Unfaithful husbands are a very common phenomenon, which is no longer considered something unusual and is not fully censured by society. According to Russian statistics, almost 78% of men cheat on their legitimate wives. Men justify their polygamous, large amounts of testosterone, which does not allow them to control their instincts.
Today it is difficult to find a husband who has never cheated on his wife - such is the sad statistics: many wives do not even suspect that their husband is a fan of going "left." And the wives themselves are far from angels. According to statistics, in Russia, about 25% of women are capable of betraying their husband, finding comfort in the bed of other men.
The content of the article:
Why change women?
When torment remorse?
Psychologist's comment
Causes of women's treason
Female treason is a rather interesting phenomenon, which can sometimes have completely contradictory motives. Consider the most popular of them, to more clearly understand the nature of adultery to her husband.
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Dissatisfaction with sexual life is the most common cause of both male and female adultery. Why the wife can be dissatisfied with intimate life? There are several possible versions: the husband is not too attentive to her in bed; her temperament is hotter than her husband; the spouse has sexual problems; Spouses have cooled to each other after long years of family life. - Long separation. If the husband is a trucker or a sea captain, then not every young woman will be able to endure such a long separation. If a woman is also beautiful, then the probability of her infidelity increases due to the pampered masculine attention and ease of finding a partner.
- Misunderstanding Strangely enough, most often housewives cheat on their husbands, and not working women. Sitting at home, the wife is left to herself and has a lot of free time. Out of boredom or a desire to increase one's self-confidence, some married women start thinking about romance with another man, and often such thoughts become reality.
- The desire for revenge. Many wives go for treason after the betrayal of her husband. If the family managed to be preserved after the husband’s infidelity, this does not mean that the wife calmed down and forgot everything: especially vengeful women are able to find a lover on purpose and let her husband know about it, so that he would experience the same pain that she would doom with her party.
Dissatisfaction with sexual life is the most common cause of both male and female adultery. Why the wife can be dissatisfied with intimate life? There are several possible versions: the husband is not too attentive to her in bed; her temperament is hotter than her husband; the spouse has sexual problems; Spouses have cooled to each other after long years of family life.Feminine and masculine attitudes towards treason
Still, women change differently, and the main difference in their behavior is the ability to hide their adventures. Women are more cunning, insidious and sensitive, so they know how to disclose the betrayal of their husbands, and to keep silent about their own sins.
If a woman has changed and does not want anyone to know about it, then this may well remain her secret. It is more difficult for men to keep such secrets: being males who want to fertilize as many females as possible, they like to show off their victories and tell their friends about their novels. Wives are more suspicious: female friendship is generally more complicated than male friendship, and not every woman trusts her friends enough to tell about her infidelity.
Remorse
There is one more thing that distinguishes women’s treason from men’s — these are remorse of conscience that torments unfaithful wives much more often and more than unfaithful husbands.
If we are talking about an accidental unintentional betrayal that happened by coincidence (in a state of intoxication, for example), then the torment of a conscientious wife can increase threefold. Often in such situations there may be a desire to repent, which can lead to thoughtless actions.
What to do if you have changed your husband, and now you cannot find peace in yourself? Here are some tips that will help not to break the wood:
- If you want to keep your family, in no case do not talk about your misconduct - this can lead to irreparable consequences.
- Get rid of the remorse of conscience will help good deeds and concern for her husband. Make him pleasant: prepare a delicious dinner, fulfill his erotic fantasy, make a surprise. If this does not help, confess (if you are religious), or help someone, do a good deed.
- If you have a close person you really trust, speak out. This will help give relief to emotional stress.
If conscience torments you on another occasion - for example, you and your lover really have strong feelings for each other, then there is no point in deceiving yourself and your own husband. It is likely that living together with a new man will be for you the ideal of family relationships.
Whatever the case, whatever the situation, always listen to your heart - it definitely will not deceive you. But do not forget to listen to the voice of reason.
Not always the original passion can turn into a real feeling, so you should not chop off the shoulder: appreciate all the pros and cons, so as not to regret their choice.
Olga, Kislovodsk
