of behavior that would appeal to all girls, because everyone has different characters and preferences. However, there are several generally accepted standards of behavior that characterize a man solely on the positive side.
Treat with respect not only her, but also to others
A common mistake made by many guys is a markedly courteous attitude to their passion and, at the same time, disregard for other people. Even if you follow all the rules of etiquette (give a hand when leaving a vehicle, hold the door in front of her, help you put on outerwear, etc.), but at the same time do not respect your elders, are rude to strangers, then you are unlikely to succeed in winning a decent heart. girls
A truly educated person cannot show respect only to certain people: he pays due attention to his responsibilities to parents, does not refuse to help friends, helps old people, knows how to communicate with children. It is these men who are valued and loved by women.
Set goals and make efforts to achieve them.
Every woman dreams of a life partner, which is constantly evolving, striving for more. This is an indicator of a person’s success, his present (or future) wealth, strength of character. Since ancient times, Russian women have become accustomed to trusting the role of a “steam locomotive” to a man who takes the whole family to a brighter future.
Weak, self-doubting, lazy-inclined men have never been popular with women. If you do not demonstrate to a woman that you are successful and active, then winning her attention is unlikely to succeed.
Be frank and sincere with a girl
Women are very emotional, empathizing with other people. The sphere of feelings and relationships is very close to them, so they immediately feel your insincerity or the desire to hide something. Such behavior can push them away.
Try to be as open as possible. Seeing that you trust her, the girl will definitely open and you just need to wait a bit.
Men's actions
Qualities that women value in men are determination, courage, fortitude, kindness, and a sharp mind. Try to show that you possess all these characteristics of a real man. This can be done through actions that will appeal to your chosen one.
Make her surprises and gifts for no reason
Women really appreciate care and attention, so even a small sign of attention that a man gives her just like that, without the slightest reason, is regarded as non-indifferent and causes a reciprocal interest. The reaction to your actions will help you understand whether you can hope for reciprocity: stubborn ignoring your gifts will show that you are trying to win it in vain, and smile and gratitude give you quite a sure hope of success.
Help yourself, not expecting her to do something
The ability of a man to guess what a woman needs at the moment is very valuable. Take a closer look at what she says, and then you can show your best.
For example, if she is to relocate, do not wait until she asks for your help: order a car for transportation of things, hire movers and notify her when everything is ready. This scheme can be applied in any other case: the main thing is to be able to predict her desire and fulfill it in time, appearing suddenly, like a prince on a white horse.
Useful tips for conquerors
If you are in love and want to achieve reciprocity from the girl, then you need to follow a few rules so as not to frighten her and not spoil the relationship at the very beginning.
- Do not push the girl. Your head should be quite active, but not suffocating. It is nice for girls to get them, but to turn into a pursuer, meeting her at the entrance or falling asleep with phone calls is also not worth it.
- Make contact with her friends and surroundings. If tensions arise with one of her close people, you can get into trouble: at the initial stage of the relationship, she will rather take the side of a person whom she knows longer.
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Watch your appearance. Untidy in clothing and hygiene can scare most girls. If you go on a date in a crumpled jersey, she might think that you are not serious enough about her, since you didn’t even bother to properly prepare for the meeting. - Talk to the girl more, do not rush to kiss her or immediately drag her to bed. Communication is a very important part of a relationship for a woman, which helps to get closer, to start trusting each other.
- Do not flirt with other girls. Of course, it is not necessary to reduce communication to no, but it is not worth flirting with other women with her either.
- Give compliments. The main condition for success is to do it sincerely. No need to memorize phrases from the Internet, it is better to say something awkwardly, but sincerely, from the heart and with a smile.
Watch your appearance. Untidy in clothing and hygiene can scare most girls. If you go on a date in a crumpled jersey, she might think that you are not serious enough about her, since you didn’t even bother to properly prepare for the meeting.Finally, another important tip: be sure of all your actions. Even if it goes against her will. A man must be a leader. In no case should not change their own principles of the desire to please: it is something akin to deception and pretense. The girl will appreciate more not fanning her fan, but a self-confident man with his own position.
