How to understand that you like a man?

When a woman meets an interesting man, she wants to understand whether he has a reciprocal sympathy, and whether she likes her. There is a classic courting scheme that a man sticks to in order to show that he likes a woman. He will give flowers, invite for dates, give compliments, etc. When a woman sees such an attitude toward herself, she realizes that a man has feelings towards her.

However, this “classic gentleman's set”, firstly, is known to everyone, so it is not always possible to determine the sincerity of feelings. Secondly, the man may not always manifest his emotions (for example, at work, or when he or she is not free). In such cases, it will take a little more attention to determine whether you like a man or not.

First meeting

If a woman is interested in something a man, he wants to talk with her. He may behave somewhat strangely - his goal at the moment is to draw the ladies' attention to himself, and how this will happen depends on his character, temperament, experience, fantasy.

In the first place, this can manifest itself in gestures and facial expressions, non-standard actions. At the same time, when dealing with young hot guys, this is so pronounced that “don't go to the fortuneteller”. Regardless of what actions their fantasies have enough, they will constantly look at the girl they like, assessing her reaction.

With older men, more experienced, the situation is a little more difficult - they are not so emotional, but still it will not be difficult to guess the interest. At this stage, the woman can either support communication with the right response, or chop off everything by the absence of it.

Correctly respond in this case - it is not necessary to show admiration or praise. You can carefully look at him, smile, scold a joke - it all depends on the act to which he is waiting for a reaction. As a rule, after this acquaintance goes into the stage of communication.

A man will try to keep the woman he likes within sight, will look at her more often, more closely than the rest. When a woman leaves the zone of visibility of a man, he is more likely to follow her.

What happens next?

At the initial stage of communication there is such a thing as “pulling at the pigtails”. All girls from kindergarten know what it means. But in older adults, the principle of action is somewhat modified, and not all girls can recognize it. The guy, being afraid to give out his feelings, can in the dialogue regularly “tease” the girl, make fun of her (without anger). This means that he is not indifferent to him.
In dealing with a woman who is interested in him, a man will always try to present himself from the best side - to talk about achievements at work, success in sports, worthy deeds.
A man’s desire to touch is always about the location of a man - “random”, but regular touches speak volumes.
You can compare the attitude of a man towards you and other women: the difference can be quite substantial. At the same time, such an analysis requires the absence of illusions to which girls in love are prone: try to adequately assess the situation. The man can change the timbre of the voice when he speaks with you, he turns the body towards you during a conversation, speaks louder or quieter than usual.
A man wants to spend as much time as possible with the object of his desires, but until he understands whether interest is mutual, he will try to hide it. Therefore, men so often offer women to "be friends." Here you need to understand the difference - if you are the initiator and offered a relationship to a man, and he is talking about friendship, then there is no talk of anything more. However, if he offers himself to be a friend, offers to help you with your questions, is ready to postpone his affairs in order to “repair” your machine or computer “in a friendly way”, he has much more serious plans for you.
If you make an appointment, he will not be offended if you are half an hour late. He will be happy to meet you anyway. The same applies to situations where a man does not have free time - this really happens, but he will find even 5 minutes to see you. And the road to the other end of the city will not become an insurmountable obstacle.
Compliments are always present in the life of a woman, if she likes a man. Still would! After all, she is always beautiful for him, even if she did not get enough sleep, was tired or did not have time to make up. He will be very attentive, noting any changes in her image.
A man is not afraid to let the woman he likes into his life. He will tell you things about himself that he does not tell others, he will discuss future plans. Your opinion will be important for him, so he will always ask what you think about this or that event. And he will certainly introduce you to his friends and family.

In fact, to understand whether a woman likes a man or not is simple enough. The main thing is not being held captive by his illusions, not to look at him through rose-colored glasses, and also to be easy to talk to, so that the man is not afraid to approach you and invite you for a date.

Ulyana, Novosibirsk