So, your eyes focused on a pretty, tastefully dressed girl. On the street, in transport, cafes, in the store. No matter where. It is important that stopped. And you understand that if you don’t speak, don’t “stop the moment,” then perhaps miss the unique chance that is given to each of us. Pass by the one and only, destined by the fate itself.
And you do not pass. In the end what you risk. Get the "from the gate turn." If a girl gently, tactfully, without dropping your dignity, made it clear that she was not inclined to communicate, then there is no reason to be upset. If she did it in a rude, offensive form, then there is nothing more to worry about. Why do you need to get acquainted with such a person in principle.
Of course, situations are different. Perhaps the one that caught your attention, just today the day went wrong, the troubles at work, the heel broke ... But it never happens. Here you yourself must feel, this is a principled position, or a fleeting situation, and decide which ask questions to girls.
Here comes the understanding of the importance of the correct line of behavior, the right question for the girl.
How to choose the right line of conduct.
First of all, you must clearly understand the immutable, general principles of the first acquaintance with a girl, and communication in general:
- Respectful attitude to the "object" of attention;
- Once again, RESPECT and goodwill;
- Inadmissibility of pressure and intrusiveness;
- Do not wait for the result, do not wait for any, just enjoy the process itself;
And understand, once and for all, the image of a rude "macho", the dominant male, spitting over his shoulder, with a careless superiority carrying his "chic" body in the environment, is unlikely to contribute to the acquaintance.
Do not try to copy Americanism, such as baby, baby, and never start communicating with "Hey, baby ...".
So what questions should a girl ask?
There are two options:
- Logical, ordinary questions.
- Not standard, not logical.
In any case, the questions must be correct and, at least, when they first meet, do not violate the personal space of the object of attention.
But try not to use scolding, common phrases like, “How to get to the library?”, Or, “Girl, do you happen to be waiting for me?” Be more original and resourceful, and this will significantly increase the chances of a positive result.
There is no universal recipe what questions to ask a girl. You can only give a few good examples to understand the general concept.
For example, to ask whether a girl would object if you treat her to a cup of coffee in a cozy cafe, and whether she has enough time for that. The issue of free time is actually very important. First, you show sufficient courtesy. Secondly, if a girl has no principal objections regarding your proposal, but at the moment she really cannot spend time getting to know each other, you give her the opportunity to hint that in principle she does not refuse coffee, but not now. Thus, you can ask the next question, when it is possible, and whether there is a preference for where. Accordingly, the next logical question will be the phone number or identification in the social. networks, to coordinate joint action.
From the above example, it becomes clear that it is desirable to ask the girls questions with the possibility of building a logical chain, providing for the following questions arising from one another, incrementally.
Not standard questions to girls.
It is necessary to understand that the variant of starting dating based on non-logical, non-standard questions, it is desirable to be balanced, with an understanding of a certain proportion of risk with such a concept of dating and flirting.
Not every girl will understand and appreciate, for example, the question of what kind of light regime do cacti prefer in the autumn - winter period?
Less risk will contain a more neutral question, for example, what is the loading sequence of products, in the process of preparing a soup - mashed mushrooms.
But, in any case, a non-logical question for a girl should initially imply an opportunity to give an answer to it. And ideally, even two answer choices, logical and illogical.
There is also its own, indisputable advantage. Having built communication on the basis of non-standard questions, you will stand out significantly from the general mass of competitors, and pay more attention to yourself.
Let's sum up.
In conclusion, I would like to once again focus on the unconditional respect for correctness and a high degree of respect for the object of your attention.
And try to be different. Show your personality.
And the surest way to get into a mess is to start with a compliment to the girl, and then ask questions that you would not mind hearing in your address. Use the method of "mirror", feel yourself asking, and everything will fall into place. There are questions and answers to them.
