No matter how much they talk about the impossibility of friendship between girls, when something happens in a woman's life, she immediately calls her friend. Female friendship is an amazing concept for many reasons, and, unfortunately, not so often these relationships are sincere.
What is needed for friendship
A friend is an important part of a woman's life: she is an adviser, a psychologist, and a partner for different activities. How to find such a girlfriend?
Friendship develops through communication. Therefore, to establish such a relationship, you need to be attentive and friendly.
Often, the girlfriend becomes the girl who didn’t immediately like, or it seemed that she had nothing in common.
No need to search for your copy: real friends can be of different ages, have different tastes and hobbies. It is necessary to take into account these tastes, and not to demand from a friend to change her opinion.
Communication develops into friendship, when a person feels that he is really attentively listened to, they are sincerely interested in and honestly and respected.
Female friendship involves mutual interest. Therefore, we must be able to listen carefully, without haste to give advice. It is interesting for friends to spend time together, so everyone is ready to cut free time for communication from her busy schedule.
How to strengthen friendship
Honesty is the basis for trust. Do not deceive and dissemble. Women are naturally endowed with the ability to feel the mood and intonation, even a small deception to make recheck any information said.
Learn to rejoice, not envy. Envy destroys relationships, health, the ability to sensibly look at the world. If a friend has something better - her husband, looks, financial situation - excellent. This feeling will be sincere, because a truly dear person should have the best. In this case, it will not be difficult to ask for advice that she is particularly good at it.
The ability to sincerely forgive is something that female friendship cannot do without, just like any other relationship. It will still be needed - there are no perfect people, and a friend still once says something or does something wrong. To forgive, it was easier to try to understand, and perhaps remember, that she herself was once wrong. And if you remember about emotionality, hormonal changes, diets, and other difficulties of women's life, everything falls into place.
Female friendship does not give the right to live each other's lives. Each has its own personal living space, topics out of discussion, and decisions that are not being consulted. This is normal and must be accepted.
If a friend in some way delineates the boundaries - this does not mean that she does not trust or is offended. It just means that she has her own life.
What destroys relationships
In some places there is such a nuance of mentality: to gossip about a person you are good at. That is, behind the back they speak disgustingly even about friends. Someone believes that without this female friendship is impossible. At the same time, everyone understands that this is wrong, but this manner is very contagious.
Conscious efforts must be made not to be dragged into gossip. This destroys the trust and the general desire to communicate with the person.
There is absolutely no difference between listening to gossip or telling them. Both contribute to their spread and spoil the reputation of someone gossiping about, and those who participate in it.
Any person has a sore subject, and close people know about it. A woman may have a bad relationship, a difficult childhood, or a bad financial situation. In order not to reopen old wounds, it is better to avoid boasting in these matters. Do not boast a loving husband or an expensive manicure, and certainly not joking about it, no matter how ridiculous the thought may seem.
One film director said in an interview that love can be played, but friendship is not. Women's friendship requires sincerity, trust, honesty, and truly kindness. All this takes time and effort, but one who can be called a soul mate will help to endure any difficulties and share any joys.
