When meeting with a young man, you are madly wanting to unravel him, to understand what he is. Do you think if he will really love you, will he offend you? Do not immediately fall in love, sensibly consider the situation. Sometimes, it is better to immediately terminate the relationship, as it will be more painful.
In order to understand whether you need this person or not, we’ll give the following points, which you need to think about.
- If your young man does not show signs of sympathy and this is evident, then you do not need him 100%. Why waste your precious time if he does not want you, you are not interested in him? Moreover, if a man who is late for dates or quickly wants to leave under some pretext, this means that everything is a dead end!
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If you have different attitudes. For example, you like to work, to move up the career ladder, and vice versa, to work on the average salary, or even lower, and raise three children, or even more. You like to live in a residential area, in a quiet town, and he travels abroad, living in the center of the capital. It is necessary to conclude that you will have nothing in common; - You are trying to build a relationship with a person who drinks, smokes and takes drugs, and you are also trying to help him defeat these addictions. Remember: "humpback will correct the grave." If the person himself does not want to do this, you will not help him: this is a habit that only he himself can get rid of. Think well, you need such a person, the more dependencies have the properties to return, and you still have children to grow ...
- Having spent several meetings together, you noticed that your chosen one has no friends at all, but why? After all, he grew up among people, not on a desert island? Perhaps the reason is that he neglected relations with friends, lied, substituted many times, it is impossible to rely on him in difficult times, and it can just be a terrible bore? Take a closer look at him!
- If you notice that your young man thinks that a woman is an empty place or second grade, drop him right away. Why do you need such a chosen one if he thinks that it is women's responsibility to stay at home, prepare food, raise children, and she has no right to vote ?! This, of course, in the worst case, and at best - just your requests will be indifferent.
- Your chosen one has seven Fridays in the week. Of course, this can be, but it happens under certain circumstances. And so, if he is indecisive, ignores your requests, he changes his plans and your plans, without warning you, it would be no wonder if you find out about marriage 1 minute before the registrar. You can fight this quality, but you will need endurance and patience; if you succeed, it is very good.
- Your young man may be "my mother's son." To consider it is very simple. Observe: Does it often say the words "my mother does so, my mother cooks ..., my mother and I ...". If a man lives without a reason near his mother, listens only to her and always asks for permission, then this is just a blockage!
If you have different attitudes. For example, you like to work, to move up the career ladder, and vice versa, to work on the average salary, or even lower, and raise three children, or even more. You like to live in a residential area, in a quiet town, and he travels abroad, living in the center of the capital. It is necessary to conclude that you will have nothing in common;Finding a loved one is not so easy. After all, you go with him all your life, and you want not to be mistaken in it, therefore, look at the advice and be decisive and sensible.
Antonina, Yegoryevsk
